Activist001:

And what are the questions you're asking?

pocohantas:


I am not stopping them from doing what they want. I am asking questions that none of you have been able to answer.

Maybe you can skip the usual ad hominem and attempt the questions. I am waiting…

mrblessed:
To date a foreigner would always hold some sort of feeling to explore new culture completely different from what you have. Since there is an inherent culture divide, it's also a learning process for the parties involved. It's this learning period that determines the fate of the relationship and why almost all these dates don't lead to marriage.

It's imperative to state that some of things we detest in and lampoon about our ladies are the inevitable consequences of the society's failure, the way they are mentally wired, and the orientation they are imbued with about life and intersex relationship. It's this makeup that most men allude to whenever they make comparison between Nigerian ladies and foreigners. But what is clear is that every country has a dating/relationship/marriage challenge it's grappling with. We cannot solve our problem by embarking on an advocacy to de-market our ladies.

No matter how much we crave for something new and different to what we are use to, we are condemned to date and marry Nigerian ladies despite their obvious flaws. It's even more advantageous because foreigner ladies come with a weird baggage that sometimes makes cohabiting/marriage very difficult and stressful. Almost all the things our ladies would effortlessly do in a relationship or marriage would not be contemplated by a foreigner who has a different cultural compass. So, in the end, it pays to date and marry Nigerian lady who is a product of your society and who shares similar cultural traits as yours.

pocohantas:


Says the Nigerian man without an international passport.

ZINIIBANKS:

See this one wey dey talk ,those oyinbos wey you upload so. Dem get benefit pass you Nigerian girls.
Abi shey you get SSN ?
If I marry you here shey dem go help me process my PR for Yankee? Pocoant or what is that your name again with no respect i say a big fuçk u .....

Sterope:
Look at how they are giving up their women when we are a product of our environment.

Don't bother yourself. There are foreign women who actively run away from Nigerian men as well.

pocohantas:


You still haven’t answered the question. I’ll give you another chance.

I guess this strong chemistry that leads to marriage fails 8 out of 10 times in your relationships with these foreign girls, but works out with immoral and mannerless Nigerian girls. Isn’t God wonderful?

GeneralPula:



I guess this strong chemistry that leads to marriage fails 8 out of 10 times in your relationships with these foreign girls,

8 out of 10? That’s not true..

These people in subject only share their experience with dating foreign girls and see how thrilling the experience sounded..

Ask ten naija guys their dating experience with Naija girls and all you’ll hear are stories that touch..


but works out with immoral and mannerless Nigerian girls.

Nothing ever works out with immoral and mannerless Nigerian girls;

Wife them today - 6months e go don dey boil

Establish them today - a year nah as business no move and as them need loan you go hear..

Majority of you Nigerian girls lacks cognitive reasoning. The only time you people settle down deep to reason is when you’re up to extracting a guy..

pocohantas:


Still haven’t answered the question, but it is okay. You can’t answer it without shooting yourself in the foot.

GeneralPula:


The proposition that you’re even asking your question from isn’t valid..

I’ve gave answers, you’re not just catching up & that’s a typical Nigerian girl’s trait..

Nothing ever works out with mannerless and no moral Nigerian girls, not even marriage..

GeneralPula:


The proposition that you’re even asking your question from isn’t valid..

I’ve gave answers, you’re not just catching up & that’s a typical Nigerian girl’s trait..

Nothing ever works out with mannerless and no moral Nigerian girls, not even marriage..

pocohantas:


Very true. That is why most Nigerian men and women are married to themselves either way.

GeneralPula:


You don’t know how make an argument..

We’re referring to mannerless and no morals Nigerian girls... Not all Nigerian women..

The likes of Tonto Dike, Toke makinwa, Mercy Aigbe, Iyabo Ojo and their leagues would still be happily married if they’re have manners..

But you don’t compare the names mentioned to Mercy Johnson. You can see she’s happily married and able to hold a home cuz she has her morals..

Stick to the argument - Nothing works out with Nigerian girls that has no morals and no manners..

averageguy:
This is interesting because I can kinda see what some of these guys are talking about.

I feel like as a culture, we Nigerians tend not to be emotionally expressive, which could be difficult for a partner in a relationship. So, for some ladies, they would never talk about what they really want, and if they are offended, they give you the silent treatment and expect you to figure it out. The one that baffled me most is when you ask a lady out once and she says no, but really wants the guy to try harder. In my head, no always means no, and it's difficult to understand why you won't say try harder if that's what you mean.

However, many Nigerians tend to have a higher level of loyalty because our culture exalts the trait and once they're committed, they really give you their all. It's also a lot easier to relate to someone who understands your background and family culture.

All in all, there's tendencies we have as a culture (both male and female), and we sometimes have to work harder through those tendencies to be better partners.

pocohantas:


Very true. That is why most Nigerian men and women are married to themselves either way.