My sister, don't be deceived, men are attracted by what they see on the outside first before they get attracted by what's inside you.

Forget that inner beauty they preach to you in your local community meetings, men can't see what's in you untill they get closer to you.

If I don't find you attractive physically, I won't come near you. You can't be looking unkempt and be shouting "it's inner beauty that matters." Yes, inner beauty matters, but outside beauty propels a man to 'chyke' you.

Even pastors go for outside beauty first before getting to know if she's spirit-filled; if she's burning for Christ.

It's like a man who wants to buy a car, if the body looks so rusty and dirty, even though the engine is brand new and in a very good shape, he won't be attracted to such car.

You don't have to be rich like DJ Cuppy or Kim Kadeshean to look beautiful. Make your hair, wear dresses that suit your skin colour, look presentable, package yourself well and walk like you're not owing cooperative society any money.

You are a woman, a beautiful one...it is how you present yourself people will welcome you.

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