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I Am Getting Married by tennyinfo: 11:39am On Apr 19, 2011
Hello House,
I am a Nigerian with a B.Sc Degree from the south-western part of Nigeria
I am getting married in the next 4 month and I don't have a job yet. My fiancee and I have waited so long to have this marriage carried out but couldn't move ahead because of my job. Sincerely she is rare.
I am currently based in Abuja and also seek an employment in Abuja.
Please If u can help, get in touch with me through my email adetoks2010@aol.com .
Thanks.
Re: I Am Getting Married by Blazay(m): 12:08pm On Apr 19, 2011
Eeeyah.
Kpele.
If she is rare. . .do not let her go ooooooooooh.  cheesy
Me sef nor get job when I marry.
Just "DO IT" like Nike says. kiss
Na dis kain suffer-head marriage dey sweeet pass.
You will both look back and cry and laugh at these days.


Do a small wedding. . . do not start having babies yet o! cheesy

I hope your parents can help you out like they helped me. kiss
Better to ask your relatives than "F" for "phocking" strangers on the web.

Goodluck.

Enjoy this witi ya 'Titi lai lai'! kiss


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIgBRr0mXs4

Please, reach out to your immediate family first.
Re: I Am Getting Married by jaybee3(m): 12:09pm On Apr 19, 2011
Do you want us to congratulate you or sympathise with u?
Confused.com
Re: I Am Getting Married by ifyalways(f): 12:53pm On Apr 19, 2011
tennyinfo:

Hello House,
I am a Nigerian with a B.Sc Degree from the south-western part of Nigeria
I am getting married in the next 4 month and I don't have a job yet. My fiancee and I have waited so long to have this marriage carried out but couldn't move ahead because of my job. Sincerely she is rare.
I am currently based in Abuja and also seek an employment in Abuja.
Please If u can help, get in touch with me through my email adetoks2010@aol.com .
Thanks.
Congrats in advance.

Is ur wife working,still in school or out of school but unemployed as well?

What did u study?which areas are u looking at for work?

Like Blazay said,get married If you want/can afford to now but please hold on on making babies first . . .This is not just ur decision to make but u and ur wife should agree to this as one.

Intensify ur search and efforts on getting employed,You have access to internet,don't waste it on nld,browse through Job sites,Career section of nld etc.

Lastly,don't wait or reject job offers cos it ain't ur dream job/pay . . .You are a man,u need to do something to put food on the table.

Goodluck
Re: I Am Getting Married by Nobody: 3:06pm On Apr 19, 2011
jay bee:

Do you want us to congratulate you or sympathise with u?
Confused.com

He wants us to help him get a job . . . undecided
Re: I Am Getting Married by IfeLuvely: 11:54pm On Apr 19, 2011
Eh ya, life is tough ooo, @ OP, abeg just keep praying, GOD is a God of possibilities, he will surely come through for you!!!!

Blazay:

Eeeyah.
Kpele.
If she is rare. . .do not let her go ooooooooooh.  cheesy
Me sef nor get job when I marry.
Just "DO IT" like Nike says. kiss
Na dis kain suffer-head marriage dey sweeet pass.
You will both look back and cry and laugh at these days.


Do a small wedding. . . do not start having babies yet o!

I hope your parents can help you out like they helped me.


Please, reach out to your immediate family first.

@ Blazay, so you mean it So how did you cope, wow that must be a good wife, most ladies nowadays will not even give yu face, "yu no have job and you wan marry me, I don't think so" lipsrsealed snm
Re: I Am Getting Married by aloyemeka2: 3:09am On Apr 20, 2011
tennyinfo:

Hello House,
I am a Nigerian with a B.Sc Degree from the south-western part of Nigeria
I am getting married in the next 4 month and I don't have a job yet. My fiancee and I have waited so long to have this marriage carried out but couldn't move ahead because of my job. Sincerely she is rare.
I am currently based in Abuja and also seek an employment in Abuja.
Please If u can help, get in touch with me through my email adetoks2010@aol.com .
Thanks.

If we help you get a job, are we gonna help you impregnate your wife too?.
Re: I Am Getting Married by Blazay(m): 5:16am On Apr 20, 2011
IfeLuvely:

Eh ya, life is tough ooo, @ OP, abeg just keep praying, GOD is a God of possibilities, he will surely come through for you!!!!

@ Blazay, so you mean it So how did you cope, wow that must be a good wife, most ladies nowadays will not even give yu face, "yu no have job and you wan marry me, I don't think so" lipsrsealed snm


I would not marry a lady from 'nawadays' myself. . . I married an "Old School-Old Flame". . .before the advent of 'FaceBook' and 'Craig's List' brides and grooms! cheesy
Re: I Am Getting Married by hugooh42(m): 6:02am On Apr 20, 2011
Must you continue looking for a pay job?Don't you hane any entrepreneurial spirit in you?It amazes me how a full grown man having gone through school with parents support must continue to waste at home in the name of looking for a job.Now you are thinking of getting someones daughter to share with your suffering.Well, in the part of nigeria where i come from we were not brought up with that mindset.
Re: I Am Getting Married by dayokanu(m): 6:45am On Apr 20, 2011
Congratulations ooo
Re: I Am Getting Married by rasputinn(m): 9:03am On Apr 20, 2011
B.Sc in what?,hope not B.Sc in lack of creativity
If they won't give you a job,CREATE ONE for Pete's sake.This is easier to do than you fearfully think,get rid of the butterflies in your stomach and DO SOMETHING
Re: I Am Getting Married by horny4u(f): 10:23am On Apr 20, 2011
What course did you read and what's your qualification?
Are you willing to relocate
What other skills apart from bsc do you have?
Hold tight help is on the way.
Re: I Am Getting Married by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 20, 2011
aloy-emeka:

If we help you get a job, are we gonna help you impregnate your wife too?.

how silly can you be? undecided
Re: I Am Getting Married by duchess4: 11:21am On Apr 20, 2011
jennykadry:

how silly can you be? undecided
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i tire o! all the poor fellow wanted was a simple advice.

@ aloy

was that too much to ask for?

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