ChizzyBuna:
MAKE MONEY

MONEY GIVES YOU CONFIDENCE

YOUR VOICE AND STEPS WILL CHANGE AUTOMATICALLY

Money shouldn’t be a confidence booster, what happens if at a time , he runs out of money ; then his confidence is gone. We all should be confident about our very self and not an asset be a determining factor

Feed your brain with positive things,read educative books and stay away from the negative people.

Drink lucozade boost

Bro, I had the same problem growing up but now I've outgrown it and if you apply my simple solution it'll surely work for you too.

It's simply to appear and talk more in public especially with those above your peer group.

Try this and thank me later...

Work out bro...... Wake up early, go for jugging.

I promise you in no time you will feel ontop of the world.


I no sey make you go carry weight o!!!.... Work out!!! there is a difference.

Try the gym it works like magic, you socialize with new set of people and pushing will help break your limits.

youngking22:
The first step is stepping out from your comfort zone. Register at a gym and mingle there, trust me I was once like you but guys at the gym will motivate you, from there your confidence will elevate...

Simple. Make money

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and

overcome low self esteem

Start singing I have confidence in you Jesus I have confidence in you anytime any day
U will see that you will surely have confidence

go to market buy plenty cow and goat liver meat come home cook am chop all alone then see your confidence level rise na liver u dey lack wen you chop liver you go get confidence wella

TBH, I love your questions and to be very candid with you. Building self confidence is not rocket science and have read alot of submission and pple opening up position on how you can build one, yet you can pick the one that best suits and you think can work for you as you journey.

Do you read books ? If you don't, try and get good books, you can try first. The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. A good book I must say and another is " tough time don't last, tough pple do by Robert Schuller get this books and read. I mean read as this will help you at it.

Stop bad habits, what ever bad habits you must have being engaged for some time now stop it. Smoking, drinking alcohol frequently, sleeping around with women on a daily or masturbations. Don't get me totally wrong not all this things are illegitimate but not all are expedient.

Make Good friends, go for seminar, infact some are for free and some you can pay just token and when you engaged people look straight in the face or eyes and speak to them.

Do you like prayer ?.. if you don't, start every of your day with prayer and ask the higher forces for that thing you know you lack, I know you lack not confidence alone.. you know those things right? Add them, see Hebrew 10:35 then boom lack of confidence will begin to fizzle out ... Do this consistently and Don't bother to thank me later !!

See you at the top ...

Hezzyluv:
By telling yourself l need to boost my confidence. And start boosting it. That's all no one can do it for you except you boost it by yourself. "The best way to cut a tree, is to cut it" The only one that can stop you is you.

I hardly talk to people but now, I don't care oo.. I realized people no send you unless you talk.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

ALL WHAT YOU HAVE READ HERE SOME MIGHT WORK FOR YOU WHILE SOME MIGHT NOT BUT LISTEN AND LET ME GIVE YOU THE ONE SURE WAY TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE

When self esteem is low then there are factors that makes it low. i get it that your upbringing might have give you some PTSD but let deal with the low self esteem first.

Follow my instruction for a whole week and see if it works for you , please don't forget to comeback here for a review after a week


AS FROM TODAY STOP GIVING A F'K ABOUT ANYTHING

DO YOU HEAR ME WELL? STOP GIVING A F**K ABOUT THE RICH, THE POOR, THE UGLY AND THE BEAUTY BY NOT COMPARING YOUR SELF TO ANY OF THESE
JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE WITHOUT BREAKING ANY LAWS OF THE LAND ..SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS WILL MAKE OF IT
STOP GIVING A F**K FOR A WHOLE WEEK

Then your inner eyes will begining to tear even when you see soldier you go wan slap am if he misbehave

secondly, look at the mirror every morning and start by calling yourself the best names that you will like people to call you, hype yourself whenever your esteem is low.

just try this for a week and i will tell you more later.

You are strong and God has put a lot in you which you need to unleash now before its too late.

Go gaga

Go and start teaching, sunday school pupils, family children, lesson pupils, sports teens, etc You ll grow from there.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

1. Invest in yourself (especially in acquiring knowledge or skills).
2. Have it at the back of your mind that everyone has his/her weakness(es), the only person that appears to be infallible or confident has only succeeded in managing his/her weakness(es).
3. Work with the knowledge that no matter who you are, there's someone (or people) out there who admire you.
4. Set achievable targets/goals for yourself, you will grow in confidence as you achieve them.

Kriss216:
One of the advantages of 4.20, it makes you retain your self esteem as a man.

It's rare to find a man with low esteem these days, all thanks to Buhari's breeze.

Everybody eyes dey chook now. Red eyes everywhere.

what is 4.20

Take a blunt then hit the gym or if you no fit go gym just 100 push ups daily and spend your time doing something productive by productive I mean things that are directed towards your goal. Do this daily for 3 months and see a massive difference in your mindset. It worked wonders for me it just might do the same for you

if hunger wire you that spirit go leave u

Workout/Gym to look good
Dress well and smart
Eat well and healthy
Don't talk too much
Make money by working harder
Pray every morning
Enjoy your own company
Expect rejections.
Motivate yourself.


While u may feel like you're having a low self esteem, others will see u as a "dangerous guy" and won't wanna fvck with u.


And you'll get more female attractions, more respect and automatically the confidence boosts.

This has got to be the best advice . Saying what ever the fuchk you want without fear of what people might think is like a super power once you get used to doing it.you are your own person with your own unique experiences express yourself how ever you want. go crazy

Halle000:


ALL WHAT YOU HAVE READ HERE SOME MIGHT WORK FOR YOU WHILE SOME MIGHT NOT BUT LISTEN AND LET ME GIVE YOU THE ONE SURE WAY TO BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE

When self esteem is low then there are factors that makes it low. i get it that your upbringing might have give you some PTSD but let deal with the low self esteem first.

Follow my instruction for a whole week and see if it works for you , please don't forget to comeback here for a review after a week


AS FROM TODAY STOP GIVING A F'K ABOUT ANYTHING

DO YOU HEAR ME WELL? STOP GIVING A F**K ABOUT THE RICH, THE POOR, THE UGLY AND THE BEAUTY BY NOT COMPARING YOUR SELF TO ANY OF THESE
JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE WITHOUT BREAKING ANY LAWS OF THE LAND ..SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS WILL MAKE OF IT
STOP GIVING A F**K FOR A WHOLE WEEK

Then your inner eyes will begining to tear even when you see soldier you go wan slap am if he misbehave

secondly, look at the mirror every morning and start by calling yourself the best names that you will like people to call you, hype yourself whenever your esteem is low.

just try this for a week and i will tell you more later.

You are strong and God has put a lot in you which you need to unleash now before its too late.

Go gaga

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Accept jesus christ as your Lord and personal saviour then get baptised in the holyspirit ..nothing more makes you confident in the midst of any trial,travail ,adversity though things will shake you up but u do have a firm ground in God's love..that's the real assurance

Lucozade boost ?

I Have Similar Problem. and I think it is due to historical (Consistent) brokeness

Drink lucozade boost.

Talk to a motivational speaker, Lol. Better still, read because readers are leaders.

By making money.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Alcohol!

I am in same shoes. But whenever I am tipsy to limit,. I start giving that you did believe I am naturally open.

You just need meet me when I am not tipsy and you will feel I am dead and dumb.

Take Lucozade boost.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Lucozade boost ni o Le se. My guy drink lucozade boost

ChizzyBuna:
MAKE MONEY

MONEY GIVES YOU CONFIDENCE

omo na 100bucks bundles i dey see so wey join with yeye naira

That's big money...oh God i need money

Stand up for yourself more and don’t just accept oppression

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OP you would be lucky to find your answer here