I meet this girl online from a group chat I forced to Dm her because of her intelligence. We started chatting calling getting really close. I asked her out she told she is not ready for relationship but along the line she accepted and we started dating.
Just last week I went to visit her to spend the weekend with her and I discovered she was chatting with a guy she claimed to her neighbor which she get close to during the period of lockdown, she always share a pictures nudes they were close that the guy know her menstrual cycle.
I confronted her she said there is nothing going on that they get too comfortable with each other the guy loved her but she was only playing along, they went out once and had sex.

Now am confused she have been crying and sending lots of message begging that it is me she love that the both of them didn't define what they have that it just happened.
She lied cheated on me but I find it difficult to let her go.

Leh her go

She is a Chameleon
Stay with her and tell "Story That Touch"

I no know why guys dey overlook those things wey dey define girls wey dey their whoring stage. Girl wey wan explore, nothing u go do wey go make her change her lifestyle, if u like give her the whole world. This thing remind me of the movie "original sin".

So, why are you confused now?



They went out just once and had sex.



She’s a cheap slut! No self esteem, no dignity.


A cheap hoe is deadlier than Lucifer.

She go do am again. Just let go if you can!!

Online relationship +distance do work if you both truly set your heart up for it, there's no excuse whatsoever to justify cheating.
Don't say you weren't warned!

EzegeNdiigbo:
Leh her go


She is a Chameleon

Stay with her and tell "Story That Touch"

Just finding it difficult the relationship is not even up to a month

Michelle55:
She go do am again. Just let go if you can!!

Online relationship +distance do work if you both truly set your heart up for it, there's no excuse whatsoever to justify cheating.
Don't say you weren't warned!

Thanks

rasheylaw:
I meet this girl online from a group chat I forced to Dm her because of her intelligence. We started chatting calling getting really close. I asked her out she told she is not ready for relationship but along the line she accepted and we started dating.
Just last week I went to visit her to spend the weekend with her and I discovered she was chatting with a guy she claimed to her neighbor which she get close to during the period of lockdown, she always share a pictures nudes they were close that the guy know her menstrual cycle.
I confronted her she said there is nothing going on that they get too comfortable with each other the guy loved her but she was only playing along, they went out once and had sex.

Now am confused she have been crying and sending lots of message begging that it is me she love that the both of them didn't define what they have that it just happened.
She lied cheated on me but I find it difficult to let her go.

so what do want us to do about this your new found confusion?

is the confusion emanating from her crying abi you are confused about her confession.

because even me sef I am confused to tell you to either use ya head well or make papa kumuyi should pray for your deliverance

its all in ur head bro....everybody is unique and can be replaced by other special variant..
nobody is irreplaceable bcox dey aint "follow come charger"

Yeye dey smell

Michelle55:
She go do am again. Just let go if you can!!

Online relationship +distance do work if you both truly set your heart up for it, there's no excuse whatsoever to justify cheating.
Don't say you weren't warned!

Strongly agree.

Fake stories that fuel misogyny on nairaland.
How come it's men who complain of being cheated more on nairaland, than women, seeing as the average man has a higher libido than the average woman, thanks to the male hormone testosterone? How come about?

Cause of the second law of thermodynamics that deals with entropy the law explains why

Chii59:
Fake stories that fuel misogyny on nairaland.
How come it's men who complain of being cheated more on nairaland, than women, seeing as the average man has a higher libido than the average woman, thanks to the male hormone testosterone? How come about?

You are not a guy that's why you don't understand what guys go through everyday, some may be false but I can tell you at least 65%+ are true.
And isn't what you are saying sexist too? you ladies just feel guys are not human beings, that guys can't get hurt or feel emotional pain.
in most relationship where age is not a factor men have much to lose so don't judge when you have not expirenced life as a guy

paulolee:
its all in ur head bro....everybody is unique and can be replaced by other special variant..
nobody is irreplaceable bcox dey aint "follow come charger"

Hmmmmm true

Fvckyouall:
Cause of the second law of thermodynamics that deals with entropy the law explains why

I don't understand