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The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by dealordea(m): 12:52am On Apr 19, 2011
One simple question.

Do you think because of the emphasis and power our society places on money this days, does anyone think this has completely messed up relationships marriage and love within this Nigeria ladies Life? Most of them tend to be in a courtship because the guy is simply financially stable and the worst part is when the guy tend to lost everything within a twinkle of an eye, You see them deciding to be the boss of the house.To me It seems the role money is granted in our society sweeps some of this ladies right off the table and from consideration in the realm of love.

Should Capitalism be phased out because of this and many other flaws?
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by toyemz(f): 12:57am On Apr 19, 2011
^^^^
you seem so confident in laying all the blame on the Nigerian lady
maybe those in Lagos
but i have lived in the west for so long and have noticed one common trait amongst loads of Nigerian men here
that they tend to live off working class women
what category would you put them into?
or would you blame this characteristic on society too?
my thots
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by Jackieugo(f): 1:03am On Apr 19, 2011
Yay another bashing/generalization thread undecided
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by iice(f): 5:41am On May 19, 2011
Blah. Cause and effect.
Humans corrupt themselves.
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by MMM2(m): 6:17am On May 19, 2011
op
no,
black Womanliness corrupted dere self.
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by adamsrib(f): 6:58am On May 19, 2011
deal_ordea:

One simple question.

Do you think because of the emphasis and power our society places on money this days, does anyone think this has completely messed up relationships marriage and love within this Nigeria ladies Life? Most of them tend to be in a courtship because the guy is simply financially stable and the worst part is when the guy tend to lost everything within a twinkle of an eye, You see them deciding to be the boss of the house.To me It seems the role money is granted in our society sweeps some of this ladies right off the table and from consideration in the realm of love.

Should Capitalism be phased out because of this and many other flaws?

You act like this is something new. Society has ALWAYS placed value on money and power. You think that is the by product of capitalism? Hate to break it to you, but it is not. And then you go on to ask if capitalism should be phased out? What should replace it? Socialism? Totalitarianism? *sigh* Capitalism may come and go, but broke brothas complaining is here to stay. Heaven help us women!
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by MrsChima(f): 7:06am On May 19, 2011
toyemz:

^^^^
you seem so confident in laying all the blame on the Nigerian lady
maybe those in Lagos
but i have lived in the west for so long and have noticed one common trait amongst loads of Nigerian men here
that they tend to live off working class women
what category would you put them into?
or would  you blame this characteristic on society too?
my thots

I agree.  African men that comes over fresh from the plane typically are dominant in providing for their families however African men that reside in America for a longer period of time are COMPLETELY different from the African men just coming into USA. 

It is not just African men either nationalities of male immigrants are being the "house wife" while the women are working and bringing home the bacon.  I could never understand how a man who sits at home day in and day out calling the shots. 

SMH.
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by hollandis(f): 7:29am On May 19, 2011
Leave Nigerian women alone,we love them like that,so long as they give me mormor,I'm ok.
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by 190: 8:16am On May 19, 2011
hollandis:

Leave Nigerian women alone,we love them like that,so long as they give me mormor,I'm ok.

Abi, provide black berry and all other tins shall be followed/added angry
Re: The Capitalist System Corrupted Love In Nigerian Ladies! by yusuf2(m): 8:49am On May 19, 2011
@ op, y re u finger pointing naija ladies? it's happening allover the world, let them b jor.  angry , like they did not copy it frm their conterparts in other capitalist countries.

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