Welcome, Guest: Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,671,623 members, 6,281,959 topics. Date: Monday, 10 May 2021 at 08:06 AM

Help!!! I'm Thinking - Family - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Help!!! I'm Thinking (1052 Views)

Please Help. I'm Getting Rotten While Still Alive. / Help, I'm An Alcoholic! / I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

Help!!! I'm Thinking by Chiminemine(m): 8:45am On Mar 08
Hello guys...my life has never been the same these past few years...it has been nothing to write home about, but I'll try to make this story as short as possible.
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Chiminemine(m): 8:45am On Mar 08
But my parents would not let me.. they managed to persuaded
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by SooWan: 8:47am On Mar 08
Haaaaaa �
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by stev10(m): 8:52am On Mar 08
Elders where art thou?
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by FatherCHRISTMAS: 8:59am On Mar 08
REMEMBER THE MONEY EILL FINISH ONE DAY
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by illicit(m): 9:02am On Mar 08
Ok.
Run to me
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Righteousness2(m): 9:04am On Mar 08
Don't be a Prodigal Son!
You are a thief if you Steal!
Have some discuss with your parents! You all should be able to come to a point of agreement..

1 Like

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Spending123(m): 9:23am On Mar 08
You want become a footballer? you think it's easy like that to become a footballer in the country you said you hail from.
Earth people can be so funny and stupid at the same time, OP greetings from Mars.

3 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Spending123(m): 9:26am On Mar 08
You want become a footballer? you think it's easy like that to become a footballer in the country you said you hail from.
Earth people can be so funny and stupid at the same time, OP greetings from Mars.
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Chiminemine(m): 9:28am On Mar 08
Spending123:
You want become a footballer? you think it's easy like that in this corrupt country.
Earth people can be so funny and stupid at the same time, OP greetings from Mars.
bros read well before you start spiting thrash with your keyboard. I never said I was going to play in Nigeria..I wanted to travel abroad.
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Spending123(m): 9:55am On Mar 08
Chiminemine:
bros read well before you start spiting thrash with your keyboard. I never said I was going to play in Nigeria..I wanted to travel abroad.

Shebi a Man that's 65 years of age is the one spitting trash for you abi, at least I should be the age of your dad. Don't worry come and travel nah let me see you.

5 Likes 1 Share

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by sissoko89: 10:07am On Mar 08
The prodigal son season 2
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by ezugegere(m): 10:18am On Mar 08
Tell them your brain cannot do Pharmacy. Apply for an easier, 4yr course. Complete your degree program and apply for Masters abroad. That should make it easier for you

1 Like 1 Share

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Mikester(m): 10:22am On Mar 08
Listen to your parents. They obviously speak more sense than you right now. Don't waste the money and effort they used in putting you in school. I believe if you were able to make it to the 300 level, you do have the ability to graduate successfully. Complete that course and graduate, if not for you, then for them.

Can't really say I'm on the side of your parents or you though but I'll advise you to be realistic. What you really want won't come so easy. It's almost highly doubtful that you would be a footballer speak less of a successful one.

I feel you should start something doing that will give you the resources to chase your dream, perhaps a business or a job. Your parents have done their part educating you, now it's your turn to establish yourself.

3 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Amanee(f): 10:34am On Mar 08
No wonder your younger sister does not regard you
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by adesoro80595: 11:59am On Mar 08
The prodigal son season 2
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by bigjackass: 12:26pm On Mar 08
Don't listen to that voice telling you shit. It's not easy out here for people that went through the normal process, not to talk of you, a teenager with no degree who wants to steal chicken change and run away from home. When you leave home are going straight abroad? You think say e easy to hustle money to travel abroad na hin we still dey here.

3 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Richy4(m): 1:03pm On Mar 08
I have never seen any course that is so easy... Even those in Linguistics like Hausa, Igbo or Yoruba will tell you how tough it was.... The determination to complete a course and hit your hand on your chest that I have done it with pride to me is what makes a man.. You have started washing, you were now deep inside the river showering..... you shouldn't complain of cold now that you were in 300L... Before u can even spell your name, It's already 2years and you are out...

I understand that sometimes parents can be so overbearing.. But do you realize that football career is a short term career?...What will you fall back on when the money is no longer rolling into your account especially when you clocked almost 30?...Even if you do not want Pharmacy as a course, What other course tickled your fancy? (outside football career)

Now that you are staying at home... eating and sleeping and roaming the street, was that the wisest decision? Taking your parent money to lavish somewhere without Planning/ doing SWOT Analysis on the so called football career u blindly wanted to venture into, do you think that will even be the best idea?

5 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by michaeljh241: 1:13pm On Mar 08
Prodigal son, ahahahah
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:28pm On Mar 08
Running away from home with your parents money will compound your problems, your parents may even hate you more. I don't know why you decided to drop out of school instead of switching to a related course, that would have been the right thing to do, if only you had seek for advice from people.

You seem to be a very impatient person, be careful. You abandoned your education just last year, and now you are complaining and thinking of stealing. How about people who's parents choosed a course for them and they excelled in it? We all know that most parents have a habit of choosing course of studies for their children. Your parents are disappointed in you, but with time, they will calm down, be patient.

Appologise to them, and request that they set up a business for you, then from the resources of that business, you can go back to school or pursue your football ambition. you are still very young, it's never late. Or alternatively, simply ask your parents to allow you to go for another degree in school.

2 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by investorMK(m): 6:22pm On Mar 08
D
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by mariahAngel: 6:22pm On Mar 08
Chiminemine:
But my parents would not let me.. they managed to persuaded me to continue with the school, which I obliged... But at 300L, I really became pissed, I was no longer willing to continue. My parents tried to make me continue by tell stuff like

There is no footballer who is not a graduate

If you are not a graduate, the europeans will not like to mingle with you.

If you are not a graduate, u wouldn't go far with your football career...

And all other really messed up stuff.. but I was not willing to continue no matter what.. the one that really made me mad was when my father told me that he knew I wanted to become a footballer becos all the GIRLS would like me if I did.

Long story cut short...

I am currently at home, doing nothing. my parents hate me especially my dad.. nobody wants to help me if i wouldn't go to school.

I'm thinking of running away from this house with some money and start a new life somewhere else. Please I need your advice.

Instead of running away, convince your father to register you in a football academy.
Tell him that football is your passion and it'll be your greatest dream to be a footballer.
Promise him you'll work as hard as ever, so that he won't be disappointed in you.
Whatever you do, never steal from your parents. It'll hinder you.
Never stop believing in yourself and your dream.

Do you go to trainings?
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Chiminemine(m): 6:29pm On Mar 08
Spending123:


Shebi a Man that's 65 years of age is the one spitting trash for you abi, at least I should be the age of your dad. Don't worry come and travel nah let me see you.
See this mugu... 65 years my yansh.. when I read something typed by a matured man, I would know. You are not matured at all.. if truly you are 65, then you must be a fool even at 65. Go an f*ck ur sef... I should come and travel let you see me?? I can't believe your level of stupidity.. I no blame you.. na the idiot wey give you money to buy phone na him I blame.
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by chii8(f): 8:39pm On Mar 08
Chiminemine:
See this mugu... 65 years my yansh.. when I read something typed by a matured man, I would know. You are not matured at all.. if truly you are 65, then you must be a fool even at 65. Go an f*ck ur sef... I should come and travel let you see me?? I can't believe your level of stupidity.. I no blame you.. na the idiot wey give you money to buy phone na him I blame.

Please, you need to calm down oooo
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by StreetFight: 8:53pm On Mar 08
This one is an unfortunate child

2 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by LyfeJennings(m): 9:15pm On Mar 08
It's only normal for U to feel that way but U for try graduate now.
I graduated with a 3rd class and an extra year
I was tired of life
I didn't want to go to school again
All I wanted to do was go to America
My dad forced me to do my PGD & my MBA here in Nigeria. He kept on saying one thing then which I didn't understand
He said he doesn't want my mates to look down on me later in life
Today I work in a bank
I'm still a street boy but my street get class
I'm well learned and very proud
Nigga, calm down
Go back to school
Force urself graduate
Then enter street make U craze as U like
U fit even do yahoo self but don't be an idiot
Learn from me

1 Like

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Angelacruz: 9:16pm On Mar 08
it will end in tears for u...ur parents wat d best for u.I just hope your story won't end like DAT wheelbarrow pusher[img]...go back to school

1 Like

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Uyi168(m): 9:38pm On Mar 08
Chiminemine:
See this mugu... 65 years my yansh.. when I read something typed by a matured man, I would know. You are not matured at all.. if truly you are 65, then you must be a fool even at 65. Go an f*ck ur sef... I should come and travel let you see me?? I can't believe your level of stupidity.. I no blame you.. na the idiot wey give you money to buy phone na him I blame.
.
U are mad, like seriously.
Travel kill u, fool.

1 Like

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Richy4(m): 9:46pm On Mar 08
LyfeJennings:
It's only normal for U to feel that way but U for try graduate now.
I graduated with a 3rd class and an extra year
I was tired of life
I didn't want to go to school again
All I wanted to do was go to America
My dad forced me to do my PGD & my MBA here in Nigeria. He kept on saying one thing then which I didn't understand
He said he doesn't want my mates to look down on me later in life
Today I work in a bank
I'm still a street boy but my street get class
I'm well learned and very proud
Nigga, calm down
Go back to school
Force urself graduate
Then enter street make U craze as U like
U fit even do yahoo self but don't be an idiot
Learn from me

You were encouraging him nicely then destroyed it with the Yahoo comment... So is it safe to say that you basically see nothing wrong with someone being a fraud star?....You were even working in a bank shocked

2 Likes

Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by LyfeJennings(m): 10:36pm On Mar 08
Richy4:


You were encouraging him nicely then destroyed it with the Yahoo comment... So is it safe to say that you basically see nothing wrong with someone being a fraud star?....You were even working in a bank shocked

Sometimes the unconventional route might be the one to set an individual straight. He's only a kid. He needs to see a reason to be a man. Just cos I said it don't mean he will do it.
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Chiminemine(m): 11:04pm On Mar 08
chii8:


Please, you need to calm down oooo
what do you mean?
Re: Help!!! I'm Thinking by Liposure: 11:25pm On Mar 08
My brother, go back to school. Education is very very important than football in the long run. I'm not saying shouldn't pursue your dream. Its fine but get a degree first as backup in case of incasity.

(1) (2) (Reply)

Are You A Lady And Would Like To Meet-up With A Guy? / Grounds For Divorce / He Wants To Kill Himself,help

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2021 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 121
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.