It has once been said that if there is love and understanding between the lovers that distance does not matter, but have seen brake-ups caused as a result of distance even in a loving and understanding relationship. Kindly give your reasonable opinion please.

OP.

It doesn't matter . . .Seriousness matters.

It depends on the people involved. Some people can have a distance relationship and do well, others cant. II personally cannot survive in such a relationship

NO!

lutha:

It has once been said that if there is love and understanding between the lovers that distance does not matter, [b]but have seen break-ups caused as a result of distance even in a loving and understanding relationship. [/b]Kindly give your reasonable opinion please.

That's life o. Some people can handle it; some people can't. It depends on the couple's willpower.

It depends on the couple/individual; depends on how well they can handle it.  But to me sha, it matters, and DISTANCE IS A B[i]1TCH[/i]! (sometimes )

BABE!:

It depends on the couple/individual; depends on how well they can handle it.  But to me sha, it matters, and DISTANCE IS A B[i]1TCH[/i]! (sometimes  )

     


Thank Gawd u said sometimes, There is still hope

I said "sometimes" because, distance is not a bitch when I don't want to see the person!


Which hope? Abegy!

I dey o. Ke kwanu? 9ja and US. No UK and US lol.

Lol why you dey vex? 9ja na the location sha.

yeah distance really matters,
like when u re in heaven n ur soulmate is in hell fire.

With constant communication it makes it easier

If both parties are "seriously" committed to making the relationship work, then distance will not really matter.

Distance is ok if you already have a firm foundation together before the separation.

I think exactly as Nekai.
Unfortunately my experience with distance relation was nightmare.

lutha:

It has once been said that if there is love and understanding between the lovers that distance does not matter, but have seen brake-ups caused as a result of distance even in a loving and understanding relationship. Kindly give your reasonable opinion please.

It's a very tough question to answer if the relationship will work out, it really depends on the couple if they planned to work hard or give up easily. Yes! It's not as easy as anyone thinks,  struggles with culture, time difference and the list goes on. Occasional arguments are unavoidable due to misunderstanding, communication breakdown, trust etc.

I truly understand the difficulty and hardship as I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful naija man for almost 11 months now. I can't deny we have ups and down or several times when things gets tough,  I wanna quit. We would discuss about giving it up but somehow we cant and still managed to stay together. Hopefully things will work out when he move closer to my country so we can start seeing each other regularly.

As to how the ending of distance relationship will be,  nobody knows,  but if we walk away now we might lose our soulmate without realising. At least we put in effort tried our best with no regrets. 

Some of the factors are;
1. Age
2. Time difference
3. Culture
4. Understanding
5. Tolerance
6. Communication
7. Individual Character
8. Sincerity
9. Honesty
10. Jealousy
11. Trust
12. Emotional
13. Patience
14. Fidelity
15. Effort

Icy Icy:

It's a very tough question to answer if the relationship will work out, it really depends on the couple if they planned to work hard or give up easily. Yes! It's not as easy as anyone thinks,  struggles with culture, time difference and the list goes on. Occasional arguments are unavoidable due to misunderstanding, communication breakdown, trust etc.

I truly understand the difficulty and hardship as I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful naija man for almost 11 months now. I can't deny we have ups and down or several times when things gets tough,  I wanna quit. We would discuss about giving it up but somehow we cant and still managed to stay together. Hopefully things will work out when he move closer to my country so we can start seeing each other regularly.

As to how the ending of how distance relationship will be,  nobody knows,  but if we walk away now we might lose our soulmate without realising. At least we put in effort tried our best with no regrets. 

Some of the factors are;
1. Age
2. Time difference
3. Culture
4. Understanding
5. Tolerance
6. Communication
7. Individual Character
8. Sincerity
9. Honesty
10. Jealousy
11. Trust
12. Emotional
13. Patience
14. Fidelity
15. Effort

U got it right, u talking from experience.

kemisuga:

U got it right, u talking from experience.

Basically long distance does hinder but do close distance relationship work out all the time? No! So what if we are just 500 meters away, sees each other daily but neither party wants to work at it will the relationship flourish?

It's still the human factor afterall to achieve success or fail. 

distance has nothing to do with LOVE,however it does contribute to certain level of decision taking periods.

one thing i hate about distance relationship is that the babe might just call u on phone to tell u she had with jonhson. with stammering voice at that . . . really annoying . Of all chicks i have come across distance isn't really favoring me. Staying in kaduna while she's in Warri, can be disastrous, if u know what i mean.

Keeping a relationship alive across the miles is no easy task…….so I advise my people before taken any step into long distance relationship always make sure that your ready to face the consequences.

jst as BABE said distance is a B1TCH!! Can drive u mad cos u dnt get to see her feel her be intimate with her nd all. So i aint down 4 it.

Out of sight, in most cases, eventually becomes out of mind.

Long distance relationships only work when you're banging other people.

Long Distance Relationship my foot.
Phone calls, texts and letters just ain't ma thing.
. . . .why clutch on a pillow when there are . . . . . .anysha each to own. Sorry!

at op

IT MATTERS!!

nt matter what matter is just undastanding nd trust,.

^^^^^

na today


trust and faith are two different things,