Be patient and be supportive. I'm the same way. When I'm working on a project, I disconnect from everything that is outside that project which can sometimes take months. My wife knows me enough not to disturb me with unnecessary matters, and I appreciate her for that. My food is ready when I need it, my house is running well and I can focus, and when I'm working at home into the night, a miraculous cup of coffee with my favourite biscuits always appear on the table beside me without my asking. Just do the same and when it's over, he'll adore you. Don't be needy. To a man, providing for his family is his most important duty and he only feels fulfilled when he's fully engaged in it. When he's done with the project, remind him how neglected you've been all this time and re-engage to revive your romance.

Meteng:
Women! Always confused. The guy stay for house, you say e too stay for house. He comot go hustle, you say he no dey stay for house again. Na wa o

their wahala too much

NwaAmaikpe:




Point of notice...the spark never remains in love or in marriage. It is left to you to spice it up through mind games or sexual escapades.

Your husband is not the only one guilty of not noticing what he should notice...you are too!
Don't tell me you have not noticed other men who are noticing you.

Notice them back, flirt with some of them...get distracted by the attention they give you and if you have the heart for it; spread your legs for a few but please don't bring home a bastard baby.

Your husband will definitely notice your lack of clinginess and he will begin to cling to you out of fear that he may be losing you because like Usher rightly said; "you never miss a good thing till it leaves you".

Don't say things like this in the guise of making jokes.

It is very very wrong! To be deliberately misleading.