CanadianNaija:


You are such an irresponsible man sha. You mean to tell me that you went ahead and got remarried despite not knowing the whereabouts of your kids?

You don't know about lawyers? Human rights organizations that can get you visitation rights? Nothing? You just moved on with your life and allowed your twins to be separated, not contributing anything to their upkeep, and your excuse is that your wife's family didn't let you.

Tell us again how it happened that your wife, a grown woman was taken by her family from your house just based on here say from her mum? You don't want to say the truth. Well done, let's clap for you for remembering the children now.

Saintmary:

For a full grown man and woman to get up from their house, and help their daughter and sister to leave her husband's house, as a reasonable person, won't you wonder what the woman has been experiencing.
She died, her family is grieving, hubby is asking for babies.

Is he not being insensitive?

These people just think judges and family affairs workers are not humans!

Coldplay007:


Great idea.. it took too long though.. Mother in law,l came to pick her daughter from you and probably killed her, and you are now raising an issue four years after ..

Richy4:


I know how attached women are with their babies. (Not wishing the OP dead) but Assuming revise was the case and OP's family took the twins from his wife and she came online and narrated the same thing that op said, will your judgement have been the same? Will you have started questioning what killed the husband?

You as a woman, if someone decides to take your kids while you were alive irrespective of what ever happened, will you be the happiest woman on earth?.. I think there are times to play the gender card. This is not it..A father wants his kids.. that was why he came to ask for suggestions.

Please Stop trying desperately to crucify him... We are not talking about the wife but the kids.

Karleb:


By law, the kids belong to their immediate parents.

You can only take away a kid from their immediate parent if they are not being taken care of.

The man also lost his wife. They even gave him a wrong funeral date after collecting bride price.

How is he being insensitive for demanding for his own kids kwanu?

4 years and you no see your ejima, how body go dey do you?

Saintmary:


This is the point I'm making, that you don't want to understand, some things have been happening in that marriage, and between the in laws before the woman's passing. That is the hidden fact the man is reluctant to reveal, and since the woman is no longer alive, there's no one to counter his story, let him settle matters with his in laws, instead of looking for a way to force their hand.
How can all the siblings of your late wife, without an exception, how can they all despise you to the extent of keeping your babies from you?


Let us be good, it's not only for today, it's for the future.

Bola146:


After good four years What were you thinking after a year or two years It's well

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

This story get as e be but in the mean time let say this.

Did you pay your wife dowry?
Why will they hold your children? I think reporting them to the police or human rights as you said will be better. Unless you didn't pay her dowry complete if not they will hold your children because that how some custom do.


Imagine how one prophet have cause calamity here? Probably he's enjoying at home now. A prophet is not sent to cause problems but to bring break through and warn people going astray to align/amend in God's way. Also you reason why I always stand on the discerning spirit as Christians.. You can't have this spirit and be mislead by all this gullible so called prophet.

DukeNija:

Did you read his story? Or you just want to be stupid.

Richy4:


If he doesn't want to reveal it to anyone, I don't think we should force him to.. He doesn't owe anyone here an explanation on what transpired between him and his wife.... He needed suggestion on how to get his kids and that's what we are interested in and their welfare too.

Let me ask you this question and I need an honest to God answer of yes or No

Mrs X got married to Mr X who happens to be a mummy's Boy. 3 years into their marriage, the Family of Mr X especially the mother Starts pressurizing her son to leave the marriage because according to her, the wife was mistreating him in that relationship...

A year later, he succumbed to their pressure, took their 3year old baby and work out of that relationship to their family home just to cool off...mind you, they were not divorced.

Some months into their separation he had a heart attack and died... The family would not want to see the wife, they did not allow her to come to the funeral because according to them, she killed him.. and they took the 3year old baby and refused to give the baby to the mother..

Do you think irrespective of what happened, they have that right to deprive the mother of her baby?

Saintmary:


It is well. I think the man is hiding some vital parts of the story.

Saintmary:


Put your emotions aside, so that you can discern the holes in his story.

Then, put yourself in the Grandma's shoes, can you leave your grandchildren in the care of a nursing Stepmom.

Daddyejima4:
We were legally married, traditional and church wedding

Daddyejima4:
Thank you everyone the issue has been resolved my babies are safe and sound.

Daddyejima4:
Thank you everyone the issue has been resolved my babies are safe and sound.

Kobojunkie:
But your wife left you before having the babies. Why did she leave you?

princeeze1:

Is it that you did not see where he stated clearly that his mother/brother in-laws too away his wife in his absence due to a prophet accusing him of planning to use her for rituals? His story is very detailed, and from the stand point of the law, his in-laws have no rights to deprive him of his children unless their well-being and safety is not guaranteed with him. Custody starts with immediate parents. At Op, you should have reported this case since. Go to the state command and get your mother Inlaw arrested for the abduction of your late pregnant wife. While she is in custody, they will bring your children.

Daddyejima4:



Thanks for the advice. The issue has been resolved I did the exact same thing I have reported her for child abduction she was arrested and her daughter who had custody of both of my twins came in with the kids. We have come to an agreement with their aunty that I am allowed to see my children every holidays and I will be sending upkeep. The kids will come and stay with me when they are 7 years old. The agreement was signed by both of us and she cannot play with the law or else she will go back to jail.

Kellzzyy:

Okay. Good for you.
But why would the kids stay with them for extra three years? What if they maltreat, or emotionally, psychologically or otherwise damage your kids before then?
Na you know sha

stinflame:
The deed is done, your wife cannot tell her tales and as it stands that isn’t important anymore. We aren’t celebrating she died, but she doing it in her parents hand absorb you of a thousand blames the evil parents would have heaped on you.We can’t even tell if it is as a result of poor medical attention.
Do all that is within you power and resources to get back your kids, you bore them and no one I repeat no one have any right over them unless you are laid 6 feet under the ground. Go violent if it means to . This is a slap and an insult to your family lineage, you should never allow another family ride over your blood, if you do your ancestors will never be happy with you and if you die your mockery in the world beyond just begin, act fast and set the record straight.

Daddyejima4:


Thank you this is a old thread the issue have been resolved

Daddyejima4:
Thank you everyone the issue has been resolved my babies are safe and sound.

Ishilove:

Thank God

Daddyejima4:


The reason why they have to stay with their aunty because they don't know me they have been with her for almost 5 years and I am like a stranger to them. They have to bond with me first before I can take custody of them , I don't want to take them away just like that from the people they have known all their life. I am not in a rush I want them to get use to me to feel free around me so when I take them it will not cause any problem between us. So far they are very healthy and clean I am grateful to their aunty for taking good care of my babies.

Daddyejima4:


The reason why they have to stay with their aunty because they don't know me they have been with her for almost 5 years and I am like a stranger to them. They have to bond with me first before I can take custody of them , I don't want to take them away just like that from the people they have known all their life. I am not in a rush I want them to get use to me to feel free around me so when I take them it will not cause any problem between us. So far they are very healthy and clean I am grateful to their aunty for taking good care of my babies.