ifyalways:

A mixture and a balanced dose of both.

Reasons;The values and sense of our grandmothers is an effective tool in handling the challenges of the modern family unit.

seedord247:

I know no say if you finish school oooooo

Ayoobscom:

If not modern marriage what else?

Where you are bankrupted

where the husband making ewedu

and the wife busy doing make-up(can't afford to miss the party)

why not modern marriage

where all the children were born before marriage comes

why not modern marriage

where your wife was one a girfriend to all your neigbors

why not modern marriage where the wife does not want to see any husb's relative

why not modern marriage where the husband sees the househelp more often than the wife in dinning and even in bed

why not it?

ajalaolanr:

I think The Values of been a wife is fast dissappering with the wind, the woman has lost her role and wants to live a life like a man, we forget the core essence of a woman is to be a mans Helper, however this has changed due to the ever increasing socio economic problems that smacks us in the face worldwide>, these days values are lost, the woman jumps on the next ride and changes husband like shes changing her tampon, all due respect to the ladies in the houose but i think we have more sluts than wifes these days.

manmustwac:

my mother was delivered to her husband (who was based in london at the time) back in 1964 like DHL they knew they were both from the same village but didn't know each other and after 6 children and 45 years later they are still together. So to me olden day marriages were the best

ifyalways:

Reason;The values and sense of our grandmothers is an effective tool in handling the challenges of the modern family unit.

nwa-ghana:

Does it mean modern ladies do not have values? Just asking 

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naijababe:

Olden marriage, roles clearly defined and less selfishness IMO

Modern marriages - too many blurred lines, me i'm still confused sef

nwa-ghana:
Does it mean modern ladies do not have values? Just asking  .

spikedcylinder:


I disagree with the highlighted.
There was a lot of selfishness, only that it came from the men. These days, both parties choose to be selfish.

sophy09:

I support modern marriage because I live in a modern society. I live in society whereby I have to work 24/7 to be support my family. I appreciate the olden marriage and I incorporated it in my modern marriage. In those days, women were appreciated.  A man can afford his wife to be a stay home mum but now where is the money. The economy is going down. What we see on TV is part of the problem. Ladies like beyonce are crying out  independent ladies. Guys like 50 cents are crying out have a baby by me and be a millionaire or some rap artist see ladies as "bitches". I mean I listen to my dad music collections and I see the beautiful of love and marriage.
Every aspect of this modern life has changed people one way or another. The only way is to be modern but keep the olden marriage values.