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Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Hathor5(f): 11:37am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Rich providers too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Hathor5(f): 11:49am On Aug 09, 2021 |
ImaIma1: 1st bold More often than not yes. I would never allow a daughter of mine to be permanently financially dependent on anyone. 2nd bold 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 11:55am On Aug 09, 2021 |
crackhaus: The fault started from the husband. He has 90% of the fault in this scenario. If the MIL considered herself a mother to the DIL, she would not accept the gift. I blame the DIL for marrying such a man out of all the 3.5 billion men in the world. @Summary: True. I know someone who had two terrible marriages (MIL issues) and is a very terrible MIL today. To think they claim to be Christians beats me. I am sooooooooooooo disappointed in them (mother & son). |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by RightToReject(m): 12:20pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Literally, the guy's action can only justifiably be said to be bad if it is not necessitated by a fundamental problem in the union or breach of trust on the part of the woman in the cause of the union. It's always easy to cast aspersions on someone in his position in a case like this when judging from afar, naively or sentimentally. Let's assume that he came into equity with clean hands in the union and was doing the right things as expected of a sane husband; then, the following scenarios could have necessitated his action, however unpalatable it's: - The woman who gave him an impression from the inception that her interest in him was because of the quality of his soul rather than his material possessions started acting otherwise in the union, and for instance, started doing "my husband's money is our money," while "my money is my money." - The woman who gave him an impression that she was a scrupulous woman before contracting the marriage became a termagant in the cause of the union because she felt that there wasn't going to be a need for a campaign after an election, and for instance, started exercising her rights to liberty outside the limits of decorum. - He possibly discovered that he might not even be the one that impregnated her. In summary, bearing the wife tag, and vice versa, doesn't automatically qualify one to receive treatments deserving of a wife from her husband. One who comes into equity must always come with clean hands because no one person has a monopoly of pettiness or cruelty. It's insane for an instigator to think that s/he has the right to dictate for their victim how they should retaliate. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by LutanFyah: 12:29pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Hathor5:Why should a man consult some wife before buying a gift for his mother? The wife is never family, she can go anytime she wants (especially when the man is broke and sick) but a mother will stick with her children no matter what. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 12:34pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
LutanFyah: Won't it better to marry your mother since she will stick with you no matter what? Or didn't your mom stick to your dad? I am trying to understand why you reason that way as per the bold. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by descarado: 12:50pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
crackhaus: I will disagree with you here totally. That man took that decision alone. Its more than buying a car. Its more like its my money and I will do as I deem fit with it. Why not wait till she put to bed. That's a woman running on high hormone here and this man is acting like a goat. If he is smart, buy 2 cars for them. Get one for wifey when she delivers and one when mum visit for omugwo. That's a manipulative mother you have there. Situations like this will make the wife to become manipulative in the future too if she chose to stay and the circle continues. When husbands don't perform their duties, this is what you get. U guys should wake up na. This got nothing with feminism and all the sm. |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by ImaIma1(f): 12:51pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Nisiw365: So if she makes money on her own, she can spend it without owing him an explanation too. Supposing the husband is out of work and the wife is making the money, can she spend her money as she likes? She can buy a car for her father when she knows her family needs one? Some of you men are used to using money as the tool of authority in the home. When the tables turn, I hope the woman won't be blamed for doing the same. By then, the word "submission" will becone popular. 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by descarado: 12:55pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:And you see why families keep on failing. Why homes keep on breaking. Somebody in this era and year is opening mouth to say a wife is not a family. U see why Nigeria will never get better? I know women have a very big role to play but how will you start when your partner( not even a partner in this case anymore) harbours this in his mind? 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by elonmuskbaby: 1:00pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
ImaIma1:exactly I don't know about Muslims but for christians the Bible says leave and cleave You want your wife to leave her parents family and cling to you but you still want to be attached to your mom's aprons Infant boys that should still be suckling with feeding bottles getting married.orisirisi 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 1:04pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
descarado: I always want to understand their family dynamics. I thought basic Social Science in Primary School is that a family is husband + wife + children? Many damaged folks. |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by descarado: 1:05pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Nisiw365: Them never born that man in any of my extended family to make major or even minor decision like that without consulting the wife. So also the wife. Family will tear you apart when such matter is brought to the table. Who do you think you are? Because of few coins you will start feeling on top of the world? Poverty and money miss road srr twins. That's an act of somebody who rolled in the mud of poverty and when he finally managed to get few coins, he started behaving like hushpuppy. Nonsense and ingredients |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by descarado: 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:So many of them here Some don't even know their background. They don't have root. Nobody thought them family values cos they lived the street. Some are so bitter they never see something good on the opposite sex. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
elonmuskbaby: @bold; Don't be surprised if the person saying his wife is not his family can quote 'a wife should be submissive'. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by elonmuskbaby: 1:13pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:issues like this will be repeating itself when 8 year old brains in adult bodies get married There are somethings you should have as an adult - BASIC COMMON SENSE EMOTIONAL MATURITY when dealing with something as sensitive as family 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by elonmuskbaby: 1:15pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:obviously! Awon my word is law I'm the man of the house My mummy Said.. Virtuous woman singer Submission choir master 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 1:18pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
descarado: There is a way poverty configures the brain if the person is not careful. |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 1:18pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
elonmuskbaby: The woman no kuku know the Bible so she is easy to brainwash. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by sisisioge: 1:26pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Hathor5: Thank you my sister. That's the issue. If all concerned stakeholders' were bought in , there wont be any injure party created. It is well o 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 1:30pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
descarado: Very very very true. |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by ImaIma1(f): 1:30pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
LutanFyah: Because the wife is now his first priority over anyone else. Are you married? Because single people like to give marriage advice. And people in bad marriages tend to liken their marriage to other people's marriages. 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by ImaIma1(f): 1:39pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne: Naaa...these men's family unit is mother + children. Wife is an outsider that comes to interrupt their unit and should be done away with if she messes up. Their mothers are the heads of the family units. Meanwhile we hardly hear about FILs causing problems. Or didn't they also "suffer discomfort for their children". It's the mums that like to use emotional blackmail for their sons and they fall flat for it 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by ImaIma1(f): 1:42pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
elonmuskbaby: Most guys with that twisted mindset are single o. They have no clue. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by ImaIma1(f): 1:45pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
descarado: After suffering poverty, every penny is god for some. And they will use that money as a tool of control. A woman that marries such a man is in big trouble if she doesn't earn her own money. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by bukatyne(f): 1:51pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
ImaIma1: It is well. Single mother problems; either single physically or emotionally. |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Hathor5(f): 2:10pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
LutanFyah: Are you married? Were your parents not each other's family? I don't know how you run your family but I am my husband's family and he is mine. Chances are very high it will be me taking care of him in old age rather than his mom. As for your first question, a man should consult his wife and vice versa because they are one, a team, a unit, and surprise .... a family. You can split everything in your marriage, we run a joint account, own properties together, plan for our kids' future together, retirement etc. If I wanted to do all of this alone, I would have remained single. 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Regex: 2:12pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Hathor5: And why will the man consult with his wife before he invest his money? 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Hathor5(f): 2:13pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
sisisioge: I see men/boys write on NL how they can never disclose to their wives how much they make. I always wonder what kind of people have this kind of a marriage. If you can't trust your wife with everything, why get married to her? 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Hathor5(f): 2:14pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Regex: Because they are one, a team, a family. That's how it has been done in my family since generations. You can do it however you want or even better remain single. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Regex: 2:33pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Hathor5: OK. If the needs of the family is being met, there's no need consulting the other partner before investing one's money. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by Nisiw365: 2:36pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
descarado:Hahaha continue deceiving yourself. So many men act like that. What's the wifes business with how a man spends his hard earned money. Did they earn the money together ? Thats how most men behave whether you like it or not And which family will tear me apart, we are making money together or have joint account? I will rather tear them apart insteadc 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Husband Buys His Mom A Car(your Opinion) by ImaIma1(f): 2:37pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Regex: Hope the same goes for your wife. If she buys a car for her dad without letting you know, hope it won't be a problem. |
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