hhhhmmmm ,Amen.

@ Sanzzydawn

Baby are u sure u didnt walk of your fiance because of this so called Bassey? You walked away a month to the wedding? . Abegi oooo, no do something you will regret oooh. Dont give you self headache oooo

jammin:

Then again perhaps it was all a game. and it was'nt going nowhere.
@genial. you have finally declared you are a coward.
that brute would have heard my voice.

jammin:

and now that i have spotted you slinking in the shadows i shall be in your face as well.
nothing is respected. nothing sacred.

Genial:

I see. Make your move.

Checkmate.

@ mypeace, how does this sound?" I discovered my "fiance" had put another girl in the family way" Please stop casting aspersions, something must have happened before I left my "fiancee"

Easy Sweetie , You didnt say it this way. Now I understand better. Its so sad

@topic
yes o! u can imagine, MY BOSS

I have had this kind of problem too. sometime 1997 when i was in SS3 i & a classmate had this kind of feeling for each other, i couldn't make the move as she couldn't too. my only problem was that she is 2years older than me but i really loved her. we both never wanted to see the other in any kind of closeness with any other person of the opposite sex, still we couldn't say it out. i stopped smoking because of her some years later after a serious 9years chain smoking (imagine what love can do). we both found it very had to stay with out the other. I still had this strong love for her before i found out she that she started a relationship with some big guy. so, i know it's too late.
Let's tell of our feelings because tomorrow may never come.

@Snazzydawn
so did snazzy have strong feeling for this guy way back? i ask because the thread said feelings for someone and not showing it.

@topic
yes i have had strong feeling for someone and didnt say , i didnt say because my best friend at the time beat me to it, she started talking about how she liked him and i couldn't tell her i liked him for ages and obviously didnt breathe a word to him. he went out with my friend for a few weeks by then i had gone off him

oh well, things happen for a reason.

@ euphria, yea, I did.

i had strong feeln for a guy i dated, but for 1 year i couldnt tell him how i feel becos i tot i would be letting myself down, well the relationship wasnt going on well becos the guy was a commitment -freak!, eventually when i felt it was about time, i let out and let go, i finally told him i was inlove with him, that was the end of the relationship!

I was dating this guy but we both never said how we felt, i really did like him but i noticed he wasn't ready for a serious r/ship, so i kept my feelings to myself and tagged along with the casual dates we had.he obviously liked me too but was carried away with youthfulness(so to speak).
Later we stopped getting in touch and then i found the true love of my heart.
One day, out of the blues this other guy i had dated called me and then he started calling frequently, he suddenly wanted me to meet his family and was talking me into relocating to where he is. But too late for him, i had lost the affection i had for him, because i now have true love .
He's finding this difficult to get over, and i somehow feel sorry for him but no way, no chance. . . i'm too much in love with my ololufe.

UR STORY IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE BUT I STILL BELIEVE IT . ANYWAY A LOT OF TIMES I JUST SIT IN A BUS AND A GIRL WILL JUST GET IN AND SIT BESIDE ME AND AM LIKE LOST. SOME OF THEM THINK AM BEING SNUBBY, BUT IT'S JUST THAT EXPERIENCE HAS SHOWN ME TO KEEP QUIET MOST TIMES. A COUPLE OF TIMES I OPENED MY MOUTH TO TALK THEY EITHER DROP B4 ME ABRUPTLY THAT I,LL START FEELING STUPID OR THEY START PLAYIN HARD TO GET.
IT'S PAINFULL WHEN U FEEL SOMETHING FOR A BELLE BUT NOT MUSTER THE LIVER TO DELIVER WHAT UR MIND TELLS U. U,LL BE REALLY LUCKY TO SEE THAT PERSON AGAIN. GOD HELP US.

Nonsense. never state your emotions. it is a sign of weakness.
just take everything one day at a time. E3-F5

huh

Yeah. It Happens To All Of Us All The Time.

Cant Even Count The Loses That Have Accrued From My In Ability To Speak Out.

I Think It Accounts Largely For The Lonely Life I Live. My Advice To The House This:

Always Tell People How Much U Love Them. No Matter Their Reactions, Positive or Negative. At Least U'd Be Sure Of One Thing--You Tried.

With That U Leave No Room For Had I Knowns. .

I Lost Out Of One Of The Most Beautiful and Pious Relationships I Hve and May Ever Encounter Again. A Relationship of 4 Years.

In The End She Became More Of A Sister. I Was So " Chiken " To Even Offer Solid Advice On A Suitor.

Was It Pride. Was If Timidity? Was It A Case Of Trying To Prove " Mr Disciplned"? Well, I Cant Pin Point. Well Its Too Late!

Outcome: They Wedded Last Easter Period!!

Now I Date Imaginaries.

Never Again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To Hell , Off With Procastination. Indecisions. Or Is It?

Well Im Out.

Plnty

Always Tell People How Much U Love Them. No Matter Their Reactions, Positive or Negative. At Least U'd Be Sure Of One Thing--You Tried.

With That U Leave No Room For Had I Knowns.

True talk Mr PAIN, True talk

Yes i am even having at the moment for a lady on Nairaland specifically. I guess overtime i do come out to express my feelings most appropiately.

Yup