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|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Shokoloko(f): 11:11pm On Mar 31|
Haba! Are you no longer a conservative Christian. You should not be responding to people like this. That lady did not insult you, but you have insulted her twice.
Calm down and learn not to take social media personal
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by ShaqFu: 11:12pm On Mar 31|
McSquishi:It is an expression that mean we humans come in different shape and sizes, and as much we aren't expose to equal opportunity. This doesn't just apply to women alone, but men also. It's the simple truth that buttress the fact you can't say I and Kanye and Kim Kardashians daughter, North are equals because by virtue of her birth and status of her parents, she has more opportunities than I and you combine.
So, all fingers aren't equal. The fingers doesn't have to be male or female.
Life isn’t fair, sure. So people in poverty should not work to have money. People shouldn’t protest corrupt government and police brutality, right? Because “dis life no balance”, right?of course people living in poverty should work and have money. But you forget, not everybody living in poverty can work and have money. The basic fact is, some people who live in poverty can't work hard and have money.
People have the right to protest government policy and police brutality, but even as they do, did it ever stop this harsh government policy and police brutality from happening?
This point is further buttress with many of our artiste today in this country. Many started in adject poverty, but through hard work and perseverance, they broke through that poverty line and made it, while some who started the same time didn't. It is, what it is, "life ain't fair".
Of course not. People can fight and work toward improvements. We need not settle for unfairness.You suck at sarcasm.
Im not a feminist. But I do know that men aren’t superior to women. I don’t hate men, most women who see equality amongst genders don’t. You people who are afraid of the word equality try to project your hate for women onto “feminists”. Nobody hates you by asking for fairness.as earlier said, life isn't fair. Has it ever bothered you when in times of war and emergency situations, it is always women and children first? Tell me where is the equality in that?.
You want fairness and equality only when you know it's juicy and offers opportunity, but when it doesn't, you claim the weaker sex and stylishly demand for preferential treatment.
How come we don't see more women being sent to fight Boko Haram and other terrorist groups? How come men are always in higher number than women? Please spare me this sentiment.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by jelel6: 11:12pm On Mar 31|
Men: You are the biggest perpetrators of physical abuse - abeg, enough is enough.
Women: You are the biggest perpetrators of verbal abuse - abeg, enough is enough.
Concluding from a few experiences I've witnessed, one party (man or woman) thinks they have monopoly of abuse. Most cases of serious domestic violence result from the other party reacting to an initial action.
People may try to claim one form of abuse is more serious than the other, that's their view. I say they are both BAD ABUSE and should be stopped.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Dalil8: 11:17pm On Mar 31|
Tell us you're a feminist without telling us you're a feminist:
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Reex12(m): 11:32pm On Mar 31|
Flamemignon1:lets be honest beyonce is woman of value which woman in nigeria can be compared to her, why didnt jayz marry khloe kardahian or mia khalifa
pls use your brain
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by resourcedude: 11:41pm On Mar 31|
I'm seeing sentiments in different colors and styles coming from our women.
Imaging bringing this topic of 70s and 80s when couples leaved in peace and now when most women believed they are educated and wise. It will be hard to comprehend, the way you are seeing argument going on here is the exactly the way it is happening among some couples. Everybody is wise and must be not succumb to the other or else will be termed weakness.
For me, I suggest that marrying women should stop for now let the world have some peace biko!
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 12:00am On Apr 01|
So what is your point? That life is unfair and so women shouldn’t strive toward fairness? That because progress isn’t certain women shouldn’t aim for equal treatment? You’re not making sense.
In times of war it’s women and children first in what circumstance?
Women and children are often left behind and are usually casualties of war. it’s usually women and children who are the victims of murder, starvation, & rape.
As far as military service it’s funny because in so many nations women have had to fight for the right to fight in the military, even in America it wasn’t until 2015 women were allowed to enter combat positions. When women do manage to join ranks with men, the men have been known to discriminate against the women in their ranks, often pushing them out. males see it as a privilege to be able to fight, most men volunteer to do so. Stop pretending otherwise.
In any case, a woman should be able to do any job she qualifies for that she chooses to pursue. We needn’t be required to fight wars to prove we deserve equal opportunity. What an absurd argument. If a woman wants to be a doctor, engineer, or senator she should have equal rights and opportunities to reach those goals.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 12:07am On Apr 01|
Flawed logic with regards to military combat as men are mandated by law to be drafted and conscripted without their choice when there is war by their government, women don't bear such responsibility at all
Women are never placed directly for attritional combats in any Society as they would be raped and violated as prisoners of wars ,rather govt place women in soft spots and no danger zone
No one discriminates women, you are incompetent and lack passion and interest in masculine fields you don't fair better and blame it on Patriachy
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:08am On Apr 01|
The feminism movement is what will kill many women. Nigerian women especially.
Cos majority of them don't even know what feminism is all about and its objectives.
Nairaland feminists, I greet una oooh.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 12:19am On Apr 01|
Ilekokonit:I am sure you too would have commended your ancestors who sat down with their dirty snuff stained brown teeth and made killing of twins "culture", or you would have also praised your ancestors for being authentic african while they sacrificed a human being to appease the gods over a strange dieseas killing villagers which turns out to be cholera. Also i am sure the tradition and custom of burying a king with humans heads is an authentic african culture and mentality too.
There is nothing worthy of praise about the barbaric mindset the african man has always had. To an extent looking back , colonization did you negros a lot of good from your authentic "culture and traditions".
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 12:22am On Apr 01|
Progressive western women that are celebrating the babaric acts of Abortion as Emancipation and liberation of women should be celebrated
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 12:28am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:Even behind closed doors ,your women are no better, from using hangers in the 80s to sneaking into "chemist shops" to get pills to unathorised abortion centers littered all over .
I was actually expecting you to challenge my points, but like a typical colonized negro , you would rather deflect. So much for the so called authentic african sorry colonized african.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 12:33am On Apr 01|
Hanger or surgical knives abortion is babaric and sadistic, Islamic Patriachal cultures like UAE are fvcking developed so your points are irrelevant
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 12:37am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:We are still talking about the authentic african culture here not UAE, so come back with me please.
Now that it has been established that your society is hypocritical , would like to tell me anything else about the authentic african culture I don't already know?
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 12:40am On Apr 01|
We have real men here not weak simps and Faggotss, western men are so weak and emasculated that some idiots are fvcking feminized and turning into Transgenders
Such depravity and Aberration is not permitted in Africa
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 12:46am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:Oh yes the real men ,the same ones drowning in the sea daily to run to a simp built country.
Even your president is currently there using your depleted foreign reserve for medical tourism. .
The only thing real about the men in your part of the world is how to demand for two pieces of meat as a sign of "headship" .
Everything else ,the so called simps supply to you. You can't even build a bridge without the input of a simp tho.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 12:53am On Apr 01|
At least we don't have miserable lonely probably childless women in bulk like Progressive Societies whom keep pets
Bad governance is Africa's problem not Patriachy and Feminism is definitely not the solution
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 12:54am On Apr 01|
“There are 23 countries where the military draft is authorized but not currently implemented. An additional 60 countries – fewer than a third of the 191 for which Pew Research Center found reliable information – have some form of an active conscription program. At least 11 of the 60 countries with active conscription programs draft both men and women.”
So the majority of military service is voluntary and men serve as a source of pride. Most wars do not invoke or require involuntary service. Even during wars where there have been drafts, non-drafted men are known to volunteer to serve.
You literally just said women can’t be placed in combat positions because they would be raped and violated then the next line said no one discriminates against women. Lmao!
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 1:02am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:Last time I checked IVF is a savior to your so called fruitful women , once again your colonisers came through for you negros.
And let me remind you that giving birth like rabbits is the major reason your country is having security issues,but that is a discussion for another day.
Back to the topic, when you say "atleast " it means you agree with me but want to point out the lesser evil. Unfortunately there is nothing lesser about a third world country ravaged with terrorists and fruadsters.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 1:02am On Apr 01|
So you want women to be deployed into danger zone and violated during war to prove you're equal to men and you would be complaining about rape culture and Sexual harassment
You are confused
You are childish and highly inconsistent
You're a woman it's expected ,no wonder you are generally not conscripted because you just emotethink and don't pause and have strong introspection
You don't think before you type and hastily rush to conclusions
Countries with female conscriptions have some limits to women and not men, go and research on Israeli female soldier even with conscription they are still having military privileges and loopholes that men don't have
Properly research and analysis before posting statistics to justify your bias and prejudice ,you are incapable of aiming towards truths and facts and stop using emotions and sentiments
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|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 1:07am On Apr 01|
Crime is in every Society so what's your point , your malthusian theory of population is pure nonsense as it bears no relation to poverty and insecurity
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 1:17am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:Could be right for sane societies but not for a typical colonized african society.
Anyway, I have allowed you to digress too far, let me bring you back Mr authentic african culture upholder. Since you say patriarchy is not responsible for bad governance, I would like to know how patriarchy has improved your society and country in general. Educate me please.
Bearing in mind that it was the same patriarch ancestors of yours that sat down under a tree to do village meeting,took snuff through their nostrils and decided oh well! we must start killing twins cos the gods don't like twins.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 1:19am On Apr 01|
I didn’t say what I want. I pointed out how foolish it was for you to assert that no one discriminates against women after admitting women are particularly vulnerable to rape and violations men don’t face.
Everything you’ve written is proof of the gender discrimination you say doesn’t exist. You don’t realize that? “Feminists” have fought to end limitations on women’s service and want women to be able to be considered equals on the battlefield.
You’re complaining about loopholes so you have much in common with feminists who would ultimately like women and men to have equal requirements, access, and expectations in all fields.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 1:21am On Apr 01|
I never related Patriachy to wealth, only to a strong moral and Social fabric
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by McSquishi(f): 1:22am On Apr 01|
And I have to point out the irony in you, the male, who is supposedly so logical and not prone to emotion and sentimental outbursts, being the one in this exchange to use the degrading terms, to attempt to provoke, to call names, and not stick to the original topic.
Maybe you’re taking estrogen supplements lol
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 1:23am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:Let me rephrase this ;
Do you think women were part of the decision making when a bunch of brown teeth patriarch men sat down and decided to kill twins in the name of culture and traditions?.
After all killing of twins is a question of morality not wealth
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by DavidEsq(m): 1:25am On Apr 01|
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 1:27am On Apr 01|
Feminism is a female supremacist movement disguised as a humanistic equalist movement, life is not fair , women enjoy certain privileges that men don't and vice versa, we are meant to compliment each other , women rights in the 1960's have giving you most of the traditional privileges men had , I don't know what you want again if not power and dominance
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|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 1:30am On Apr 01|
Are men in support of Abortion?
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by Ladycewhy(f): 1:34am On Apr 01|
BLOODYSPERM:That's not an answer to my question. It's ok if you don't want to answer. You see deflection is your forte.
Maybe you will need more time to come up with a sensible answer,I can understand.
|Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by BLOODYSPERM: 1:40am On Apr 01|
Rhetorical question is the best response
I don't tolerate double standards and hypocrisy when blame-shifting
Except you value the death of infants in that case you proof my points
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