anthonyuncle:


that is the mistake you did.

it is obvious it caused problems between them

Catfishing:
And, op is a f*cking SIMP

Imagine begging a vagina for relationship.......this nigga needs to be drugged with redpills

Don't force yourself on these creatures.......the bitch blocked ur ass on whatsapp nd u went to telegram to beg her - nigga, are you mahd!!

MrJavaS:


I did that because I thought it's necessary for her to trust me. She wouldn't see me as a total stranger

Jacksparrow7:

After the girls have done this rubbish. They will still move on like nothing happened in their lifes, not thinking about you again but instead flexing life. Text her you don't like what she's doing. If she still do anyhow, just leave her alone...she is not worth the time.

MrJavaS:
The friends just keep staring at me during lecture's with some contempt...when I talk to them they don't reply.....so I ignored them all

oxiide22:
hhhhh this got me laughing so hard. they're like see that mumu

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

MrJavaS:


That's bad really. I hate myself for making that mistake

oxiide22:
No, don't hate yourself for that matter cos girls normally do such for guys

MrJavaS:


This ain't the only time I've messed up real bad like that. I just don't understand why I'm so stupid always

MrJavaS:


I did that because I thought it's necessary for her to trust me. She wouldn't see me as a total stranger

Emotionss:
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Let me understand you.

You went ahead and mentioned your friends name even when she specifically told you not to mention her name ?

Guy in all honesty you are not a trustworthy person and your low self esteem is worse than a pathological simp.

MrJavaS:


This ain't the only time I've messed up real bad like that. I just don't understand why I'm so stupid always

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.
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I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

DEMZEE:
Men and women can't be platonic friends

If u are not fucking her then u are her girlfriend

Focus on yasef dude and stop pedestalizing bitches

Catfishing:
Op na tatafo....he doesn't know how to talk himself out of a bad situation without implicating another person.

in other words....op is a snitch, a talkative and not to be trusted with secrets.

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years

meobizy:

Stop lying and face your books. It's not by force to have women in your life. I've seen many men settle for the option of ugly friends because they expend all their energy chasing a certain girl only for her ugly friend to fall for him. I'm not saying you should do such, however it is one of many considerable options when it comes to dating and relationships.

EmmySparky:
Op no dey streetwise...u better face ur book...

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

MrJavaS:


But I used to think that being streetwise can be obtained by relating with more folks (female folks included)

1F30M4:
Just passing by, I know you said you didn't want anybody telling you to face your books.. Sorry but that's not what my message will be all about so you can decide to take it with a pinch of salt..

One, I may be wrong but I think you have low self-esteem.. You'll need to work on that.. Not cos of any girl but for yourself

Two, see this as an unfortunate incident as it is.. Why, you may ask.. Yeah I'll tell you why, some relationships have gotten to a good footing from this same scenario, someone gives a friend's contact to another, they chat for a while, get to know each other and before you know it, they hit it off with a relationship, sometimes they even get married.. Yeah, even our family relatives, church members, sometimes it does work out fine, other times it doesn't.. It's not about snitching or whatever.. I for one, wouldn't pay any attention to anybody male or female who doesn't give me a reasonable intro about him/herself and how he/she got my contacts, if I didn't give it to him/her myself ofcourse.. I do have to double-check with my person who allegedly gave my number out, just to be sure they're not playing a fast one on me.. If I get a number from someone or I get referred to someone by family/friend/anybody, I make it a duty to introduce myself and give solid details on how I got their contacts, I'm not just "preaching sermon" to you.. Yes that's been working for me, I dunno about other people

Three, I'm not sure why your friend(coursemate) would show hostility towards you.. Okay, lemme guess, she's been "under fire" for giving you that number.. Perhaps her friend didn't take it too well, understandably so.. They must've somehow downgraded you all along yes like "you're not the kind of guy they'd want to be in a relationship with" maybe laughed over it countless times too.. They may feel like you're out of their league, it's fine okayy. Don't push it, leave it that way.. You can't do anything about it even if you try, you'll only be filled with resentment, pain & regrets

Lastly, please focus on being a better you for youu.. Develop yourself, secure your future, live up your dreams and be happy cos your dedicated efforts paid out, every other thing will fall into place. Good luck!

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MrJavaS:


I texted her and said I am sorry for what I've do e. She then said that we are coursemates and that someday we would part ways. I said that we still have some time left and she said it's already elapsed. That the only thing that would be between us is greetings only.