Odunnu:

Its the bride's name and her family's that come first.
Men sef!

tennyinfo:

Hmm, marriage requires diligency. What I knw dat has bn is dat [size=15pt]marriage is primarily been celebrated by d wifes family nt d grooms[/size], which is why d wifes family name and brides name comes first.
Moreso theres evry tendncy dat in d past it has bn agreed dat d wifes name should always cme 1st jst to reduce d predominance of mens world as they use d word "she" for countrys and oda things
Anyway congrats

Am just me:

My dear, its not a big deal whose name comes first, if its a christain marriage you have to start learning the submission thingy from now, always discuss issues with your husband but when you have prayed and talked and he still feels,it should be done his way, you have to submit. This is just one of such moments, if you start talking with other family members about this, your inviting third parties into future decisions in your home,[size=15pt] be prayerful and cautious even to the advices you receive on this thread[/size]. May GOD bless your union.

Busy_body:


@BB20

Trying to be sleek ehn and pretending you are giving advise abi, advise wey you no remember say you wan give before abi, shior, I know your game, you are still hanging around on this thread because of those groomsmen abi, you are getting none, barawo, potential husband snatcher oshi, lol.

Busy_body:

Bawss


What is good about his mundane post? Does everything have to be a war between the 2 sexes? All everyone here is saying is if you are gonna follow the oyinbo tradition of having a white wedding, they might as well toe the line of the same tradition and put the ladies name first then.

Na wetin be the biggie about whose name should take precedence, dem dey take am collect money from the bank or what, mscheewww, these men sef, and small time dem go dey talk say women are petty, taking offence solely cos women are saying let tradition win the day, na wa oh, Nigerian women don suffer sha.


@BB20

Trying to be sleek ehn and pretending you are giving advise abi, advise wey you no remember say you wan give before abi, shior, I know your game, you are still hanging around on this thread because of those groomsmen abi, you are getting none, barawo, potential husband snatcher oshi, lol.

Princek12:

As usual, a substantial majority of women will advocate in favor of following a long-standing practice when it suits or benefits them. Many women here are saying that the woman's name should come first because of its long-standing practice, not because of any other logical reason.

However, when these same women are confronted with another scenario in which men advocate for the continuance of a behavior because of its long-standing practice, these same women will revolt and say that such practice should change if such practice does not benefit them. [/b]This is feminist mentality to say the least, always cherry-picking when you want to be treated like a lady--obviously when it benefits women.

I don't think I have personally noticed a pattern of whose name comes first on the invitation, probably because I am not cognizant of such things, but I think whatever the long-standing practice is should control here. [b]Presumably, it had been done that way for good reasons, not for malicious or invidiously discriminatory reasons.

busybody20:

Are you kidding me? Tell me something else  
      



U knw se na sent forth now. lol. so they are the one hosting.
Anyway, I think it is high time we define our own standards in Nigeria as this whole copy cat thing is really causing confusions.
We dont even know if we speak american or Uk english self. At least make we have Nigerian standard ways of doing things abeg

Why i dey even comment for this kind topic self oh girl if you no want your man name to come first call off the wedding make you see who go lose. for your information na you oh. the man go continue from where him stop call the other girl in his life for and use the things when him buy for una wedding just marry another person highest them go use tippest clean your name write another girl name, then you go they house till menopause come because you want your name to come first just remember men no dey see menopause so at any age them go still marry and start a family.

Enjoy your self and forget people opinion on a matter when be say na you go still dey the guy house 20 years from now no body from naira land go dey there with you.