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| Why? by Nobody: 2:53pm On May 06, 2011 |
[color=#0066ff]Why is that some men believe once a woman gives birth to their baby/ies, she is free game for s3x even if they are no longer an item?  [/color] |
| Re: Why? by MrsChima(f): 2:55pm On May 06, 2011 |
Good morning, Mz Dark and Lovely! Oh my! I am curious to know the answers too. Wait a minute, are these married couples or just boyfriends and girlfriends? |
| Re: Why? by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 06, 2011 |
[color=#0066ff]Hey Queen Chima! I guess both. Had this conversation with my neighbor today. He was a bit errrm 'manly' with his answers! LOL.[/color] |
| Re: Why? by MrsChima(f): 3:04pm On May 06, 2011 |
Well. if is the married couples then that is a tricky subject because some old fashioned people would say that a woman can't deny her husband sex regardless of how she feels or not but like INKY said if a woman say no and is forced to have sex that is RAPE. The boyfriend and girlfriend situation, the girl is not obligated to give the boy sex even if they have a kid together. That is the different between marriage and dating. One is obligation and the other one is free for all. If the woman was that important to him he should have put a ring on it. If she good enough to have a baby with and sex on a regular then she should be good enough for everything that comes with it. |
| Re: Why? by Omolola1(f): 3:09pm On May 06, 2011 |
because the contract they have is over and done with |
| Re: Why? by livedit(f): 3:41pm On May 06, 2011 |
Hi MzDark/Mrs.Chima!  I think for some "men" they think they have some kind of "ownership" or stake their claim because of the "investment" they made in producing a child with their partner. That she "bared" his child, therefore they are linked together for life. Which in a way is true. But not the way some men think. Only through that child, not their partner. But I think it's just some immature selfish childish idiotic mentality thought idea that eventually one day he will be brought to their realization that it's untrue. |
| Re: Why? by MrCork17: 4:37pm On May 06, 2011 |
Mr Cork <<<<<< Can NEVER EVER date a chick with kids  |
| Re: Why? by 190: 4:54pm On May 06, 2011 |
190>>>>>>>>CAN DATE A WOMAN AND CHICKS |
| Re: Why? by obowunmi(m): 5:39pm On May 06, 2011 |
When is woman is in a "baby mama" situation --- meaning a woman with children but no husband, men assume she's crazy and try to xploit that. at some point as well, she will be hungry for sex --- cause there's no steady dck. So they hope its them. |
| Re: Why? by kokoye(m): 5:41pm On May 06, 2011 |
Thank God you said 'some' We'll wait for those 'some' to come respond. |
| Re: Why? by MrsChima(f): 5:59pm On May 06, 2011 |
She meant all.  |
| Re: Why? by kokoye(m): 6:00pm On May 06, 2011 |
^^^ Here we go . . . |
| Re: Why? by MrsChima(f): 6:01pm On May 06, 2011 |
What you gon do? |
| Re: Why? by kokoye(m): 6:02pm On May 06, 2011 |
^^^ Log out  |
| Re: Why? by Nekai(f): 6:06pm On May 06, 2011 |
He is probably basing his view on observation. Many women have a child for a guy, and even if they break up, the man always comes around 'for the baby' and can usually maneuver his way into gaining access to 'the goods'. It's not fair of a guy to play around like that. However, a woman shouldn't sell herself short, kid or not. Next thing another child comes along and they still aren't 'together'. |
| Re: Why? by Nobody: 6:19pm On May 06, 2011 |
[color=#0066ff]^^GBAM! the thing is I have a guy friend, and he has a baby mother, also my friend. She has already moved on as she's got this guy she is interested in. Well he [my friend] came to me as I was checking my blasted mail box LOL with a bag of drama and attitude! So he came and said he needed me to talk to her. Apparently, while visiting her in our neighboring city, he wanted to 'frigg her' upon returning their son after spending time with him and taking him to the mall, only to be greeted by her at the door. She was stand offish, and she did not want him to go in the house, only for the son who is now 8 years, to go in. Mind you the son is 8, their relationship ended when the boy was an INFANT, and the reason she was acting funny according to her is because she wanted him to back off, but he claims she had a guy in there which to him is a form of 'violation' because he doesn't want another '[n-word]' around his son. So he came to me pissed off and asked me how I felt about it. I told him she is a grown woman, she is not married to him and free to do her thing. Do you know he looked at me, said 'is that so?' then looked away in rage and said 'talk to you later' and left me there? I'm like SERIOUSLY? I'm not taking sides but the relationship ended in 2003!!!! I mean seriously! He has to move on at some point! [/color] |
| Re: Why? by 190: 6:21pm On May 06, 2011 |
Yawns Im so tired & hungry after a busy day @ the office Mzdark go kitchen leave baby mama alone pleaseee |
| Re: Why? by Nobody: 6:29pm On May 06, 2011 |
[color=#0066ff]One peanut butter and jelly sandwich coming up! [/color] |
| Re: Why? by 190: 6:37pm On May 06, 2011 |
and bring punny along as well |
| Re: Why? by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 06, 2011 |
[color=#0066ff]nope! *straps on the 'anti cock' spikes* [/color] |
| Re: Why? by chikeorji123(m): 8:16pm On May 06, 2011 |
190:what! u said punny? |
| Re: Why? by Nobody: 8:40pm On May 06, 2011 |
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| Re: Why? by follypimpi(m): 9:02pm On May 06, 2011 |
Once de be is ever de be !! |
| Re: Why? by chikeorji123(m): 9:06pm On May 06, 2011 |
tiaph your hero? l thing we deserved a little explanation baby  |
| Re: Why? by Advocator: 9:56pm On May 06, 2011 |
How can any guy demean a woman who give birth to his baby. She is the mother of his baby, the core of the family and his love for her should increase in great percentage. OP I think you are as confused as the word goes, your topic should have been why is it that men fall in love with their women even MORE when they have their babies? |
| Re: Why? by Omolola1(f): 10:05pm On May 06, 2011 |
Nope, the question should be "why do men love their babies more than their wives?" |
| Re: Why? by Nekai(f): 10:12pm On May 06, 2011 |
Advocator:It may sound strange, but some men actually demean women who give birth to their babies, and even neglect and mistreat their own babies too. She is saying that the man broke up with the mother of his child years ago, but he still thinks she should be having sex with him, and he doesn't want her dating anyone else. |
| Re: Why? by Advocator: 10:16pm On May 06, 2011 |
Nekai:I refuse to call those kind of weak creatures men. Where I came from, where I reside I have observed that men fall in love with their women so much when moment she gives birth to his child. His respect, love, kindness and look-out grows for her to the maximum. Dear, I don't know what kind of species you toddle with, but in most cases what you just narrate never occurs in my hood nor is it done by my people (well most cases). |
| Re: Why? by Advocator: 10:22pm On May 06, 2011 |
Omolola1:Oh now you are jealous of your own kids? Iz you tripping. Loving your wife and your kid are two different scenes. And in which book did you get that idea from? |
| Re: Why? by Nekai(f): 10:24pm On May 06, 2011 |
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| Re: Why? by Nobody: 10:25pm On May 06, 2011 |
That fact that I stated is valid in any society and no matter how much you disagree or oppose it will stay untouched forever. Women and men are of different species, have that in mind forever.Most Sensible Comment ever i don't where topics like this come from oh.the small girls people r chasing won't they get pregnant too.guy nice one jare |
| Re: Why? by 190: 11:35pm On May 06, 2011 |
chikeorji123:U don enter 1 chance before |
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