I am 28 years old and throughout my life i have been through alot and seen many challenges as everyone has. Before anyone becomes a full grown adult he or she faces many challenges in terms of love, education, job related issues, family problems among others.

I have finally rented a new apartment at dansoman for 2 years. and fully furnished it. So i will be leaving my dads house and finally starting a life in an enviroment an not use to.

Am praying to marry this year too as many friends of mine have married and have childerns. Even though i earn GHc 500 at my current job a month. I think i can focus in life and change my condition. If i want to wait for a big opportunity to come before i marry, buy a house or complete my on going house it will take ages.

So i guess its time for me to move out and face the world as every person does. thats what makes you a man. This is my year and i will many in my small ways and with Gods help i will survive even though it will not be easy for me. But when i look around am far better than many people yet still they are happy. So how much me who is educated, working and recieving a managable salary and have a sleeping place.

Please wish me luck, advice me if you have any, but what ever would happen i will be here after sometime to update you about my new stage in life. This is a realy story. The story of my life.

Thank You all and may allah fulfill my wish.

prophet1:

I am 28 years old and throughout my life i have been through alot and seen many challenges as everyone has. Before anyone becomes a full grown adult he or she faces many challenges in terms of love, education, job related issues, family problems among others.

I have finally rented a new apartment at dansoman for 2 years. and fully furnished it. So i will be leaving my dads house and finally starting a life in an enviroment an not use to.

Am praying to marry this year too as many friends of mine have married and have childerns. Even though i earn GHc 500 at my current job a month. I think i can focus in life and change my condition. If i want to wait for a big opportunity to come before i marry, buy a house or complete my on going house it will take ages.

So i guess its time for me to move out and face the world as every person does. thats what makes you a man. This is my year and i will many in my small ways and with Gods help i will survive even though it will not be easy for me. But when i look around am far better than many people yet still they are happy. So how much me who is educated, working and recieving a managable salary and have a sleeping place.

Please wish me luck, advice me if you have any, but what ever would happen i will be here after sometime to update you about my new stage in life. This is a realy story. The story of my life.

Thank You all and may allah fulfill my wish.

Good luck! Isn't it a great feeling to close the door to your own place and sit down and look around? It will be lonely at times, but resist the urge to move someone in, even if they offer to pay half of everything.

I can remember my first night in my first apartment and it was a great feeling. After everything was settled I took pictures and just walked around. I prayed and asked God to bless my home and vowed not to allow sinful activities to take place in my home by myself or others. It was so quiet (and kind of scary) that first night. The thing that made it hard to sleep was that my mind was swirling with all of my goals and plans for the future. I was still in school so I wasn't thinking about marriage, but more about balancing school/work/housework/social life with the responsibility of living by myself. I also wanted to build on skills I wanted to take with me when I started a family, like cooking daily, having a stable time for meals, and not watching too much tv.

It's great that you have such a positive mature outlook on life. God Bless you on this new phase of your journey and your search for Mrs. Right. Keep us updated!  

@190

something tells me you have a problem. This guy needs encouragement and you are here posting rubbish.

@poster

You have taken a bold step.I will only pray that God leads you to your desired destination

wow!

But when i look around am far better than many people yet still they are happy.

i can feel your pain but just open your mind and have faith that this is your year.also try not to associate your happiness with material things but with friends and joyous moments.

Okay @poster, here's what I gat for you:
*First things first. Always get your priorities straight; if you can't get it for now, forget it (u know,  next time)

*Don't try to impress people by living above your income. Believe me, u will save yourself from future sh¤t.
Peace