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Re: Is It Safe For A Man To Be Transparent With His Wife Financially? by Shortyyy(f): 8:16pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Safe For A Man To Be Transparent With His Wife Financially? by Shortyyy(f): 8:21pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Familytalk9909: You have someone like this in your life and you want to start changing because of naysayers? Sometimes people meet their guardian angel in form of wives but they don't know. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Safe For A Man To Be Transparent With His Wife Financially? by bukatyne(f): 8:35pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Familytalk9909: Thanks for your post. Human beings are naturally selfish and are not objective to see they are selfish. Most mothers expect from their husbands what they do not want their sons to do for their wives. Most fathers treat their wives they way they would not tolerate anyone to treat their daughters. That's why a mother would complain her son is treating his wife the way she wanted to be treated by her husband and a father who pummels his wife would warn his son-in-law not to touch his daughter. That's why a father who told his wife to resign because 'she is proud' would train his daughter to Harvard if he can afford it. That's why a woman who was unsupportive to her husband would scream when she thinks her son's wife is not supportive. That also cascades to sisters-in-laws and brothers-in-law etc. etc. My point: your mother complains about something you do for/with your wife doesn't mean it is wrong: it may mean they think it is too much (they would gladly accept such treatment). I would bet your mom would be elated if your sisters' husbands do the same thing you are doing with your wife. That's why it is NOT healthy to tell everything especially positive/a working formula with spouses to parents (except you learnt it from that parent). It brings about bitterness towards the other party and talk of he/she is 'controlling' my son/daughter. See the intricate financial details you have exchanged so far with your birth family as the last one. They have no business how you run your finances. Like I said earlier, don't change the winning formula. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Safe For A Man To Be Transparent With His Wife Financially? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Familytalk9909: Dear OP ,you have so much working well and going well , even from hour posts you know you have achieved more with that woman helping you to save,,many men wish for what you have ![]() Yes you love your mum, but if you have never complained that your wife cheated you why would she give such advice that can trigger chaos, anarchy, mistrust, bitterness and bickering?? That was not so good of her. Although,like someone said, when our siblings or parents see us enjoy with our partner the way they did not experience in their time, there is a bit of envy. So pls learn to keep some home secrets at home too,, it is not because you mok and wife are wicked but they are humans.... If you ask me, your home is built on trust which you and your wife have worked hard to put together and it is still working,, please dont destroy it, you may never ever get a second chance to rebuild You really have what many people desire!!! Ndi igbo si "jisieya ike" 1 Like |
Re: Is It Safe For A Man To Be Transparent With His Wife Financially? by infotainment(m): 9:48pm On Jan 28, 2021 |
Familytalk9909:It's ur money, she's ur wife, ur method has been working for u both and have been living happily there after ...... Mr. Oga if i were u i will continue in what is working for my family. 1 Like |
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