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Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by Xj2020: 9:20pm On Apr 02, 2021
I have seen ladies who are well protected at home by their parents especially their fathers turn out to be the direct opposite of what their parents are afraid of or trying to avoid.
My eyes have seen high ranking pastors daughters, and very strict parents become sex addicts without their parents knowing. Some of these ladies even take active part in not only singing but as well play active roles as choir leaders. Some of them even deliver sermons on the pulpit.
There is this particular gurl above 20years that after giving mouth action would still carry on in church activities as if nothing happens. She is a chorister in her daddy church.
The other one that cannot help it when it comes to her boobs but whose parents keep a close tab on at home. The question is would the parents be there to monitor her every movement when she goes back to school.
How could someone who engage in mouth gig continue to lead church choir or even preach on the pulpit? Like the saying goes "fear who no fear woman".
The bottom line is as follows "pikin wey go spoil go spoil, no matter the level of barriers or protection you put in place"
The best you can do as parents is to pray that God in his infinite mercy give you God fearing children.
My question is; why do girls turn out the direct opposite of what their parents are trying to avoid?

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Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by SUPERPACK: 9:33pm On Apr 02, 2021
Because of people like you that can't control their dick.

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Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by ojun50(m): 9:37pm On Apr 02, 2021
because the direct opposite is not actually opposite. reason is adjcent and hypethious are also there.
Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 02, 2021
Because people usually crave for what they don't have, and except one of the parent posses those character, and the child took after the parent with the desirable character, they will always long for what they will never had.

You can't have what you don't have.

You can't have what you aren't worthy of.

Learn to appreciate yourself and be proud of your own.
Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by ednut1(m): 12:42am On Apr 03, 2021
What about the guys

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Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by Mindlog: 12:59am On Apr 03, 2021
ednut1:
What about the guys

Good question.
Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by cococandy(f): 1:24am On Apr 03, 2021
Nairaland guys and women matter.
Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by Xj2020: 2:54am On Apr 03, 2021
[Yeye dey smell. Simple question you are yarning rubbish. That's why you have remained poor and living a life fill with sorrowquote author=SUPERPACK post=100433224]Because of people like you that can't control their dick.[/quote]
Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by Mindlog: 3:44am On Apr 03, 2021
OP, Antisocial behaviours and Oppositional defiant disorder are more prevelant in males (which you can google and read up) in comparison to females yet your focus is on the girls or are the boys turning out exactly as their parents have hoped?

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Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by SUPERPACK: 7:08am On Apr 03, 2021
Xj2020:
[Yeye dey smell. Simple question you are yarning rubbish. That's why you have remained poor and living a life fill with sorrowquote author=SUPERPACK post=100433224]Because of people like you that can't control their dick.
Wonders shall never end, Even Mr. Poverty is calling another person poor. Anuofia.
Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by bdchange(m): 7:53am On Apr 03, 2021
Xj2020:
I have seen ladies who are well protected at home by their parents especially their fathers turn out to be the direct opposite of what their parents are afraid of or trying to avoid.
My eyes have seen high ranking pastors daughters, and very strict parents become sex addicts without their parents knowing. Some of these ladies even take active part in not only singing but as well play active roles as choir leaders. Some of them even deliver sermons on the pulpit.
There is this particular gurl above 20years that after giving mouth action would still carry on in church activities as if nothing happens. She is a chorister in her daddy church.
The other one that cannot help it when it comes to her boobs but whose parents keep a close tab on at home. The question is would the parents be there to monitor her every movement when she goes back to school.
How could someone who engage in mouth gig continue to lead church choir or even preach on the pulpit? Like the saying goes "fear who no fear woman".
The bottom line is as follows "pikin wey go spoil go spoil, no matter the level of barriers or protection you put in place"
best you can do as parents is to pray that God in his infinite mercy give you God fearing children.
My question is; why do girls turn out the direct opposite of what their parents are trying to avoid?
The bolded is a very wrong perception. God gives you a child, you are the one responsible for what they turn out to become. He already told you that train a child the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it. So pls discard whatever notion of God giving a responsible child. Some pastors missed it because they only focus on the spirituality of the child forgeting other numerous factors that determine proper upbringing of a child. And also stop saying Pikin wey go spoil go spoil, nothing like that when u do the proper training at the right time. The foundation of a child matters alot..If you miss it, You might then need the Grace of God to help you correct your wrong on the child.

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Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by fati2001(m): 8:15am On Apr 03, 2021
Mindlog:
OP, Antisocial behaviours and Oppositional defiant disorder are more prevelant in males (which you can google and read up) in comparison to females yet your focus is on the girls or are the boys turning out exactly as their parents have hoped?


cococandy:
Nairaland guys and women matter.




ednut1:
What about the guys

SUPERPACK:
Because of people like you that can't control their dick.

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Re: Why Do Girls Turn Out The Direct Opposite Of What Their Parents Are trying to av by OLABOY8495(m): 10:07am On Apr 04, 2021
cheesy
ojun50:
because the direct opposite is not actually opposite. reason is adjcent and hypethious are also there.
cheesy
ojun50:
because the direct opposite is not actually opposite. reason is adjcent and hypethious are also there.

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