Xenry:
You didn't see this before marriage, did you?

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Just like I have said before:"they came crawling like snakes with masks, faking humility and always hiding their true nature so as to be welcomed by all... And when the time is set, they unpack their bags and show the environment with it can turn into. But the wise man always takes caution because he knows that all that glitters is not gold. Therefore, for him to believe, he must get to take off the woman's mask off first and see his hidden nature."

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This is what happens in marriage, the woman always comes in by hiding her true nature so as to be accepted by all. But one thing is certain: she can't hide forever, and after she is fully welcomed and she gives birth to the family (especially if it's a baby boy), that's when her weaknesses will step in and her true nature will be revealed to be seen by all.

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Be like the wise man, and you will know peace. But unfortunately for you, @Op, she unpacked before you get to see what's under that mask.