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5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Acies: 9:08am On Jul 22, 2021 |
Confidence is like an elixir, it nourishes your soul, mind, and body. People who are confident take great strides in life and make strong connections with others. When they walk into a room, they command attention and exude authority. Are you looking for tips to help build your confidence? Then, this timely article is for you. Herein are tips that will help you build your confidence and make you as confident as Hercules. First, let’s examine the things that cause a lack of confidence: • Body imperfections: people who are intimidated by their flaws tend to recoil into their shells and refuse to do mingle with others for fear of being bullied and becoming the centre of negative attention. Focus on your positives instead; embrace your flaws and love your body and you are on a journey to building your confidence. You are NOT limited by your imperfections. • Comparison: is a bad habit that prevents you from building your confidence. It blinds you to the greatness in you while being infatuated by those who appear to be doing better than you. Comparison is an enemy of your confidence and must be stopped. • Inferiority complex: happens when you constantly feel you are not adequate or competent enough. It starts in the mind and influences your behaviour and interaction with others. When you are neck-deep in inferiority complex, it negatively impacts your social life and abilities. • Negative affirmations: saying negative things to yourself when things do not go your way can go on to have a lasting impact on your psyche if you don’t stop. Saying words like, ‘I am so stupid’, ‘I am such a mess’, ‘I always ruin things’, ‘I suck at this!’, etc. will not help you build your confidence, rather, it will diminish it. Here are 5 tips to build your confidence: • Be kind to yourself: you are your greatest critic and tend to downplay your efforts and abilities while focusing on others who are not doing as much as you. Cut yourself some slack. Being kind to yourself just like you are to others will help you build your confidence. • Positive affirmations: write a list of positive affirmations that can help you build your confidence and make it a daily habit to read them aloud. With time, your mind believes everything you confess, and you build your confidence gradually. • Speak to confident people: another tip to help you build your confidence is by speaking to people who are confident, especially those you admire. Schedule a meeting engagement with them and learn from the best. • Leverage online resources: there are online resources that can help you build your confidence like eBooks, podcasts, YouTube videos, movies, music, and articles like this one. Carefully select the online materials that are tailored to your needs and exhaust them. • Try new hobbies: you could register at a gym, join a dance, learn how to play a musical instrument you fancy, read books, learn to swim, etc. These hobbies will help build your confidence and take your mind off negative thoughts and inferiority complex. Building formidable confidence is possible when you are determined to do so and by applying the tips shared in this article. With confidence, you can achieve much more and live a healthy life. Samuel Johnson, the late English writer, aptly sums it up with this powerful quote: self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings. Source - Original content written for Nairaland by https://growthpad.oni.ng and https://oni.ng 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Shellsploit: 9:47pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Confidence na my Ex girlfriend name.. 11 Likes |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by GRACEGLORY: 9:47pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
The book of Proverbs says: “Vir sapiens et fortis est et vir doctus robustus et validus,” “A wise man is strong, a man of knowledge increaseth strength.” "scientia potestas est.” That is, "knowledge is power" Nothing build confidence than knowledge 32 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Benjaniblinks(m): 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by WalkerMichael(m): 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Money and More Money is a natural confidence builder 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by datola: 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Practice makes perfect. |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Dalil8: 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
#1. Get money. Cuz money dey boost confidence. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by geraldfavour(m): 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Good second to comment 1 Like |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Kaybee9033: 9:49pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Isokay, I will deliver your message to my grand and great grand children. |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Benprass(m): 9:49pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Who go get confidence go get am buhari get confidence. |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Keniwit(m): 9:50pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Acies: |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by valen124(m): 9:51pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Nice one |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
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Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Emeka71(m): 9:52pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Nice information. |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by shankara7: 9:52pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Aku n'esi obi ike 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by WallStreetfx(m): 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Just make money pls. It will boost your confidence and avoid bullies and haters they can kill your confidence with negative words 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Nice tip |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by akile21(m): 9:59pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
I'm impressed! Informative... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Spending123: 10:01pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Shellsploit: 1 Like |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by iLegendd(m): 10:02pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
I didn't read the post because I'm the laziest person on Nairaland. Do you know that without women, straight men will be more confident? And vice versa. If you're a man and you're giving a speech in front of men only, you'll be extremely confident, but the moment women, extremely good-looking ones join the congregation, you'll become less confident and vice versa too. Why? Because opposite is attracting and causing some reactions. Now, to handle this issue for men, be so great in bed and have some money and you'll be the most confident man on Earth. If you're a man and you suck in bed + you don't have money, real confidence will elude you. Passing an exam or winning an award will boost your confidence, but real confidence is by being great in bed and being wealthy or at least, rich. So, start doing things that'll fetch you legit money and learn how to satisfy any damn woman in bed without drugs until she screams "you're the best" and asks for a break to regain herself. Speaking from experience. When you have this handled as a man, confidence will naturally come to you. You don't need to be tall or good-looking. Just handle what I told you. Simple. After you've achieved this bedroom feat, women will not disturb you for money, but sex. With this, you can invest your money and become richer unlike 1 minute men that waste money on women. The people women disturb too much for money are men that suck in bed. When you're great in bed, they won't want to lose you and this will make them not to be too demanding. You've just killed 4 birds with 1 stone. Confidence Money/more investment Free p*ssy Loyalty Do you guys notice those guys that get p*ssies easily are the most confident? Yeah, I know I was too blunt, but I don't apologize for being honest. Deal with it. 8 Likes |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by uchelouis45(m): 10:04pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Helped a whole lot 1 Like |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by spacks(m): 10:05pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Apt |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Triangles1(m): 10:09pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
You said your own Sha, money buil confidence. |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by candidbabe(f): 10:18pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Noted |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Nyenatetan(m): 10:40pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
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Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Roll with confident people 1 Like |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by finestboy1: 10:47pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Working out and exercises also builds confidence. Acies: 1 Like |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by ofiko123(m): 11:24pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Nice write up by the O.P. |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by CyberPreNurse(m): 11:30pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
I'm introverted and too shy. No confidence. Chai May God help me, Amen |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Kennyking1234: 11:30pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Take the redpill |
Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by jubrilELsudan: 11:32pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
CONFIDENCE IS WHEN YOU FVCK A CHICK IN ALL HOLES THEN YOU SHOOT YOUR HOT CUM IN HER MOUTH.
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