My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....

Women decision is in a second, she might truly loved you, the two times she visited.....that is why guys don't pampered girls anymore, because it's only the sweet memories that girls value most.

Apart from me who else notice the op is mentally unbalance?

Bomboclatt
You are doing yourself

YahooSon:
Bomboclatt
You are doing yourself

How? you are sick on your head, do i tell you i'm hurt... Since three months i have not seen her i'm busy having affairs with other girls, i was having patiance with her does not mean i put my all heart on her... I'm only surprised she can move on just like that...

Mstcheeee na this kind human being go embarrassed woman for public if he mistakenly sees her with any guy and if by bad luck shes putting on anything he bought for her.












Redoil boyfriend!

U told her to delete ur number from her phone and Never talk to u anywhere she sees u.


Small pikin na e u be..common to convince a girl to love u,u no fit.u come here dey rant.

Thank your head you never spend kobo... girls of today no send you oo

donbachi:
U told her to delete ur number from her phone and Never talk to u anywhere she sees u.


Small pikin na e u be..common to convince a girl to love u,u no fit.u come here dey rant.

You wey don grow, see i be fresh blood, woman no suppose do shakara for me, na money wey i no get and i believe money go come...

Convincing a woman is like begging her, for how long will i beg a woman to love me..

Caaz:
Mstcheeee na this kind human being go embarrassed woman for public if he mistakenly sees her with any guy and if by bad luck shes putting on anything he bought for her.












Redoil boyfriend!

Lol i'm not like that sha but i can not spend something that will pain me for a woman....
Before i spend anything for you i will be sure the girl i'm spending my money on really worth it....

So girls still uses those words my mother is very sick to decieve guys, nothing good pass make a guy dey street wise

zyzxx:
Thank your head you never spend kobo... girls of today no send you oo

Lol after you spend money on them they go still leave you...
A woman wey wan leave you go still leave you, if you like buy her heaven on earth...

Of all the problems in this country, some people are not bothered both hovering around those bleeding species....

Kings999:


You wey don grow, see i be fresh blood, woman no suppose do shakara for me, na money wey i no get and i believe money go come...

Convincing a woman is like begging her, for how long will i beg a woman to love me..

u no get money..na wetin u for talk.may GOD open financial doors for u.

donbachi:
u no get money..na wetin u for talk.may GOD open financial doors for u.

Amen!

But i have change to take care of myself and flex a woman...

Kings999:


Amen!

But i have change to take care of myself and flex a woman...

na small small.

Learner

Kings999:
My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....

Toh, she has a sick mom and you've not spent kobo and you expect her to actually give shiit about you and d yeye 'i love you and I miss you"? Those people she posts on her status are her benefactors.

No woman will be with you if you have just nonsense love words to give unlike she likes you genuinely from the onset

fuckingAyaya:
So girls still uses those words my mother is very sick to decieve guys, nothing good pass make a guy dey street wise

You don’t really love her from the onset . No loss , oga go your way with your fake love .

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

donbachi:
U told her to delete ur number from her phone and Never talk to u anywhere she sees u.


Small pikin na e u be..common to convince a girl to love u,u no fit.u come here dey rant.

Lol.

fuckingAyaya:
So girls still uses those words my mother is very sick to decieve guys, nothing good pass make a guy dey street wise

Abeg i take God name beg you, i cannot anymore

Kings999:


You wey don grow, see i be fresh blood, woman no suppose do shakara for me, na money wey i no get and i believe money go come...

Convincing a woman is like begging her, for how long will i beg a woman to love me..

but you should atleast act like your moniker na

SweetCuntess:
Toh, she has a sick mom and you've not spent kobo and you expect her to actually give shiit about you and d yeye 'i love you and I miss you"? Those people she posts on her status are her benefactors.

No woman will be with you if you have just nonsense love words to give unlike she likes you genuinely from the onset

Guy if you want i go give you her number you can chat her and help her mom in the hospital, we know say you get money....

If na me she go fit help me?
So na because of woman she be na why i go go broke for her, how many people or guys you don help send money for nairaland here, abi you wan pretend say you no dey see guys wey dey beg for nairaland...

skaqe:
asking him to convince her to love him would only lower his self worth and it will be perceived as begging to be loved% listen son you need to accept the fact that the girl was never into you in the first place: you deserve better than all these emotional trauma you subjected yourself to% cut ur loses work on ursef and u will certainly meet a lady that truly love you iree ooooo

Bro if God no bless you make i know, nobody will really understand but they are defending her because she is a woman, i told her something very serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wants to send to another guy.. she did not even pay attention on what i was telling her...
Lol i gave her the oportunity to continue with those her boyfriends she is posting on whatsapp, i can not be in a competition with my fellow guys because of a woman...

Juliusmomoh:
Apart from me who else notice the op is mentally unbalance?

why do u say he is mentally unbalanced

Kings999:


Guy if you want i go give you her number you can chat her and help her mom in the hospital, we know say you get money....

If na me she go fit help me?
So na because of woman she be na why i go go broke for her, how many people or guys you don help send money for nairaland here, abi you wan pretend say you no dey see guys wey dey beg for nairaland...

Na u Sabi. A woman will choose d comfortable guy first cos if not so, Ruth for Bible for no go sleep for Boaz leg. Be wise

You are the woman in that relationship

The two times she came to Ur place, what did U do? Did U make any advances to show her Ur very much in it? Maybe she waited too long