I extend my solidarity with women in their struggles against misogyny, sexism and just unreasonable hate towards women, and I try to be as sympathetic to their cause for social equality and personal emancipation. But women, the reason why you see us (men) jump in defence against the generalising phrase “all men” when toxic and disparaging stereotypes are used to paint us in a bad light, is that you have refused to use the pronoun “some” next to the word “men”. Therefore, we resort to using the phrase “not all men” as a defence mechanism to eschew ourselves from being seen as demons, simply because we all nominally collectively share the noun men.........

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