dawnomike:
This is annoying and sad... Maybe the first daughter belongs to a senior military personnel

light099:
This kind of threads occur over and over again, the question is, don't modern men learn? You just saw a woman and married her? Who does that?
You see all these veteran, overused bitches and retired hoes getting married every weekend and you wonder the kind of men marrying them. I just laugh and SMH. A year later, you see these guys crying, creating funny threads all about. Well, I just laugh, don't expect me to cry more than the bereaved. You made your choice, so deal with it.

I don't pity men who marry Jezebel as wife, this may sound mean but it doesn't to me.
If as a man, you gat two big working eyes connected to your skull, your brain is working well, you walked with your two legs to her and opened your mouth to woo a Jezebel to be your wife and you won her over, then a big congratulations is the only thing I'd say. You must have enough balls to deal with whatever results from the union. As a man, you saw wahala, priced it, ordered it and got it. So deal with it, cry to no one when you get what you ordered for.

When the Holy Book warned men many times saying "beware of bitches......." you think that's an empty talk. The book of Proverbs warned men over and over and over again. Funny enough, those were still days when woman were virtuous, yet the Holy Book warned so much. How much more these days when the virtue bar of most women has dropped from 100% to 1%.

I remember warning a dumb kid years ago, he was too wise in his own eyes. You see a lot of these dumb people and teenagers on a platform like this everyday. Kids who don't know nothing but would be quick to jump into one's mention to argue with an elder more experienced and smarter than them. Now when you make them realize how dumb they're, they vanish back to where they came from. Well, as an open-minded fella, I know everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Even dumb people have the right to be dumb. So it doesn't really feel strange to me when I see these dumb people daily, who still feel proud with their dumbness, feeling like they know everything.

Just like Vin Diesel said in Babylon AD, "there's no mercy for the weak". No pity for men who chose not to apply wisdom. Threads like this are refreshing, always give me something to laugh about.
I know if your friend went back in time to re-choose who to marry, he would make a far better and wiser choice.

For all unmarried men reading this, you still have the opportunity to chose wisely. Most of the bitches parading as women these days are not to be married by any sane man, but if you choose to do otherwise, you're a man and you're free to make your choice, except that, cry to no one when you got what you ordered for.

Remijuice:
The Future is Really Female

light099:
This kind of threads occur over and over again, the question is, don't modern men learn? You just saw a woman and married her? Who does that?
You see all these veteran, overused bitches and retired hoes getting married every weekend and you wonder the kind of men marrying them. I just laugh and SMH. A year later, you see these guys crying, creating funny threads all about. Well, I just laugh, don't expect me to cry more than the bereaved. You made your choice, so deal with it.

I don't pity men who marry Jezebel as wife, this may sound mean but it doesn't to me.
If as a man, you gat two big working eyes connected to your skull, your brain is working well, you walked with your two legs to her and opened your mouth to woo a Jezebel to be your wife and you won her over, then a big congratulations is the only thing I'd say. You must have enough balls to deal with whatever results from the union. As a man, you saw wahala, priced it, ordered it and got it. So deal with it, cry to no one when you get what you ordered for.

When the Holy Book warned men many times saying "beware of bitches......." you think that's an empty talk. The book of Proverbs warned men over and over and over again. Funny enough, those were still days when woman were virtuous, yet the Holy Book warned so much. How much more these days when the virtue bar of most women has dropped from 100% to 1%.

I remember warning a dumb kid years ago, he was too wise in his own eyes. You see a lot of these dumb people and teenagers on a platform like this everyday. Kids who don't know nothing but would be quick to jump into one's mention to argue with an elder more experienced and smarter than them. Now when you make them realize how dumb they're, they vanish back to where they came from. Well, as an open-minded fella, I know everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Even dumb people have the right to be dumb. So it doesn't really feel strange to me when I see these dumb people daily, who still feel proud with their dumbness, feeling like they know everything.

Just like Vin Diesel said in Babylon AD, "there's no mercy for the weak". No pity for men who chose not to apply wisdom. Threads like this are refreshing, always give me something to laugh about.
I know if your friend went back in time to re-choose who to marry, he would make a far better and wiser choice.

For all unmarried men reading this, you still have the opportunity to chose wisely. Most of the bitches parading as women these days are not to be married by any sane man, but if you choose to do otherwise, you're a man and you're free to make your choice, except that, cry to no one when you got what you ordered for.

Mikester:
Why should those men have a say in their affairs? It is quite discretionary and unfair.

Nevertheless, that man is the cause of his own misfortune. This is why I advise men to study their women and not ignore any red flags before marrying them. Love is not enough. Wisdom and discernment is key.

My friend has been crying since. The truth is that, he knew from the day the child was born, we have discussed the physical features of the child as against their remaining children. I also suspected, but the love for the girl blinded my friend from taking action from 13 years ago.

light099:
This kind of threads occur over and over again, the question is, don't modern men learn? You just saw a woman and married her? Who does that?
You see all these veteran, overused bitches and retired hoes getting married every weekend and you wonder the kind of men marrying them. I just laugh and SMH. A year later, you see these guys crying, creating funny threads all about. Well, I just laugh, don't expect me to cry more than the bereaved. You made your choice, so deal with it.
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JeffDWalter:
My friend is heartbroken at the moment.

They have been having issues for over a year now.
Though, my friend could not confirm if the recurring problem is related to the issue of the paternity of the child.
I once went down to settle them, while I was still in the country.

My friend is a Naval personnel and they live in one of the Military camps in Abuja along Dutse Alhaji-Kubwa axis.
Each time, he wished he was not a Military personnel and not living in the barracks, he would've "beaten the hell out of her". It is obvious personnel cannot touch their wives while in the barracks. The wife knows this and puts up very nasty behaviour, including raining insults and physical abuses on him.

On Friday, he decided that the woman would travel to their home town, since she just gave birth to their third child about two months ago, so that their parents could assist with the child. Actually, that was his way of getting rid of the woman temporarily. But the woman also knew. She collected the whole money needed for the journey and other things and accepted she would travel. The journey was scheduled for Saturday 20th February, 2021.

So, my friend woke up prepared them, said his goodbyes and left very early for work as usual. The moment he left, the wife went to commander in charge of the wing of the barracks and reported my friend that he was chasing her out of the house, leaving her stranded. And all other lot of nasty things. The Military had to summon him back from the office. On reaching the gates, his colleague, though a junior, but Military Police accosted him and wanted to arrest him, so he slapped the guy and he was thrown into the guard room.

After spending hours and was released for settlement, that was when the woman released the bombshell. She said, their 13 year old daughter is NOT my friend's, in a bid to hurt him so much. She said that her conscience was disturbing her since and that if my friend insisted that she leaves, she must leave with the girl.

My friend has been crying since. The truth is that, he knew from the day the child was born, we have discussed the physical features of the child as against their remaining children. I also suspected, but the love for the girl blinded my friend from taking action from 13 years ago.

To make matters worst, the Military said my friend remains responsible for the whole family, whether they were with him or not. That they would set up a fund from his salary that would go directly to the woman for the care of the children. I don't know how possible that is.
But the man is very hurting.