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Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Akuruoulo(m): 10:40pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
obembet:U are always on point. Everything women do is given to them natural , and men suffer physical on earth. Thats why GOD MAF IT THAT WHY |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Akuruoulo(m): 10:42pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
eppysold:No fight jareh. The truth is clear. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Akuruoulo(m): 10:47pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Built2last:SUBMISSIVENESS IS THE GREATEST POWER GOD CREATED, AND ITS GIVEN TO A WOMAN. EVERY WOMAN WHO STARTS TO TALK FEMINISM AT EARLY AGE DOESN'T GO FARTHER. NO MAN WANT A THREAT OF A WOMAN AROUND HIM 1 Like |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Zeezenho: 10:50pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
The case dey comlex small . peacefull marriage be like parliamentary system of government.the husband na president,the wife nah prime minister.na only for occasions man dey be head for he rest nah madam deh run am . |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Akuruoulo(m): 10:53pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Toks2008:100% RIGHT. THE REASON I KNOW THE WORLD WILL COME TO END SOME IS THE FACT MEN ARE ACCEPTING AND PUTTING IN LAWS AGAINST THEMSELVES TO PLEASE WOMEN. WITHOUT THESE THINGS HAPPENING , THE WORD OF GOD THAT SAYS SOO MANY WOMEN WILL BE BEGGING ONE MAN FOR MARRIAGE. FEMINISM IS HERE TO BRING GODS WORD TO PAST |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Akuruoulo(m): 10:55pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
demmymoney:Simple |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Angeldemon: 10:59pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
The head of the home is 1. the one who eventually answers the door when armed robbers are knocking at the door and the whole family is afraid\ 2. The one who shoulders all the emotional, physical, mental and social burden of the family and doesnt complain. 3. The one who defends the home. 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Akuruoulo(m): 11:01pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Xantel:And it doesn't mean the wieves aren't great either. The wife is the ENGINE ROOM |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Johnnyplus01k(m): 11:11pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
A man with pepper is the head of the family. Which also means that if the woman is the one catering for the family dats means the mantle is for her in our Nigeria today. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Emeka71(m): 11:17pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Depending on the mood; in many homes is the wife. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Stanleyville(m): 11:57pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
If you no get money pass your wife for Nija na she be head of house.. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by smallsmall: 12:26am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Whosoever's turn it is to give HEAD, is the Head of the family at that point. Why naah? Stop looking at me that way, go and find out, anytime someone is giving head and watch how the other party is submissive. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by DedeNkem: 1:33am On Apr 08, 2021 |
InvestingExpert: Once upon a time, making money and decisions was a preserve for men. Heck everyone knew it. Remember way back when your teacher would ask: “Who is the head of the family?” The answer was always a unanimous chorus: “Father!” The last I heard, the primary school syllabus still required this same answer when that particular question is asked. Never mind that there is a legal obligation to get rid of sexist ideas in the syllabus. You know the kind where the doctor is always a man and the nurse, a woman. When we rewind the clock by a few decades, we find that this was the norm. Father bought food, paid rent, school fees and he made all the decisions. All other people in the household did was follow orders from above. But enter working mothers, stay home dads, single mothers, single fathers, child headed households, same sex relationships and even those with no family to speak of, and all of a sudden, the scales are tilted beyond what we ever envisioned. Unusual family structures Today, we have some women earning way more than the men. Situations actually arise when it is more beneficial and viable for the man to stay home and look after the family while the woman goes to work, since she is more qualified or has a better job and earns more. We have all seen the heroism of a single father who casts aside his ego and society’s expectations and suddenly he is not the household head. He is at once the father but also has to take on the motherly roles. And the single mother who works hard to make ends meet. What about those who do not belong to a home at all? I am talking about the people who wander the streets and are content just to have what to eat if nothing else. Then there are the unlucky children whom fate has ushered into adulthood before their time.They are young and need care, but they have to cast their needs aside and care for their even younger siblings. And, finally, there is that group we would rather not talk about, mostly because they upset the family structures we are used to the most. They are generically referred to as homosexuals, and sometimes they do have families complete with children. What you have is a father and father or mother and mother… it is hard to accurately say the father is the head of the family in these situations. Proponents of the father-is-head-of-family-theory will be quick to point out that these are abnormal situations. They argue that ideally a family must have a father, who heads it, and mother and children who are his subservient. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by patomberekpe(m): 3:16am On Apr 08, 2021 |
pathetic question,Is there a debate on this? well like someone answered You, If your married who's the head, and If your not Is Your mom the.head? I thought You would have said in all.countries. For China The woman are the head,they're in control, they go to marry a Man put in there home, they control the Man. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Kiezodumah(m): 5:20am On Apr 08, 2021 |
The wife |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by yetty247(f): 5:26am On Apr 08, 2021 |
CalabarPikin: E tire me oo If the man isn't around the eldest son should take lead |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by naijadrivablog: 5:37am On Apr 08, 2021 |
No need to ask this question. Headship of the home is on the man. The woman is the support. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by witworth(m): 5:47am On Apr 08, 2021 |
For the family, Husband is the head of state, wife is the prime minister That one na if na parliamentary system of government for the house o And for the home if na presidential system, man na president, wife na both vice president and first lady join. As you have asked an unreasonable question, me self have irrational answers so there u have it. Coz e be like say you dey ask who is the head of the government between Buhari and osinbajo. Abi shey na Aisha go marry Buhari ni or na Buhari go marry am. If you no satisfy, ask the ancestors |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Burgerlomo: 6:30am On Apr 08, 2021 |
It depends on who's the breadwinner of the family, if you're a man and your wife is the breadwinner of the family and all you do is watching soccer games from morning till night, then she's automatically elevated to the position of the head of the household while you have been demoted to assistance head of the household. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by DMerciful(m): 6:44am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Only simps are headed practically by their wives. A man is the head all in all! In many families, when the man dies, the first son, if he is grown becomes the head even if the mother is educated. It's natural, you can't fight with nature Foodqueen: |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Oppavii(m): 7:03am On Apr 08, 2021 |
The man is the head of the family, the woman can be anything from the collar downwards... |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by naija4life247: 7:26am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Only children from broken homes can think of this. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Foodqueen(f): 7:43am On Apr 08, 2021 |
DMerciful: That's why I said if know u know. No be by gra-gra |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by murmee: 8:14am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Foodqueen:GBAM! |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Nobody: 9:06am On Apr 08, 2021 |
It's only when the man is mentally and spiritually fit that's when he is the head. If he's a fool , the wife is the head. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by GeneralPula: 9:49am On Apr 08, 2021 |
kurlz: Once loyalty is involved, their will be special respect, attention, submission & appreciation ma'am.. Loyalty is heavy and that’s why it’s hard to find.. Gift is more of a compliment and compliment encourages... |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by HajiaNotu: 10:17am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Ardar:Simple and direct answer |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by Nobody: 10:50am On Apr 08, 2021 |
A man is the head of the family.... its undisputable..... even if the wife is the one providing for the family, the wife is the head of the house... the only difference is that we have----- RESPONSIBLE HEAD OF FAMILY.... LAZY HEAD OF FAMILY....... TROUBLESOME HEAD OF FAMILY.... madam ngozi okonjo iweala is more functional than president buhari.... but we can't call her the head of nigeria... |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by ylaa(f): 11:48am On Apr 08, 2021 |
HUSBAND is the HEAD WIFE is the NECK that controls the HEAD. quote author=InvestingExpert post=100467705]we are in the age where everyone wants to be heard and everyone wants to be noticed and liked and this has resorted to so many new trends and culture that back in the days didn't exist. Now a woman wants equal right as a man and will say "what a man can do a woman can do better" I'm not against this movement or trend or whatever it is called but if a wife also struggles for equal rights in terms of leadership with her husband then who is the follower, who gives the instructions, who is the one to submit two captains can't lead a ship but it seems in this days of social media everyone wants to take the lead. so who is really the head of the house? [/quote] |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by God2man2again(m): 12:19pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
Man. |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by streamsofjoy(f): 2:01pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
Catfishing: Na woman born u? |
Re: Who Is The Head Of The Family? Husband, Wife Or Both by johhbekeboh09: 4:21pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
InvestingExpert: Both are partners they play complement each None could function without another Though the husband takes the lead |
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