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Must Every Relationship Lead To Marriage? by NSK4U(m): 6:34pm On Jun 01
Maybe it could be normal for most people in relationships to always have the hope of settling down someday.
My experience with ladies I often find myself dating tend to be annoyingly inquisitive about my marriage plans. At 27 and in 300level of my second degree, I am not yet thinking of marriage as there are other life goals I have to attain before it, yet each time a lady says 'yes' to me and perhaps along the line, we got intimate, her next discussions would begin to hover round marital enquiries such as: will your people allow you to marry from another tribe(this ones are usually from other tribes)? When do you plan to settle down? What if I got pregnant, would you make me your wife? When do you plan to introduce me to mum and dad? ...... and the list of questions chokes!
Each time they ask me these questions, I feel the need to end the relationship in fear of such desperation, yet my subsequent relationships often take the same turn.
Besides, I am often left with a guilty conscience each time I plan to end a relationship due to that I had gotten intimate with these ladies before they start making marriage suggestions.
At the moment, I have a current relationship I already planned to jump out of recently because of my lady's continued suggestion that we should have a baby before the next 3years. She already calculated that we can't spend more than 3years in school and that we should be settling down immediately after graduation. I announced to her that I was not doing again when she came around yesterday and she sternly said; "that I was joking, and that nobody is leaving the relationship". I'm still thinking of what to do next because she's been emotional since then and has refused to go back to her school hostel. Please I'd like to know from matured and experienced minds what I am not doing right and what often brings a lady's mind to marriage during dating even when such relationship is still young.

.......Eze (Ibadan)
Re: Must Every Relationship Lead To Marriage? by Prettyclown: 6:47pm On Jun 01
It depends on the kind of women u involve yourself with
Take for instance, u r dating an early twenties woman, for her she still needs to explore and it the opposite for a woman in her late twenties, she desperately needs to settle down bcoz she has explored enough(dicking days is over) grin

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Re: Must Every Relationship Lead To Marriage? by fati2001(m): 7:20pm On Jun 01
NSK4U:
Maybe it could be normal for most people in relationships to always have the hope of settling down someday.
My experience with ladies I often find myself dating tend to be annoyingly inquisitive about my marriage plans. At 27 and in 300level of my second degree, I am not yet thinking of marriage as there are other life goals I have to attain before it, yet each time a lady says 'yes' to me and perhaps along the line, we got intimate, her next discussions would begin to hover round marital enquiries such as: will your people allow you to marry from another tribe(this ones are usually from other tribes)? When do you plan to settle down? What if I got pregnant, would you make me your wife? When do you plan to introduce me to mum and dad? ...... and the list of questions chokes!
Each time they ask me these questions, I feel the need to end the relationship in fear of such desperation, yet my subsequent relationships often take the same turn.
Besides, I am often left with a guilty conscience each time I plan to end a relationship due to that I had gotten intimate with these ladies before they start making marriage suggestions.
At the moment, I have a current relationship I already planned to jump out of recently because of my lady's continued suggestion that we should have a baby before the next 3years. She already calculated that we can't spend more than 3years in school and that we should be settling down immediately after graduation. I announced to her that I was not doing again when she came around yesterday and she sternly said; "that I was joking, and that nobody is leaving the relationship". I'm still thinking of what to do next because she's been emotional since then and has refused to go back to her school hostel. Please I'd like to know from matured and experienced minds what I am not doing right and what often brings a lady's mind to marriage during dating even when such relationship is still young.

.......Eze (Ibadan)


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Re: Must Every Relationship Lead To Marriage? by NSK4U(m): 7:59pm On Jun 02
Prettyclown:
It depends on the kind of women u involve yourself with
Take for instance, u r dating an early twenties woman, for her she still needs to explore and it the opposite for a woman in her late twenties, she desperately needs to settle down bcoz she has explored enough(dicking days is over) grin

My current babe is 24 and I have never dated any gal above 25

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