Good evening house. Please I'll need people's opinion on this.

I'm not really good with relationships.

I recently met a guy I had a fling with, with no intention of even being his friend. But he called after some days to ask if I've forgotten him. From there we started relating, he has been to my family house and he has invited me to his home town when he went visiting. He treats me very well whenever I am with him. We can gist and talk about a whole lot of things.
He claims we're in a relationship without asking me out, whenever I tell him it's a fling and friendship we have, he kind of gets hurt. Though he hardly calls me, we can both be online without chatting each other for days.
The issue is that, he invited me to his home town today some days ago, he even offered to send me transport fare but I refused to go because I don't want to continue having s*x with him again and I know he won't let me return home today. When he called to find out why I didn't come and I tried to tell him my reasons, he was pissed, he said I should forget about the foundation of the relationship and let's build on what we have. He said he wanted to introduce me to a prominent politician but I behaved anyhow. He's still not angry oo.
I really don't know what to make of this, do I just take it that we're in a relationship or what is the best thing to do in this situation.

This story is not totally complete... But with the little we have... I will advise u as follows

1. You don't have to displease yourself to please, him... Who cares if he gets hurt or not, if you are not interested or you don't like him, then walk away, it's not too late

2. Maybe you like it or not since you both have done some administration together... You are already in a relationship or else you will pick up the ashana title for yourself...

3. If you must further the relationship ensure u are doing so with the intention of marriage on the line, hence u will be wasting ur time

4. Pray for God to show you the way forward

Well, just take a break and discuss about the issue simple, and if things go side ways just break up with him and find the right one for you, this life nor get part two but if everything went well then congratulation...

ZeddyR:
Good evening house. Please I'll need people's opinion on this.

I'm not really good with relationships.

I recently met a guy I had a fling with, with no intention of even being his friend. But he called after some days to ask if I've forgotten him. From there we started relating, he has been to my family house and he has invited me to his home town when he went visiting. He treats me very well whenever I am with him. We can gist and talk about a whole lot of things.
He claims we're in a relationship without asking me out, whenever I tell him it's a fling and friendship we have, he kind of gets hurt. Though he hardly calls me, we can both be online without chatting each other for days.
The issue is that, he invited me to his home town today some days ago, he even offered to send me transport fare but I refused to go because I don't want to continue having s*x with him again and I know he won't let me return home today. When he called to find out why I didn't come and I tried to tell him my reasons, he was pissed, he said I should forget about the foundation of the relationship and let's build on what we have. He said he wanted to introduce me to a prominent politician but I behaved anyhow. He's still not angry oo.
I really don't know what to make of this, do I just take it that we're in a relationship or what is the best thing to do in this situation.

Lol. Funny enough. Wants to introduce you to a prominent politician on what occasion??. That sound so silly publicly

But why can't we all just knack and go our separate ways? Must there be a relationship?

AmgMakanaki:


Lol. Funny enough. Wants to introduce you to a prominent politician on what occasion??. That sound so silly publicly

He's a politician. He holds a political office. But introduce me as what and for what reason is what I don't know

ZeddyR:
He's a politician. He holds a political office. But introduce me as what and for what reason is what I don't know

I only have a question OP.

Hope you later transfer the money back to him since you didn't visit him?

Goldbw122:
Well, just take a break and discuss about the issue simple, and if things go side ways just break up with him and find the right one for you, this life nor get part two but if everything went well then congratulation...

I appreciate your input.

Sammy07:


I only have a question OP.

Hope you later transfer the money back to him since you didn't visit him?

lol.. I didn't send the account

Bigredmachine:
This story is not totally complete... But with the little we have... I will advise u as follows

1. You don't have to displease yourself to please, him... Who cares if he gets hurt or not, if you are not interested or you don't like him, then walk away, it's not too late

2. Maybe you like it or not since you both have done some administration together... You are already in a relationship or else you will pick up the ashana title for yourself...

3. If you must further the relationship ensure u are doing so with the intention of marriage on the line, hence u will be wasting ur time

4. Pray for God to show you the way forward

thanks a lot

HONESTFACT101:
he invited you to his hometown
shey.....abi......is it.....how.....in fact op forget

I don't understand

ZeddyR:
lol.. I didn't send the account

Good.
The solution now is that, how to you think of him?
Is he someone that worth ur attention and time?
Do you love him?

If ur answer is positive, discuss with him (there's nothing bad in it)

If ur answer is negative, cut the relationship now

tell him that you enjoyed his d!ck and have moved on to enjoy the rest on the queue

Sounds like one girl dat time with this stupid guy residing abroad!
Telling her she is his woman nd using marriage to deceive her!
Op Shae u knw say u be mumu like dis? He don collect knack like dis now nd still deceiving you!
If u knw wats good for you, shun dat guy, he no get anything to offer you! If u like continue, but i don talk wetin i wan tell you!
A lady i knw have been in this shoe, relationship u don't even knw jst erupt!
This is always common among women with low self esteem!
Na una be dey foundation of this kine thing!!
End dat relationship, someone will surely love you!

ZeddyR:
He's a politician. He holds a political office. But introduce me as what and for what reason is what I don't know

Okay

Sammy07:


Good.
The solution now is that, how to you think of him?
Is he someone that worth ur attention and time?
Do you love him?

If ur answer is positive, discuss with him (there's nothing bad in it)

If ur answer is negative, cut the relationship now

thank you

younglleo:
Sounds like one girl dat time with this stupid guy residing abroad!
Telling her she is his woman nd using marriage to deceive her!
Op Shae u knw say u be mumu like dis? He don collect knack like dis now nd still deceiving you!
If u knw wats good for you, shun dat guy, he no get anything to offer you! If u like continue, but i don talk wetin i wan tell you!
A lady i knw have been in this shoe, relationship u don't even knw jst erupt!
This is always common among women with low self esteem!
Na una be dey foundation of this kine thing!!
End dat relationship, someone will surely love you!

Low self esteem, haba.
Thanks for your time

Austeeenxx:
But why can't we all just knack and go our separate ways? Must there be a relationship?

If it was so Adama would have walked away from Evelyn the first time they megbeswegbe... But it's not meant to be so...
Sexual pleasure that comes with mutual consents has lot more attached to it than most of us do know

ZeddyR:
Good evening house. Please I'll need people's opinion on this.

I'm not really good with relationships.

I recently met a guy I had a fling with, with no intention of even being his friend. But he called after some days to ask if I've forgotten him. From there we started relating, he has been to my family house and he has invited me to his home town when he went visiting. He treats me very well whenever I am with him. We can gist and talk about a whole lot of things.
He claims we're in a relationship without asking me out, whenever I tell him it's a fling and friendship we have, he kind of gets hurt. Though he hardly calls me, we can both be online without chatting each other for days.
The issue is that, he invited me to his home town today some days ago, he even offered to send me transport fare but I refused to go because I don't want to continue having s*x with him again and I know he won't let me return home today. When he called to find out why I didn't come and I tried to tell him my reasons, he was pissed, he said I should forget about the foundation of the relationship and let's build on what we have. He said he wanted to introduce me to a prominent politician but I behaved anyhow. He's still not angry oo.
I really don't know what to make of this, do I just take it that we're in a relationship or what is the best thing to do in this situation.

Let him go & die jare...wetin be him problem sef.

E dun chop him own let other guys chop too now...

Na by force to date you?....so baby geh is your name pronounced zeddy like teddy?

VlamesIffect:


Let him go & die jare...wetin be him problem sef.

E dun chop him own let other guys chop too now...

Na by force to date you?....so baby geh is your name pronounced zeddy like teddy?

I shouldn't mind him abi

Nope, do not assume anything.. I really really do not want to say this butttt then I may be wrong, babe are you 100% sure this man isn't married?

Well, I'd say you both should define whatever relationship you both have going on.. What are his intentions? You both need to talk, I do not understand why he would be "hurt" cos of that except he isn't coming out clean with you.

1F30M4:
Nope, do not assume anything.. I really really do not want to say this butttt then I may be wrong, babe are you 100% sure this man isn't married?

Well, I'd say you both should define whatever relationship you both have going on.. What are his intentions? You both need to talk, I do not understand why he would be "hurt" cos of that except he isn't coming out clean with you.

Thanks for taking your time to make an input. He's not married. I'll find time to talk

ZeddyR:
Good evening house. Please I'll need people's opinion on this.

I'm not really good with relationships.

I recently met a guy I had a fling with, with no intention of even being his friend. But he called after some days to ask if I've forgotten him. From there we started relating, he has been to my family house and he has invited me to his home town when he went visiting. He treats me very well whenever I am with him. We can gist and talk about a whole lot of things.
He claims we're in a relationship without asking me out, whenever I tell him it's a fling and friendship we have, he kind of gets hurt. Though he hardly calls me, we can both be online without chatting each other for days.
The issue is that, he invited me to his home town today some days ago, he even offered to send me transport fare but I refused to go because I don't want to continue having s*x with him again and I know he won't let me return home today. When he called to find out why I didn't come and I tried to tell him my reasons, he was pissed, he said I should forget about the foundation of the relationship and let's build on what we have. He said he wanted to introduce me to a prominent politician but I behaved anyhow. He's still not angry oo.
I really don't know what to make of this, do I just take it that we're in a relationship or what is the best thing to do in this situation.

is it by force? tell that man exactly how you feel and what you want from this bootycall r/ship....if he wants to believe that its any different then the problem is HIM (aka in his head), not you! you cant force feelings where there aint any...