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Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by CalliDora1(f): 10:25am On Jan 14
Fiscus105:



If you read her epistle very well, thou she is introvert, not up to the guy she is dating, she don't likes to be relating and sharing thoughts with anybody but her guy alone, so many people are like that.

2ndly no where in her story where she said her guy is extrovert

Yeah, she never said he's an extrovert but from her description of him, you could tell he is because introverts don't hang out with friends and her guy does. which is where the problem lies as she herself doesn't like to hang out.

I'm an introvert and I've never dated an extrovert because after one or two forceful Hangouts, I'm back to my shell. So it won't work!.
Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by 1030(m): 10:53am On Jan 14
He has moved on while you are wasting your precious time waiting.
Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by donifecent(m): 11:12am On Jan 14
many of us believe say senior officers they knack una for office sake of to give una soft posting. the guy too I believe say him no they interested for long distance relationship again. because him no fit control waiting you they do for barrack
Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by Enugupikin: 11:57am On Jan 14
CalliDora1:


It doesn't work that way in this case.

Introvert vs introvert
Extrovert vs extrovert.

If You don't share common interests, it won't work as there will always be clashes from differences in your likes and dislikes.
I must agree with you, is not like electric connection of positive and negative working together and two charges repelling. They must be a common interest and commitment to make it work

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Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by CalliDora1(f): 12:01pm On Jan 14
Enugupikin:

I must agree with you, is not like electric connection of positive and negative working together and two charges repelling. They must be a common interest and commitment to make it work

Gbam!
Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by TheVictim01(m): 12:14pm On Jan 14
He's got the power, you're at his mercy now. Wishing you the very best in pulling through through the shackles of a false doctrine called love.
Dotar:
Please,kindly ignore any grammatical error.

I am a female military personnel dating a civilian in a distance relationship, I'm naturally clingy in a relationship, I love attention alot but my guy is always claiming busy at work ( well understood) but when he's off from work he doesn't give me a satisfied attention because is either he's sleeping,wants to prepare something to eat or already out chilling with a friend and whenever I call when he's out,he will tell me he's in a noisy place and can't talk till he gets home. so,most times I stay awake till 11 pm to get to speak with him before going to bed.

I always feel pretty lonely because I'm an introvert,I don't have friends.I really wish to keep another man to serve as a distraction but i find it difficult to because I love wholeheartedly and can only love one man at a time.

I cry everytime begging for his attention yet no changes,I feel ashamed that I can't have a grip over my emotions.

Right now,I am seriously fade up i dont know what to do any more, i have talked and talked but all fell on blocked ears, he doesnt even feel remorse whenever I complain,he rather defends himself and gives justifications for his actions and even blame me for being inconsiderate and that if I can't cope I should go because he's tired of my incessant complains.

I feel stucked in this relationship because i find it difficult to call it quit..i begged him to call it a quit but he said he can't do it,that I can go if that's what I want.

please advise me on what to do because I'm dying slowly.
Re: I Am Female Military Personnel In Love With A Civilian But He Isn't Reciprocatin by HellVictorinho(m): 1:54pm On Jan 14
CalliDora1:


Guys who chyk ladies openly are kiddos. Most of them here are small boys. Trust me.

I joke and play around here with almost every one and I want it to stay that way. I believe he's also joking.

Thanks.
But there was no other way of doing it.
So,why can't you just say that you're not interested??

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