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| Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 5:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I'm 19 about to turn 20 and still don't know how to approach a girl and also still don't know how to keep a conversation with a girl... Im the type of guy who girls are crushing on, I ain't ugly and too handsome as person tho.. I usually feel shy to talk to girls probably the ones I'm crushing on and usually get intimidated by guys who are more handsome than me.. guys pls how do I boost my self esteem and summon courage to talk with girls.. ignore my errors pls |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Elmiguel(m): 6:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I would advise against chasing girls now as your age should have other priorities before women. Consider your future first, establish it and you won't have a hard time wooing women. No rush in life. Quick decisions and early gratification usually bring regrets. 2 Likes |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 6:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Elmiguel: ok |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Xenry: 6:03pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Hahaha, it's not funny shaaa. But lemme give you some tips. 1) Talk to her as if you are talking to your fellow guy. 2)Try n practice mindfulness (meditation), to reduce anxiety and nervousness. 3)If you can't chase them, attract them. 4)Start in small ways, don't rush. 5)Learn how to maintain eye contact (very important), she should be the one to look away, not you. You can start by practicing it with your siblings. 6) Approach her through social media, and it would be easier for you offline. 7)Don't make it obvious to her that you are into (interested in) her, or she would make it difficult for you. 8.) Finally. Read a lot, Eat Healthy, Exercise well, and Worry Less (No girl is worth worrying for) and you would be fine.  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Elmiguel(m): 6:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Cashsteady: All these are signs that you're too naive to be in a relationship. Your age should be thinking of how to secure a better future not how to carry women. Love your life more bro. Future before women 2 Likes |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Solzate(m): 6:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Try going out,get out of your comfort zone. Visit malls, cinemas ,restaurant any where you can find girl's in ur area and just talk to them freely they won't kill you, trust me 2 Likes |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Kriss216: 6:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Cashsteady:You’re just 19, you should be concerned how you can approach the hurdles of life. Life ain’t a bed of roses. Having Buhari as a president till 2023 is not gonna be easy for anyone in Nigeria. Focus your attention on relevant things, try and be useful to yourself and your community! 1 Like |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 6:07pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Solzate: ngl anytime I'm in the midst of my friends I don't feel shy to with girls but when it's just me alone I literally just get clueless and won't even know what to say |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 6:09pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Kriss216: bro I'm an adult.. |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:10pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
OP my man, Lols Your feelings is getting in the way of your logic, hence the difficulty in talking. I believe you have female friends that you talk freely with? See a girl you admire in that light. As for relationship my opinion, wait till 21, for now make females friends and learn to connect genuinely and talk freely, build your emotional stability, read great books on relationship and find a gift you can die for, develop it, the confidence you sustained in working on yourself will ooz out when you walk up to that lady you admire. most challenges in life is a product of insufficient information on the said subject matter. Cheers brother |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:14pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Kriss216: Guy!!! @bolded where una day get inspiration like this haba  |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 6:15pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Xenry: thank you I hope it works |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Kriss216: 6:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Cashsteady:No, you’re not! You’re just an overgrown baby. |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 6:17pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: yh I have a girl I'm very free with she's a year older tho and making female friends is not hard but to approach them and bring up a conversation is the problem |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by EzegeNdiigbo: 6:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Ogbeni calm down joor na wetin i understand you feel buh look, lemme take 30 Seconds to advice you chasing a bae is a normal every niqqa do on a daily basis buh things has change now haven't you heard about "NA MONEY BE FINE BOBO" Eh get money first and everything will fallen in .. #CHUGAAEGO |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Enudapan: 6:35pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Nah eh! No qualms This is so unsophisticated Cashsteady: U are still young son Forget woman now on focus on any hustle Available Buh u case is bad that you can't talk to a Woman (it's really bad, ) To stop this start taking mushin weed Always visit places where you are being celebrated and not places where you are being tolerated Also on this Nairaland Search for dating drills by one mr harddon Read it and convert it into a daily manual My two weeds 1 Like |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Cashsteady(m): 6:39pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo: bro let me tell u something not every girl are after your money.. u may get money pass dangote that one no mean say na every girl go like u 1 Like |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by EzegeNdiigbo: 6:43pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Cashsteady:Don't doubt me when i say 96% of 9ja babes are after DOE |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Dreadlock69(m): 6:53pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Smoke your weeds Drink your liquor Read your books Go to parties with lots of girls there Get a black jeans, black jacket ,black watch ,black shirt ,black palms,black shoes. Get simple accessories Have a active Instagram and Twitter account Get an iPhone Follow your passion Learn how to jump from relationship to relationship without feeling hurts Have few friends Always get high never come down Have sex with any girls 16 upward Get dreadlocks Have a recreational activity swimming , football, dancing, singing any Most importantly don't turn to Maga or mumu |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Solzate(m): 9:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Cashsteady: That's why I said get out of your comfort zone, try talking to girl when you are not with your friends.. let me tell you a secret, women are very easy going creatures, also if you want to talk to women go for the pretty ones, The ones that are beautiful go for them.just be free with your self |
| Re: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Sonnobax15(m): 9:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
 And a mad man had to quickly come to the op's rescue by advising him to smoke and get involved in other bad habits  Nigeria will always be a stagnant country as long as we keep co-habiting in it with people who still derives pleasure from their madness... Chaii......some people dey mad oh |
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