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Focus on developing yourself. There are red flags all over your relationship with this man.
Focus on you and your kids, your peace and happiness is more important than anything else.

First, u need to be generating money and break up with him so both ofu can move on.
Ur husband is waiting for u, do the right thing
Watch this for grace to do the right thing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAqO5liQ2Hc

With two lids you have very limited chance on getting the kind of man you want so just concentrate on getting a very good source of income for yourself .

Chai

He's still close to you just because of your kids, as you stated earlier, He orders whatever your kids want even with his last card, so in this case, it's the kids that's still keeping you guys together in some way, But I'll advice you to develop yourself, you can do it, Save up some money and start a business so by the time you'll be fine with studies you can fully focus on your business that will be generating money for you just incase he finally dumps you or whatever the case may be, NOTE: Money saves and stops nonsense, it's because you ain't financially bouyant, that's why he toldve dated and married a richer girl where he is. And how I wish you guys aren't distance apart, it sounds have been a different thing, that distance is a big problem, just like me, am in a distance relationship of 2 years, so I know how that distance shit feels.

Long distance relationship messed up your relationship. Work on it.