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My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Wyonnacharles: 4:29pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Dear Nairalanders, I have been working on this project for a while and I thought I should share it out, its project on Absentee Marriages. I have been doing a lot of research and findings on proxy marriages and in the cause of my search I realized people get married in this manner but for some reason they do not come out to say, they hide their identities. I have this uncle who has been in Germany for quite some time now in search of greener pastures and all. So we had this discussion sometime ago and he told me how he met a young babe online and they have been talking and all, i was like really how nice. In the course of our discussion he told me how he is quite convinced about her and made his intention to settle down with her as soon as possible known to me. In my curiosity, I asked him how he intends doing it, and how he will present the matter to the family as it's a babe he has only seen virtually and she is based here in Nigeria while he is based in Germany. After much said and done a date was eventually picked, all marital rites were performed in the absence of my uncle, yes he was able represented that day since he couldn't come to Nigeria for the marriage. He got married to this babe he met online but the babe is still yet to go meet him in Germany, they have never seen each other I would like to hear people's thoughts about this type of marriage and also use this as a medium to do an open call out to people who are getting married between now and April in this manner. Please if you know someone or whoever is interested has a little thing to benefit. For More Information you can call me on 08098387837
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Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Bola146(f): 4:35pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Kriss216: 4:35pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by heniford2: 4:44pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Moferere: 4:46pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Fine girls like this who go dey oil her engine |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Zero2Hundred: 5:00pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
People do different things for different reasons. |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by thorpido(m): 5:14pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
It's a marriage based on hope.The lady hopes one day she will find herself in obodo oyinbo. |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Sijo01(f): 5:34pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Waste of one's youthfulness! So 5 years after, your hunkul nor fit relocate he wife, he nor even fit come naija even for once come see her. This one pass wahala 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by LordKO(m): 5:59pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
It's like a sword with two edges; sometimes it does end well, while some other times it does end in tears, frustration, and dissolution with or without them meeting each other. I've seen the latter happen. There's a possibility that the lady and her people might return the bride price after sometimes if he couldn't find his bearing very fast depending on her age, marketability, and conviction. Of course, there's also a possibility that the guy might not consider her worthy enough for a wife on arrival if his testosterone reacts more to physical/material attraction than mental attraction and if he'd chosen her based on her physical/material possession. |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by sisisioge: 7:49pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
The marriage is not valid jare. Not signed and sealed under the common law, no consummation, no living together....biko swerve. It ain't marriage 5 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by MariamAlheri: 10:01pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Is this kinda marriage valid? 5years after, they're yet to see and consummate the marriage? What exactly is stopping your uncle from relocating the wife to join him or Jim coming to see her every year at least? OP, the only thing I can say is that things dey occur! I bet you, the wife will soon tire and move on. |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by fineboynl(m): 10:30pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
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Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Wyonnacharles: 9:41am On Feb 25, 2021 |
fineboynl:I heard its quite a common practice in Edo state but do you by chance no someone who is set to get married in that manner? |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by fineboynl(m): 10:06am On Feb 25, 2021 |
Wyonnacharles:no. but why do you ask? many of this girls are into prostitution. but if you need you can try your luck searching them from facebook. |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by Houseofglam7(f): 11:29am On Feb 25, 2021 |
Is this a joke |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 10:41pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
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Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by AwesomeStormy00(m): 11:54pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Wyonnacharles: Their are many reason or reasons why your brother didn't come to his weeding oh sound odd i think you are referring to traditional wedding here because it look really odd for a church wedding without the groom presence. I don't think Muslim religion will allow such thing too (apology if am wrong) Your uncle is could be stuck in Germany cuz if his documents, it could be he has someone with him in Germany and waiting until hus German passport is out. 5 years is too long of a wait has your uncle wife applied for German visa? What is stopping her from applying? I think it is possible because many years ago someone living in Europe married virtually in Ghana |
Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by BigYash: 8:48am On Feb 26, 2021 |
And she dey Nigeria? I pity the man o.. Leave your wife for 5years for where these vampire Nigerian guys dey,when no dey use eye see anything wen get hole in between.
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Re: My Uncle Has Been Married, But Still Hasn't Met His Wife In 5 Years by mardis: 7:48pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
Sijo01: Na gobe be dis |
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