@davidylan

You said it all.

adeoflagos:

So when men sleep around they are only responding to the unrefined instinct from thousands of years of evolution, which is the earthly need to proliferate and multiply in numbers.

The condoms modern man carry around not withstanding

To God be the Glory, there is judgement for all on earth before heaven. Whatever you sow you shall reap. Grace of God no go back you up if u continue in sin.

men cheat, they like tasting new things , it in them. the female will do the same if only they were men.

Many posters have righly written in this thread that cheating is a two way thing,men cheat,and women cheat to.i'm not an evolution biologist,but i strongly believe that man is created a polygamist.the urge to try something new,with a different partner is the reason behind why human beings in general 'cheat'.the earlier we get this simple truth into our thick skulls,the better for us all.

maybe i should make my own thread saying

" why do women have periods ( strictly for men)"

Yes yes we men cheat, We cheat. It's a constant that we cheat. But the women that complain about it. Don't they cheat too? If there is always a woman who will cheat with a man why won't he cheat? If women close their legs will men cheat again?

Men's default position is that they want to secure as many women as possible. Virility is part of the male psyche. There is a biological drive, to some degree, to reproduce.

i have witnessed a few married women cheating (nothing pornographic )let'sjust say i came to know .and ever since i fear and respect them. discretion,subtlety and general underG Tactics -peerless. fear them. that's all

@ Davidylan.

Very true. I've been married for 11 years and every intimate moment with my husband is like a honeymoon.[color=#006600][/color]

Shola (f):

@ Davidylan.

Very true. I've been married for 11 years and every intimate moment with my husband is like a honeymoon.[color=#006600][/color]

For you that is. Very soon you will mean as much sexu/ally to him as his elder sister

ouch!

@MS.B*OO*BS

Ladies dont just bother , lets f.ck ourselfs, d guys will never stop cheating, even men of God.

Please go ahead with your "ladies" and stop  whining about it naah!

Except for the few women who are matured, [b]NL seems to be populated of recent, with very bitter and frustrated women [/b]and as such, the rise in the number of silly and stewpid threads like this making frontpage! Always?

Its not a gender war now, abi na wetin?
If you HATE MEN so much, its fine but quit spreading your venom, frustration and bile to other decent women who still believe in love and courtship across gender.

As per cheating (having multiple sex partners), ITS AN INDIVIDUAL THING!

Men cheat abi? bt ma question stil remain who do men cheat with, goat, dog, ape or monkey

lukecent:

Men cheat abi? bt ma question stil remain who do men cheat with, goat, dog, ape or monkey

Abi o.We keep 'chasing' these girls & they never run away.What's a man to do?

It's official: the conventional wisdom is false. It's not men who leave their wives for younger, blonder temptresses; it's women who leave their husbands for—well, just about anybody. Or nobody. The fact is, women initiate 66 percent of divorces between partners over forty. That, at least, is what they reported during a major AARP study, released last year. That is also the impression one gleans when contemplating a new spate of books and shows, from ABC's already classic Desperate Housewives to hot spring titles including most notably Undressing Infidelity: Why More Wives Are Unfaithful.

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2005/07/fidelity-with-a-wandering-eye/4064/

[size=50pt]I CHEAT BECOS MY WIFE CANNOT GIVE ME WHAT MY GIRLFRIEND GIVES ME , [/size]

Cheating- like anal sex is just another widely accepted perversion. The attitudes of most societies to the disgusting habit is what makes it more encouraged rather than inhibited.

To the person that said humans are not meant to be monogamous; i've never heard such utter rubbish in my entire life! Is this the propaganda of your average Nigerian male nowadays? No wonder they are all failing thier WAECS.

There absolutely nothing in the homo sapiens evolutionary history to suggest the sort, cheating like many other corruptions of society is relatively new and the increase + acceptance a reflection of the decreasing moral integrity this century displays.

So in answer to the op's overplayed question (especially on this forum) men (or women) cheat, simply because they are disgusting perverts and society allows it!

^^Did you just say cheating is relatively new?What planet are you from?Infidelity is as old as the origins of the earth & it's not going to end now or any time in the near future.It's still a man's world but it wouldn't mean nothing without a woman on it

Not all men cheat

And don't you think you're asking the wrong gender?

[b]I am not really suprised that many men here have said men cheat because 'men like /s/e-x + want to sample/conquer + their wives don't satisfy them etc.

What makes you think that Women too do not like sex? That women do not want to sample other men? Or that men satisfy their wives?

There is HARDLY any man who cheats that SATISFIES HIS WIFE in bed! He spends the best of his libido on women other than his wife!  . . . and then they go mad when the sexually deprived woman cheats on them because the hubby can only last 'one minute' (having spent all his energy on 'outsiders'), if he touches her at all!

Most WIVES need quality s+e+x, not just 'one minute roll on roll of' rituals! If your wife does not WANT you in bed or does not dress up/spice things up for you, It's because YOU SUCK in HER BED !!    Forget what Nnneka your GF tells you, you are great in bed! WHAT DOES YOUR WIFE THINK ABOUT YOUR PERFORMANCE IN YOUR MATRIMONIAL BED??   

Men who cheat do so because they are selfish and cannot control themselves! [/b]

its a MAN,S WORLD,U BETA TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

Concept:

sorry i ve to break the rule. 1, Men cheat because not every woman knows how to satisfy their man. 2, most women thinks its when they want to ve sex that they ill give their body out not knowing that the homones of a man are uncountable so their body is always charge up at any time. 3, ladies should improve on their sex lives not every man like one particular way of making love. 4, always look attractive and sexy. 5, always give sex to your man whenever he want it escept when u are on your period. 6, make sure that your man is satisfy when Being Intimate. 7, erase the comment i'm not in the mood, i'm tired or get up is sex food. Its food to men. Ladies try this it will help in checkmating your man. Unless your man is born to cheat.

Follow this advice above and your relationship will ever be worthy unless you Be Intimate crazy hubby. "After you don belle full where you wan put food again"

True!

davidylan:

Because women have no idea how to satisfy a man.

Above advice very important. . . very few men can go deliberately starved of sex for so long and remain faithful. Most women who want to keep their men are those who let the man have her whenever and wherever he wants. Give a man some good loving and he is probably too bored to think of another woman.

Besides. . .  keep yourself looking GOOD (very important!), take care of the little things around the home and be dependable.

True but you also have to know that they are times you men can't have it. That is the truth. Forget about giving it all the time , it does not work in marriage. So when he doesn't get it for 2 days , he is allowed to cheat eh kwa? mbanu

cold:

^^Did you just say cheating is relatively new?What planet are you from?Infidelity is as old as the origins of the earth & it's not going to end now or any time in the near future.It's still a man's world but it wouldn't mean nothing without a woman on it

just because its all you know in africa doesnt mean its as old as the origins of the earth? where the hell did you get that idea?
why do you think the Romans are soo socially famous for their habits of the 18th century?

Because they embraced and glamorized moral decadence.

Even the cavemen were proven to be monogamous, polygamy only became soo popular because people mistook the fact that some men had more than one wife according to the ancient Assyrian rule- The additional maidservant is given by the wife if she cannot bare children.

Cheating is a sexual perversion, whether its going anywhere or not!

b/c one toto dey kill p'nis

Men cheat because of different reasons. depends on individuals. But to me, i can't be stuck on one pussi for eva. extra punnany feels good