This one is always looking for who'll pat him on the back always.

Guy move the fvck off, I get am before no be property

Hmmmm

southniyikaye:
Well, glory be to God am doing fine after all I went through last year and all my previous experiences with my wife, we've been together for 8yrs and I can't recall the last time I had 20mins joy in that relationship..
Have tried so hard to forgive her on several occasions but she is someone who is not ready to change..
Jan 15th was my birthday and I went to celebrate with her and the kids..
She was in the kitchen and I didn't know what prompted me to dial her number..
When it rang, my number was stored as MOM. This is someone I stored her number as olori MI for good 9yrs..
When I look at everything have been through, this is someone I have never for once insulted or raised my hand on her for once..
Well, the mum called me today about relocating them and I told her point blank that it can never work between us again..
That family is not a good one at all..
Have been to cell because of them, lost a good business because of them, traumatized, used and abused by my so called wife..

I was told that in order for me to progress in life, I have to separate from her and believe me in just some months, I have seen tremendous progress..
Let's just say, you can't offer me a job of 200k per month and I will consider it..
I told her mum I can rent an apartment for her and the kids if need be but I need to focus on myself and my future now..
I send them weekly upkeep and I have never defaulted so far this year...

I just need advice on how to move forward now.. Leaving her is the toughest decision have ever made in my life...

Cc rocktation
Cc farano

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For those who doesn't understand, this link leads to the full story
https://www.nairaland.com/5816765/near-blood-money-ritual-experience

Be strong brother... Your future is what is important right now.

So you think your wife is the source of all your woes.

Well it is not strange to see that when people fail, they always find a way to funnel the blame to others.

dawnomike:
Be strong brother... Your future is what is important right now.

boss, I appreciate

Maybe MOM is an acronym for
My Only Man.

cococandy:
Are you a good husband?
Self reflect

I tried my best.i did my best..
You can't keep manipulating me for years and expect me to just keep quiet..

pozehnani:
Why would she store your number as mum? It's obvious you were not staying together from your narration so it's possible she's got something up her sleeves. Dunno, just saying.

Well, whatever rocks your boat even though your story is one sided as you didn't tell us what caused the separation and why she and the kids had to live apart from you.

Marriage though. It's not for the feeble minded.

click on the link to read the full story ma

Bro, you assume wrong

ethicallyright:
I read the OP's previous threads.
I conclude that :

1. He really loved a beautiful woman.

2. His love for this lady got a better part of him.

3. He put her in the family way without a plan for his own future.

4. He lived above his means to impress the poor girl and her family.

5. He doesn't take blame for his failures. For him , spirits or the woman he once loved are to blame.

6. He lived a life not worthy of emulation.

I have come to notice that it is men that impose harsh responsibilities on themselves. Even the best Nigerian female gold digger will love you for who you are if she would ever love you.

I've never had a real girlfriend because I vowed to hit a billion naira before I have one.

The girl who should have been my girlfriend was not average. She could pass for a miss universe and she was intelligent as well.

When I told her I couldn't afford her , she asked me "What do you need all that money for? I just want you."

I was the one planning to throw lavish parties for her, tour this beautiful planet with her and gift her Earth's finest metals , natural and synthetic.

But she said "What do you need all that money for? I just want you."

I walked away because I don't want to be wealthy because of her. I wrote her poems , sent her cards and hyped my princess whenever I could. But I still walked away.

If I spent my little savings on her , made her pregnant as a young adult, then became poor and wretched in the process. What will become of me?

I wouldn't come to Nairaland to tell them that she never came to beg me to spend on her. I wouldn't tell Nairaland that I wooed her and she even played hard to get. I wouldn't tell Nairaland that I told her I will give her the best life one morning when she walked innocently on her path.

I would tell Nairaland that I exhausted my financial resources on her and she'd be called a gold digger.

ahnie:
I hope you got birthday sex again this year?
Advising this guy is like making frantic efforts trying to resurrect a completely dead d.ick....he never heeds to advices.

I didn't, it is very hard to let go expecially when there are kids you love so much attached to the relationship

dochenaj:
So you think your wife is the source of all your woes.

Well it is not strange to see that when people fail, they always find a way to funnel the blame to others.

Bro, when you compare and contrast some situations, you should be able to deduce facts...
Dem no fit call you thief make you still dey carry goat pickin dance o

southniyikaye:
click on the link to read the full story ma

Hmm.. will do when I'm off work.

I find it hard to come to terms that you went through all those life's ordeal in real life o! It's even synonymous to what i do read in fictional stories.
I was out of breathe most of the time when reading through your life's travails as i could hardly contain my emotions after i was done.
You've definitely gone through something, i swear!
I so much admire your resilient and unshakeable spirit to go further after the series of obstacles you encountered on your life's adventure.
I know you'll come out victoriously and it will surely end well with you.
Guy, 4get... Na SUPER MAN you be o!

#RESPECT