This is my first ever post since following nairaland after almost a decade.
Help me with suggestions.
Please move it to FP.
At the tail end of my final year in the university, i fell in love in a lady who was in her 100level...just within a week into the relationship, the lady called it off. She blocked every avenue to talk to her. I didn't know what could be the problem.
This lady, her elder sister happens to be my course mate as well (had a little feelings for her too) but nothing serious happen between us. Even though i suspected its her sister that ask her to call off the relationship, but she still denied her sister didn't talk to her. As I graduated, any time i tried forgetting about this lady, out of the blue moon she will call to check on me. We met on two occasion, though we shared some intimacy, sex was not involved.
Just recently, after 4years she disclosed that she was only afraid i will only use her and dump after I graduate.
I still love this girl. The problem now is that she's in a serious relationship with someone else with sex involve. She's emotionally unstable, she can't decide as she only wants me to be her friend...other guys are still chasing her.
My focus now is to make money.
Fellows what do you think i should do?

My focus now is to make money.
Fellows what do you think i should do?

No amount of money you'll make in this world will erase your already-made naivety.


After 4 years of blocking and rejecting you, she disclosed that she was only afraid you will use and dump her.

That hoe of a fish brain got nothing to offer you. The earlier you understand this, the better for your sanity.

Agboconsult1:
This is my first ever post since following nairaland after almost a decade.
Help me with suggestions.
Please move it to FP.
At the tail end of my final year in the university, i fell in love in a lady who was in her 100level...just within a week into the relationship, the lady called it off. She blocked every avenue to talk to her. I didn't know what could be the problem.
This lady, her elder sister happens to be my course mate as well (had a little feelings for her too) but nothing serious happen between us. Even though i suspected its her sister that ask her to call off the relationship, but she still denied her sister didn't talk to her. As I graduated, any time i tried forgetting about this lady, out of the blue moon she will call to check on me. We met on two occasion, though we shared some intimacy, sex was not involved.
Just recently, after 4years she disclosed that she was only afraid i will only use her and dump after I graduate.
I still love this girl. The problem now is that she's in a serious relationship with someone else with sex involve. She's emotionally unstable, she can't decide as she only wants me to be her friend...other guys are still chasing her.
My focus now is to make money.
Fellows what do you think i should do?

Bros stick to that ur focus now. Every other thing shall be added unto you. Make money first, women full everywhere!!!

You just pointed out your focus Wich is to make money yet still asking what to do.
U better concentrate on ur agbo business

U don't sound normal with this ur story. You need to be red-pilled.

While chasing money.u go still need woman wey go follow u chop am.but,i dont see her in dat picture.look for another woman.before u will come back to nairaland,crying on her she's still seeing her ex.

She blocked and rejected you? Now you healed fully you're still wanting to trap yourself emotionally with an evil lady.

Is like your vibes with torture and rejection, she did it once she ll still do it again.

Lol bro... Are you going to swallow that lie Hook line and sinker

She sees you as a prospective guy she could settle down with and that was why she kept intouch to monitor your progress
Don't fall for it bro

U focus is money good and relationship with that gal can’t be for anything more than fun or friends. Anything else is a gamble, like Betnaija precisely.

Hehehe! Romance Section!

You are in love with a woman that is emotionally unstable. You have diagnosed the issue and in that issue you have diagnosed a solution.

I am disappointed that after spending a decade on Nairaland, this is your first thread. You went through Nairaland, Nairaland didn't go through you.

Take the advice you gave yourself. Ensure the next thread you open is not a thread that you already know the solution.

u said your focus is to make money... make your money na

SmellySperm:
You just pointed out your focus Wich is to make money yet still asking what to do.
U better concentrate on ur agbo business

Agbo not abo herbal please. Thank you

luvmijeje:
Hehehe! Romance Section!

You are in love with a woman that is emotionally unstable. You have diagnosed the issue and in that issue you have diagnosed a solution.

I am disappointed that after spending a decade on Nairaland, this is your first thread. You went through Nairaland, Nairaland didn't go through you.

Take the advice you gave yourself. Ensure the next thread you open is not a thread that you already know the solution.

Ok

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Lol bro... Are going to swallow that lie Hook line and sinker

She sees you as a prospective guy she could settle down with and that was why she kept intouch to monitor your progress
Don't fall for it bro

Thats what I observed. During and after service

LIVINGICON:
U don't sound normal with this ur story. You need to be red-pilled.

Don't b harsh. Problem full everywhere.

Agboconsult1:

Don't b harsh. Problem full everywhere.

Hello, the last time i checked if u are harsh or hard with life, life will in turn go soft on you. And that ain't going to change anytime soon.

JUST FOCUS.

Agboconsult1:
This is my first ever post since following nairaland after almost a decade.
Help me with suggestions.
Please move it to FP.
At the tail end of my final year in the university, i fell in love in a lady who was in her 100level...just within a week into the relationship, the lady called it off. She blocked every avenue to talk to her. I didn't know what could be the problem.
This lady, her elder sister happens to be my course mate as well (had a little feelings for her too) but nothing serious happen between us. Even though i suspected its her sister that ask her to call off the relationship, but she still denied her sister didn't talk to her. As I graduated, any time i tried forgetting about this lady, out of the blue moon she will call to check on me. We met on two occasion, though we shared some intimacy, sex was not involved.
Just recently, after 4years she disclosed that she was only afraid i will only use her and dump after I graduate.
I still love this girl. The problem now is that she's in a serious relationship with someone else with sex involve. She's emotionally unstable, she can't decide as she only wants me to be her friend...other guys are still chasing her.
My focus now is to make money.
Fellows what do you think i should do?

Guy get out abeg

Agboconsult1:
This is my first ever post since following nairaland after almost a decade.
Help me with suggestions.
Please move it to FP.
At the tail end of my final year in the university, i fell in love in a lady who was in her 100level...just within a week into the relationship, the lady called it off. She blocked every avenue to talk to her. I didn't know what could be the problem.
This lady, her elder sister happens to be my course mate as well (had a little feelings for her too) but nothing serious happen between us. Even though i suspected its her sister that ask her to call off the relationship, but she still denied her sister didn't talk to her. As I graduated, any time i tried forgetting about this lady, out of the blue moon she will call to check on me. We met on two occasion, though we shared some intimacy, sex was not involved.
Just recently, after 4years she disclosed that she was only afraid i will only use her and dump after I graduate.
I still love this girl. The problem now is that she's in a serious relationship with someone else with sex involve. She's emotionally unstable, she can't decide as she only wants me to be her friend...other guys are still chasing her.
My focus now is to make money.
Fellows what do you think i should do?

Since she is not yet married and other guys are disturbing her, try and use condom incase you guys are getting down

There must be something you left with her that is still making you to remember her deeply

Try and collect that thing from her

luvmijeje:
Hehehe! Romance Section!

You are in love with a woman that is emotionally unstable. You have diagnosed the issue and in that issue you have diagnosed a solution.

I am disappointed that after spending a decade on Nairaland, this is your first thread. You went through Nairaland, Nairaland didn't go through you.

Take the advice you gave yourself. Ensure the next thread you open is not a thread that you already know the solution.

Honestly, he needs to be ashamed of himself for that rubbish he posted after staying on Nairaland probably romance section for 10 years

frozen70:


Since she is not yet married and other guys are disturbing her, try and use condom incase you guys are getting down

There must be something you left with her that is still making you to remember her deeply

Try and collect that thing from her

And what is that thing. Sex?

Beloved3:


And what is that thing. Sex?

The op knows best

It's simple,take her out,flex her,bang her put like there is no tmrw and then bone her. Bich