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Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Micholawoye: 2:51pm On May 22, 2021
Good afternoon everyone. So recently, a friend of mine has been posting a lot of stories of married and single ladies cheating. I used to have that mindset until recently after I got married.
This post is to correct a few ingrained errors about ladies and marriages.

1. Guys, a good number of women are promiscuous just like men are too. A lot of guys like to experiment sexually and ladies do too. Promiscuity is not a gender based thing, rather it is a thing of choice...just as there are promiscuous women, they are also women who are not promiscuous. Don't let what you hear everyday influence you...pray to God to give you your own woman. Note: The woman who God gives you may have a past sexual history but that doesn't stop her from being faithful and loyal to you.

2. Most of us guys were whores in school, chasing and sleeping with everything in skirt, but a time came and we reduced it and eventually stopped it. It's the same for women. People make mistakes and change, don't castigate anyone based on their past as long as they are ready to change for good.
Your own woman is out there who would not cheat on you even if she's offered a million dollars. Your job: Find her and find peace!!

3. Note : While dating a lady and you find out she's cheating on you, please note that that's a red flag. My advice: Please Break up that relationship and move on to avoid premium tears in the future.

4. What do you do next? Dust yourself up and continue digging for your gold and have this in mind: Gold most times is found buried deep in the earth. Your own gold is there, you just need a little more digging (searching and praying) to find her.
Remember, he who finds a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord!!
Guys, there are still good, faithful ladies out there!! Don't give up and don't write all ladies off!!
If you need more counselling, leave a message and I will get back at you. ( Pardon any grammatical errors pls, no be English I read for school)

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by DICKstractor(m): 3:02pm On May 22, 2021
undecided


Our chief of Army Staff is dead and you telling us about plenty fish in the river...


Just tell us how to breakup this contraption we all are in lipsrsealed

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:03pm On May 22, 2021
compared to the number of unfaithful ones, the number of faithful ladies are insignificantly few

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by javaguru: 3:09pm On May 22, 2021
when the time is right, everything go fall in place
money first
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by DDDEnterprises: 3:11pm On May 22, 2021
anthonyuncle:
compared to the number of unfaithful ones, the number of faithful ladies are insignificantly few

Insignificantly few?? shocked

It's either I don't understand you or you're exaggerating.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Micholawoye: 3:12pm On May 22, 2021
anthonyuncle:
compared to the number of unfaithful ones, the number of faithful ladies are insignificantly few

They are not insignificantly few sir. They are all around you

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by esthel(f): 3:13pm On May 22, 2021
So are the men
anthonyuncle:
compared to the number of unfaithful ones, the number of faithful ladies are insignificantly few

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:13pm On May 22, 2021
DDDEnterprises:


Insignificantly few?? shocked

It's either I don't understand you or you're exaggerating.

comprehend it or not at your own peril
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:15pm On May 22, 2021
Micholawoye:


They are not insignificantly few sir. They are all around you

lol.

you make me laugh.


if only you knew
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:16pm On May 22, 2021
esthel:
So are the men
.

yes - to an extent.
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Micholawoye: 3:46pm On May 22, 2021
anthonyuncle:


lol.

you make me laugh.


if only you knew

I do KNOW sir. I am surrounded by people who are happily married. I am happily married myself and enjoying my marriage by God's grace.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Michelle55: 4:01pm On May 22, 2021
Aptly said! Being faithful to one partner isn't gender based, both parties involved are expected to stay faithful to each other.

Besides, faithfulness isn't something you do for others to praise you, it's something you do for yourself. It shows you know your worth as a man/woman and its not everyone that can have access to your body, you are not a community restroom where anyone can just come in and deposit their spunks.


Let's take a look at why one needs to be faithful to their partners, here are few reasons but you can add yours too:

-Being faithful gives you peace of mind, you don’t have to watch your tracks, you are not paranoid, trying to remember every lie you say.

-Being faithful has a positive effect on your character. That way, you are able to live out your greatness with confidence. Integrity is important, and it starts by how you live your private life, it gives moral authority. Mess up your private life and everything else will fall apart.
-Faithful people are happier, more relaxed, more fulfilled, they smile more; their conscience is clear, living a life that is not stressful, empty or complicated.

-Being faithful makes your lover trust you, and with trust, he/she surrenders and gives all to you, you get to know your lover deeply as access is fully granted to you. Without trust, you will never fully receive all the blessings your lover brings.
Finally, unfaithfulness brings diseases; not just sexual diseases but the rotting of your heart, it darkens and poisons the amazing person you actually are, condoms cannot protect you from the decay of your soul. So, before you decide to cheat, remember that you are also destroying yourself and not just your partner's happiness.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Joel3(m): 4:05pm On May 22, 2021
Micholawoye:


I do KNOW sir. I am surrounded by people who are happily married. I am happily married myself and enjoying my marriage by God's grace.
that what you think. Every broken marriage once thought they are enjoying it until to tell on their eyes.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 4:23pm On May 22, 2021
Micholawoye

In my state (Delta) a man set himself- burnt himself to death because of his faithful wife. Yes he killed himself because his wife was faithful and true with another man dick.

Why dont you wait for 20 years latet, then come and tell us how faithful your wife is.

Then we will believe you (all) as you say

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 4:24pm On May 22, 2021
DICKstractor:
undecided


Our chief of Army Staff is dead and you telling us about plenty grin fish in the river...


Just tell us how to breakup this contraption we all are in lipsrsealed

grin grin
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Jeon(f): 5:30pm On May 22, 2021
Micholawoye:
Good afternoon everyone. So recently, a friend of mine has been posting a lot of stories of married and single ladies cheating. I used to have that mindset until recently after I got married.
This post is to correct a few ingrained errors about ladies and marriages.

1. Guys, a good number of women are promiscuous just like men are too. A lot of guys like to experiment sexually and ladies do too. Promiscuity is not a gender based thing, rather it is a thing of choice...just as there are promiscuous women, they are also women who are not promiscuous. Don't let what you hear everyday influence you...pray to God to give you your own woman. Note: The woman who God gives you may have a past sexual history but that doesn't stop her from being faithful and loyal to you.

2. Most of us guys were whores in school, chasing and sleeping with everything in skirt, but a time came and we reduced it and eventually stopped it. It's the same for women. People make mistakes and change, don't castigate anyone based on their past as long as they are ready to change for good.
Your own woman is out there who would not cheat on you even if she's offered a million dollars. Your job: Find her and find peace!!

3. Note : While dating a lady and you find out she's cheating on you, please note that that's a red flag. My advice: Please Break up that relationship and move on to avoid premium tears in the future.

4. What do you do next? Dust yourself up and continue digging for your gold and have this in mind: Gold most times is found buried deep in the earth. Your own gold is there, you just need a little more digging (searching and praying) to find her.
Remember, he who finds a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord!!
Guys, there are still good, faithful ladies out there!! Don't give up and don't write all ladies off!!
If you need more counselling, leave a message and I will get back at you. ( Pardon any grammatical errors pls, no be English I read for school)

Lollittaa come and read
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by GboyegaD(m): 5:56pm On May 22, 2021
People have a choice to believe what they want the very reason I have learned not to comment on threads as this.

Good side is there are many decent females out there.

Generally, I feel many grew up in dysfunctional homes and they try to force the impressions of their upbringing on the innocent ones.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 5:56pm On May 22, 2021
Micholawoye:


I do KNOW sir. I am surrounded by people who are happily married. I am happily married myself and enjoying my marriage by God's grace.

...by God's grace

not by the goodness of your spouse
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by ImaIma1(f): 5:56pm On May 22, 2021
Lostchild:
Micholawoye

In my state (Delta) a man set himself- burnt himself to death because of his faithful wife. Yes he killed himself because his wife was faithful and true with another man dick.

Why dont you wait for 20 years latet, then come and tell us how faithful your wife is.

Then we will believe you (all) as you say


In that same Delta state where a man killed himself over an unfaithful wife, there are faithful wives living with their husbands. Let's not generalize unfaithfulness.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 1:38am On May 25, 2021
ImaIma1:


In that same Delta state where a man killed himself over an unfaithful wife, there are faithful wives living with their husbands. Let's not generalize unfaithfulness.

When a woman is rape does it mean all men are rapist?
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by ImaIma1(f): 6:23am On May 25, 2021
Lostchild:


When a woman is rape does it mean all men are rapist?


I don't get your point.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 6:43am On May 25, 2021
ImaIma1:


I don't get your point.

A woman can be rape by a man but that doesn't mean every men out there are rapist.

A woman can cheat on her husband that doesn't mean every women out there are unfaithful to their husband.

I hope you get my point?

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by ImaIma1(f): 6:58am On May 25, 2021
Lostchild:


A woman can be rape by a man but that doesn't mean every men out there are rapist.

A woman can cheat on her husband that doesn't mean every women out there are unfaithful to their husband.

I hope you get my point?


The topic wasn't about rapists but about unfaithfulness but I get you.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by apatheticme(f): 1:17pm On May 25, 2021
GboyegaD:
People have a choice to believe what they want the very reason I have learned not to comment on threads as this.

Good side is there are many decent females out there.

Generally, I feel many grew up in dysfunctional homes and they try to force the impressions of their upbringing on the innocent ones.

Good point.

People will believe whatever they want. There are lots of faithful spouses/partners regardless of gender all around. However, this generation will tag them prude, boring and then turn around to wail after the interesting and loud ones disappoint them!

It is what it is, to every rule or norm, there'll always be exceptions!

I hope this generation understands this.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by eazzzy1(m): 2:51pm On May 25, 2021
In my opinion, a person sexual history should not be overlooked. Someone who has enjoyed a lot of casual sex do not just outgrow it or discontinue it, it may reduce due to lack of opportunities/chance/space but it never really goes away.

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Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by pansophist(m): 11:02pm On May 25, 2021
Show me a person that is recklessly promiscuous (man or woman), and I will show you a person with a very low IQ. cool

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