First of all, I sincerely appreciate you for the birthday and anniversary wishes, thanks a lot and God bless.

This article is strictly for open minded persons, kindly take note.

Marriage is sweet, marriage is anything you have to qualify it, but may I let you know that marriage is the end product of your decision before signing the dotted lines.

What's influencing your decision to stay forever with that person, this is a check today.

Yes, we cannot remove the very important factor which is the God factor, but please note that not all godly person are good for you. He or she may be very godly, bearing precious fruits, but they may not be the good option for you in marriage.

So, slow down when you are considering their anointing or spiritual ‘jimjim,’ that alone won't make a home. Am I confusing you on spiritual matters?

No, I'm only saying, there is a place of attitude, character, selflessness, discipline, communication, capacity to accommodate in love and so on.

A woman will only function well as that sweet wife you want if she is firstly into God, and her emotional bank gets deposit consistently. If you make your wife a trophy wife, then expect to get decorated vibes from her occasionally. She is like a plant that blossoms when watered and cared for, but when you stop watering this flower, she withers and the sad part is that it will take time to return her back to blossoming.

A man on the other hand is not driven by emotion, but their 'busyness' can be occasionally paused with your words of affirmation, respect, prayers and submission. It is not only sex that makes a man happy, please note.

These other things mentioned above are vital for them.

Are you ready to love selflessly, to forgive unconditionally, to accommodate excesses, to communicate no matter the situation?

Think about all these before signing the dotted lines…is your marriage on pause or moving? Take time to check out any fault and amend accordingly.

Be teachable, listening and selfless in loving your spouse.

Have a great day
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