Joel3:
People ask me why I don't take girls serious and if I don't plan to marry. One question in my mind is how many women nowadays will submit their money at their man feet ?

My old man run the home even when no one works. And when my mom start working she submit the money at his feet. Girls nowadays are looking for man that will serve them. Count me out.

Vision101:
@debbydams
lol..I can't trust any man nd if I'll trust any man den something would v happened..if he worth it why won't I...I remembered telling my ex the exact amount I v in my acct he drained everything before he left...I'm still nursing the pains it cost till date..so as we have useless ladies so we have stupid nd useless men just that we might not know the good ones.


@me
I can see that you are a good lady. Well I am a good man too. Trust me and submit your pay and I will not disappoint you.

Vision101:
cococandy
Are you going to be submitting yours as well?



@me
If he submits his own it means there are two equal masters. But this is not the case. The lower will have to submit to the higher master. After all the Bible enjoined wives to submit to their husbands.

ChiefSosa:

There's several gay men out there; go for them.

Shokoloko:
I just tried laying a wad of notes at my husband's feet but he couldn't pick the money with his toes. I also tried to pick it with my toes and couldn't so I took it back with my hands and we cuddled up and laughed at you.

Joel3:
Then how do you want to man to run the bills. If you choose not to submit it. From what I understand here you do not trust the man with your money. Why then do you want to marry him and why do you want him to pay bride price. Why still do you want to inherite the Men money, house, property? What give you the justification. Can the man inherite your property? Listen to yourself.

We have so many foolish man nowadays. I was born with wisdom so can't me out. Marriage is a scam from this generation.

LilMissFavvy:
Oga calm down. I have observed you keep asking how a man will run the bills of the family if wife doesn't submit her money. My answer to you is that it can be achieved if the couple have a joint account, or if husband and wife handle financial responsibilities from their separate purses, though not all ladies like to share financial responsibilities. Also, women are home managers, so as a man you can be submitting your salary to your wife to run the home. How about that? You don't need to prostrate at her feet to give it, ok . As for bride price that you keep mentioning, some bride prices are chicken feed.......I also hope you are aware that some ladies assist their men during wedding expenses. Marriage is once in a lifetime, so why do men like you keep lamenting about the cost? As for inheritance issue, most men give a reasonable amount of their inheritance to their children, not wife.

bukatyne:


Do gay men submit their salaries like the OP wants?

mariahAngel:


Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Are you by any chance Ybaby? She's an expert at dealing with men like op

The chief whip I call her!

Vision101:



@me
All these long grammar is because of few of you that earn little change. The greater majority of you only submit your Vmobile. Majority of men have been submitting their all by footing all bills since the days of father Abraham without making noise.

Women are really stingy.

Joel3:
People ask me why I don't take girls serious and if I don't plan to marry. One question in my mind is how many women nowadays will submit their money at their man feet ?

My old man run the home even when no one works. And when my mom start working she submit the money at his feet. Girls nowadays are looking for man that will serve them. Count me out.

Ebonygeek:

Lol your level of insecurity is astounding.

If you truly want to follow the old ways, you would take care of all the financial duties in your home and not bother your wife with finances

Joel3:
it's not. if she decide not to work and be house wife. No problem but if she thinks she need to work, maybe because she can't be idle then she has no option than to submit it.

mariahAngel:
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Joel3:
who told you that. My father is no more. My mom is collecting the rent for his house for herself. Look here men this days are foolish.

I do not subscribe to anything short of that. It's the man running the bills. This is just a little test. What she drops is little fraction of the billa the man pays. Men dies Earlier because of too much load.

Munzy14:

Onye cancel....

Onye kor mkpa ya, a tuo ra ya meeting....OP koro mkpa ya gi na cancel...lol

Munzy14:



You are really talking from a deeper place of experience...but highly misunderstood...Because they take anything involving men and women here as gender war.

Joel3:
People ask me why I don't take girls serious and if I don't plan to marry. One question in my mind is how many women nowadays will submit their money at their man feet ?

My old man run the home even when no one works. And when my mom start working she submit the money at his feet. Girls nowadays are looking for man that will serve them. Count me out.

Joel3:
if just like having packs of biscuits and you give a little child one sachet. Than you ask or beg the same child just a stick biscuits. He the child refuse.

mariahAngel:


I was lost for words at his audacity!
Inukwa drop at his feet...obi si ya kpogbuo'm nnoo

Not that the woman won't support her family.
The best thing for him would be that they (with his wife) establish/run a business together.

Munzy14:

Lol...If you pay attention to his comments, you wilm understand he is talking from a point of deep experience o nwere probably from growing up.

Run a business with wify? Mba o...business di na nwunye no deh grow... Indecision and unnecessary quarrel will arise as a result of ekwere m, ekweghi m...lol

A customer i supply some products na so his business the shake...no no... A man must have his job or business o ji echekwa ezi na ulo ya..

Then he can establish a business solely for the wife or wife get 8am -4pm job..very important...business get ups and down time...wife can step in to move family forward..while oga return to drawing board to balance his business..

Ihe n'ile a wu good planning...life is easy when u plan well with grace of God on your side.


A traditional man will never ask u to help, but then, he wishes you can without telling him...He will soo appreciate it..

I read somewhere a lady said she foot bills for a particular month, na so the hubby just fill up kitchen and store room with goodies...Obi a togbuo di lady... Uwa di uto, but na unnecessary right claims and online community wokeness the spoil a..

mariahAngel:


You made good points.

The thing is, when it comes to women matters, there are ways to go about it.
Owuhu ihe e ji ike ike e me.
It's all about understanding between the couple.
These things are not hard to do, but going about it the way op presented will yield nothing but animosity.
It's just money after all...e jikwanu ego owu a ga olee?

As long as they're open and honest with each other...and not one trying to cheat or defraud the other (like the case of that Ghanaian couple)
I think a marriage where the couple are open to each other about everything will thrive.

...but why do some couples find it hard to be friends?
When that passion fades, most of them can't stand each other.

Munzy14:

O ya nu...It's all about understanding and being open to each other.


Some couples can't be friends because of orientation they grew up with plus environmental influence in addition to how they met.

Especially ndi arranged marriage....AKA see this month and marry next month...

In such, I wonder how they meet for sex.....Like the man will frown while doing his conjugal work...Ka owu after the doings eacho of them returns to factory settings....Some couples cannever be friends...They live like people cohabiting.