Jacksparrow7:

You don do your part. Let her and all her friends go.

Never make such a mistake again

I'll do just that. Because it seems like the more I show her I want her back the more she runs away from me

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

Go where you are treated best.

Stop sending those who don't send you.

MrJavaS:


I texted her and said I am sorry for what I've do e. She then said that we are coursemates and that someday we would part ways. I said that we still have some time left and she said it's already elapsed. That the only thing that would be between us is greetings only.

What are you begging for, moreover what did you do wrong you.. those girls just wanna turn you into a laughing stock, if she doesn't want to be your friend again, fine leave her, let her be.. guy you gat to grow some balls jare.. The friend has blocked you and the other don't want to talk to you again. leave them jare. and focus on your self, don't go and beg any body again.

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

You sound like a very dull guy. You better sharpen your street smartness. Naija is not book oriented o. WTF!

Powersurge:


You sound like a very dull guy. You better sharpen your street smartness. Naija is not book oriented o. WTF!

You don't have to be insultive to prove a point please

Op bleeped up, i was once in a similar position, but i make sure i play the dirty guy while making ma female friend look clean, told the chick i stole her no from her friends phone even tho the friend gave me herself, and everything worked to plan....

Theboy21:
Op bleeped up, i was once in a similar position, but i make sure i play the dirty guy while making ma female friend look clean, told the chick i stole her no from her friends phone even tho the friend gave me herself, and everything worked to plan....

Lucky you

GreenDee:
What are you begging for, moreover what did you do wrong you.. those girls just wanna turn you into a laughing stock, if she doesn't want to be your friend again, fine leave her, let her be.. guy you gat to grow some balls jare.. The friend has blocked you and the other don't want to talk to you again. leave them jare. and focus on your self, don't go and beg any body again.

OG!

Catfishing:
Op na tatafo....he doesn't know how to talk himself out of a bad situation without implicating another person.

Yeah, you're right.

in other words....op is a snitch, a talkative and not to be trusted with secrets.

Not really, he lacks experience. That's just it.

Makaveli217:
Can't you guys just learn to do without girls for once, will you die You must not befriend every girl you meet.
Have some respect for yourself.

How many has he befriended before, going by his post? This guy has never befriended any girl before. No experience, nothing. And he's already in 400L, four years in the Uni and still learning how to secure his first successful relationship. He needs advice on how to succeed, not talked down on

flokii:
She gave you a condition not to tell the girl who gave you her contact, yet you went ahead to tell her.. what kind of person are you really?

So if by chance she gives you her kp0mo chop, that's how you'll be broadcasting around as per radio Nigeria wey you be.

Just give the girl space, if she still wants the friendship, she'd come around but I doubt if she'll ever trust you with anything again.

He simply wanted to take the easy way to win the girl's heart. Thought mentioning the friend's name would automatically resolve the issue and open the way for him. He's still learning sha.

aroundtheearth:
I'm assuming you told her you got her number from your friend to get on her good side after she blocked you. If you had to sell out your friend like that....

You're correct

There is nothing you can do, my advise for you is to concentrate with your education forget about women matter because what will be for you most surely come to you no matter how ugly you are

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

She giving you her contact was to try you and you fell into it

She has assumed you betrayed her

Give her time to come over it and when she is done, simply maintain your platonic relationship with her

No one knows tomorrow

Op forget about this experience, worse things happen every day. No time to analyze anything, press your delete button, they don't exist in your world anymore. Focus on your success and other things/people that will make you happy. Explore

frozen70:



She giving you her contact was to try you and you fell into it

She has assumed you betrayed her

Give her time to come over it and when she is done, simply maintain your platonic relationship with her

No one knows tomorrow

I don't really understand how females think but since she considers me as just a friend why would she be offended that I'm with her friend.

The friend is much prettier and classier than her

MrJavaS:


I don't really understand how females think but since she considers me as just a friend why would she be offended that I'm with her friend.

The friend is much prettier and classier than her

Am sure you don't like rivalry

That's what she doesn't want too

So if you can do anything on secrets best for both of you

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Even though it may be hard to realize at first, money comes and goes. It is very important to have a good amount of reserves for emergencies, but it is more important to be able to spend on things that you love.

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Khwabon ki dastan ab tak khatam hui hogi
Hamain bhi khud ko udas hone lage zindagi

Don't limit your dreams with the reality of today

Our own lives have moved away from our dreams. - Rumi

Zindagi chalta tha ek din
Aur kuchh kam nahi chalta tha

Life is going on with days and nothing else is happening - Sachal Sarmast

Kisi ki yaadon mein rahe na hone wala sapna
"Unn prem kahani" Aayega tab tak

Don't keep your dream alive in someone else's memory

"An everlasting love story" is coming - Rumi

Aaj kuchh hua jo hasna hasana,
magar jeena sikha deta hai sapna

Today something happened that gives happiness but dreams make us learn