Hello Nairalanders, I need mature advice. I got a new job in kano state, and also I'm a new wedded guy please i need advice on how to break the news to her. Any mature advice will appreciated. Although she has a work she's doing but I feel we will live comfortable there. Please advice a brother.

Break what news? Since u decided on m0ving, she wil follow u.

Lolzz...break the news to her the same way u went to toast her.


Moreover, u need to go start work overder first and see things for yourself before allowing ur wife resign

Live comfortable where? you had better adhere to what the person above me suggested. Maybe the person below me might have something useful to say

Kano is a beautiful city with welcoming indigenes, I know this cos I was born and bred there, forget all the nonsense you see on sm, learn the Hausa language, it should be your first priority cos it will open doors for you, and hausas like it when non indigenes can speak their language, they see it as a stressful effort we embark on, and they respect and value women too. In summary, be their friend and watch how they will shield and protect you from the bad ones, you'll be fine

As for your wife, just tell her.