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Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 10:44am On Aug 26
I'm 25 years old and an OND holder, I lost my mom in 2013 though she and my dad divorced since when I was 8 years old. My dad married another woman in 2003. my step mom I knew was a nice woman not until I started growing up and seeing her true colors. Why can I be living in my father's house and they treat me like I'm not one of their children even though my dad is very rich ? Even it's so clear to all the kids that the woman is not my mother and even my dad treats me specially from others even though I'm the first son, everybody knows that I'm more or like an adopted son...i never been happy in my life because of what I'm passing through..i'm only remembered whenever they have a big task to do, like helping them start a liester generator, driving them to where they want to go,even as far as sending me errands to run for them. The funniest part of it is that they don't give me food most times, they may not give me food for days and when I ask they will say they only cook little food. Though I'm not always happy askijg them for foods because I feel degraded and ridiculing myself but I got no choice than to ask them because I don't have work, I was actually working in my dads shop where he sells motorcycle spare parts but as time pass by he installed a CCTV cameras in the shop thinking Im stealing his money....when I was working with him in his shop before he installed the cameras I gathered some money and moved out of his house and got a self contain room in an hostel. I blocked him and every number that might call me and I was living better, I had that free movements, and do whatever I want to do without anybody questioning me I was very happy being alone and happy I was not in their house anymore because they are not performing their duties. After few months in the hostel I met new young faces and they liked me a lot that we eat together mostly and I don't suffer like I used to in my father's house. That time I wanted to start doing yahoo because I was afraid of my house rent expiration and where to gather some befre it expires but unfortunately I was not cashing out and almost giving up. After some months I asked for help from someone on hometown play online bet and he taught me very well and I started doing that. The first day I tried it I caused out about 15k but after then Ive been cashing out begining up on that too little by little. So the was a day I was missing g my blood sister (in her husband house) and had to put a call through her, she picked and we talked for few minutes and later ended the call. After two days I got a call from a number and askijg me why I left home and I was suprised how that person got my contact and I had to block the contact again....after a week I got a call from my Dad on my new number that I used to call my sister begging me on the phone to come back home and going as far as giving my new n to some of his friends to beg me, I called my sister and para for her on why she could share my number with my dad after she knows how I'm being treated in that house and now he's calling me to come back home....my sister pleased and begged me not to be annoyed and I just left her talkig on the phone and hung the call..........After so many calls from different people and much pleading, some said my dad loves me and that's why he was looking for me and I should please go to see him. The first day I saw him after 8 months I can see his gentle and calm face and begging me to come back home. I didn't want to go back home and his friend pleaded on his behave and he also promise to do some things for me I also don't want to see myself like a stubborn person so I had to give them date....the day the date I agreed reached and I'm still not in that mood of going back to that house so I had few more days and at last I came back home and worried what's going to happen after. My first month in that house again shows they are not ready to change and the situation worsen. I just stopped being giving food and even got more pain than Befe. Noemi do not have a work or and I'm being neglected again and this is even more worse than before....they shouts at me, send me dirty errands to run and even treat me more like an outsider. I don't have a work yet, and I don't even know anyone I could go and live with I'm just tired of living and suffering in there house. I will be happy if I can be suffering under another man than to be suffering under my parents roof.....if I had 10k I will travel to unknown place and start a new life. I just don't want to have anything to do with them again until I'm very okay and I don't mind leaving them for years... I'm tired of everything. I've been in deep thoughts every day and I'm becoming lean. They don't give me food daily and most of our tenants help me with foods most times. Please help me my fellow nairalanders. I'm stuck and don't know what to do...my clothes are already turning rags because I don't have money to get new ones, even I've patched my shoes in different angles becaise I don't have money to get a new one. My dad abuses me and send abuses to my mother in the grave....i do not know anyone in my town who I could run to and live with... Please someone should help me pleassssssssss!!! I'm begging and crying please my people ...im tired of the life I'm living and seeing my mates doing great things legally or illegally.... I will be glad to hear your responses sir/ma....i want to leave their house for them because it's killing my dreams and future ..im getting older in their house without any happiness and sign of bright future.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Felimax(m): 11:34am On Aug 26
It is very easy to ask for help but quite not very easy to take drastic actions that will determine a bright future.
Most people will be discourage to read your post because it is not structured properly and to say this is coming from an OND holder really did not tell well of you. If you like you can modify the write up and do the paragraphing properly.

That said, You did not tell of your location and what you read in school. I will not like anybody to help you with money because behind this your story is a bigger story that you may not reveal. So reveal your location and your skill, help may come.
Goodluck!
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 12:52pm On Aug 26
Felimax:
It is very easy to ask for help but quite not very easy to take drastic actions that will determine a bright future.
Most people will be discourage to read your post because it is not structured properly and to say this is coming from an OND holder really did not tell well of you. If you like you can modify the write up and do the paragraphing properly.

That said, You did not tell of your location and what you read in school. I will not like anybody to help you with money because behind this your story is a bigger story that you may not reveal. So reveal your location and your skill, help may come.
Goodluck!
I'm sorry sir but this is how far and how much I can write please pardon my English. I still have many things at the back of my mind but I don't know how to put it Pls pardon me. I won't hesitate to answer any question you will want to ask me sir

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Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 12:55pm On Aug 26
Felimax:
It is very easy to ask for help but quite not very easy to take drastic actions that will determine a bright future.
Most people will be discourage to read your post because it is not structured properly and to say this is coming from an OND holder really did not tell well of you. If you like you can modify the write up and do the paragraphing properly.

That said, You did not tell of your location and what you read in school. I will not like anybody to help you with money because behind this your story is a bigger story that you may not reveal. So reveal your location and your skill, help may come.
Goodluck!
And again my name is Muyiwa from Oyo state, I studied Local government studies in Polytechnic of okeogun. I've once sold spare parts and I know in and out of it. I don't even need money, I just want to relocate

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Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by DoggoneDogg: 1:54pm On Aug 26
After reading your write up, I'm also confused & don't know what to say.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by inumidun2010(m): 2:06pm On Aug 26
Your Case and MINE is SIMILAR only that my MOM is ALIVE... and nothing will EVER TAKE ME BACK HOME....
I BE GOD-FEARING ALAGIDI BOY....
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Felimax(m): 2:59pm On Aug 26
Lucasmuyiwa:

And again my name is Muyiwa from Oyo state, I studied Local government studies in Polytechnic of okeogun. I've once sold spare parts and I know in and out of it. I don't even need money, I just want to relocate

After going through your content (profile) on NL, and hoping that you may be from the south precisely Delta i have this to say to you.

First, there is no situation that is beyond human control, by God's grace we are wired in a way that circumstances that befall us most times are always within our control, so stop seeing your case as the worst.

Secondly, you must decide and be ready to retrace your step and one best way to do this is to change drastically your circle of friends no matter how good they may appear to you at the moment. If they encourage you or join you to indulge in some of the acts that is killing you then you must change them as soon as possible, this you must do before even thinking of how to stop the negative vices that you are addicted to. Get this straight from me, masturbation does not kill, drinking does not kill, but when you abuse them they send you to early grave. I am not encouraging to keep up with those acts, i am only trying to let you know that you should stop thinking your case is the worst. IT IS NOT!
There are many people today who are orphans and has taken upon themselves to be successful because they want to change their story but here you have a father who still want you to get well and get healed but you don't value him. My dear brother, please, decide to turn a good leaf and watch situations change for good.

Thirdly and probably most important, even in your addictions, even in your acts of negative vices look up to God quietly and tell Him you don't like yourself the way you are and if you are sincere enough He will grant you a second chance and restoration.
Finally, Oyo is quite a far distance to the south. Goodluck!
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 5:14pm On Aug 26
inumidun2010:
Your Case and MINE is SIMILAR only that my MOM is ALIVE... and nothing will EVER TAKE ME BACK HOME....
I BE GOD-FEARING ALAGIDI BOY....
Please how can I leave home without having any money. Im very desperate to leave brother. Please help me.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 5:21pm On Aug 26
Felimax:


After going through your content (profile) on NL, and hoping that you may be from the south precisely Delta i have this to say to you.

First, there is no situation that is beyond human control, by God's grace we are wired in a way that circumstances that befall us most times are always within our control, so stop seeing your case as the worst.

Secondly, you must decide and be ready to retrace your step and one best way to do this is to change drastically your circle of friends no matter how good they may appear to you at the moment. If they encourage you or join you to indulge in some of the acts that is killing you then you must change them as soon as possible, this you must do before even thinking of how to stop the negative vices that you are addicted to. Get this straight from me, masturbation does not kill, drinking does not kill, but when you abuse them they send you to early grave. I am not encouraging to keep up with those acts, i am only trying to let you know that you should stop thinking your case is the worst. IT IS NOT!
There are many people today who are orphans and has taken upon themselves to be successful because they want to change their story but here you have a father who still want you to get well and get healed but you don't value him. My dear brother, please, decide to turn a good leaf and watch situations change for good.

Thirdly and probably most important, even in your addictions, even in your acts of negative vices look up to God quietly and tell Him you don't like yourself the way you are and if you are sincere enough He will grant you a second chance and restoration.
Finally, Oyo is quite a far distance to the south. Goodluck!
I don't have any close friends and those ones I have doesn't stay in my area so it's not all the time I see them. As for smoking and masturbation, Ive overcome masturbation and I don't smoke in joints or untidy area. I smoke in my room and I don't abuse it just that I'm addicted. Please I just want you to believe that my Dad treats me like an adopted son and his voice alone scares me, I can't look him in the eyes whenever I'm with him and I can't talk when he's talking or after talking. I don't have any bad sides because he doesn't know I'm smoking. Even though he knows I don't have friends.Please help me because I just want to leave his vicinity.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Felimax(m): 5:28pm On Aug 26
Lucasmuyiwa:

I don't have any close friends and those ones I have doesn't stay in my area so it's not all the time I see them. As for smoking and masturbation, Ive overcome masturbation and I don't smoke in joints or untidy area. I smoke in my room and I don't abuse it just that I'm addicted. Please I just want you to believe that my Dad treats me like an adopted son and his voice alone scares me, I can't look him in the eyes whenever I'm with him and I can't talk when he's talking or after talking. I don't have any bad sides because he doesn't know I'm smoking. Even though he knows I don't have friends.Please help me because I just want to leave his vicinity.

Then who will guarantee for you, if not your father? I can't make you leave your vicinity if all you want is to escape from your dad, I will be mad. I know your kind. From Oyo to Delta, my hand nor dey. Yes, maybe someone else. Goodluck!
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 5:34pm On Aug 26
Felimax:


Then who will guarantee for you, if not your father? I can't make you leave your vicinity if all you want is to escape from your dad, I will be mad. I know your kind. From Oyo to Delta, my hand nor dey. Yes, maybe someone else. Goodluck!
Most people that left home doesn't have guarantor and they left successfully even to the land of unknown. You're not even helpful from ur words because my Dad that I'm running from is the one you said I should bring as guarantor. Wonderful.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Felimax(m): 5:44pm On Aug 26
Lucasmuyiwa:

Most people that left home doesn't have guarantor and they left successfully even to the land of unknown. You're not even helpful from ur words because my Dad that I'm running from is the one you said I should bring as guarantor. Wonderful.

"I will be happy if I can be suffering under another man than to be suffering under my parents roof" You better humble yourself and listen to your father. For your information i read through all your post (16 of them), i can only ask you to please listen to your dad, do what he wants and he will give you food.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by inumidun2010(m): 7:29pm On Aug 26
Lucasmuyiwa:

Please how can I leave home without having any money. Im very desperate to leave brother. Please help me.

First of all, You have to acknowledge God and stop every DIRTY ACTS you hold on to. God loves SINNERS but hate SIN. I said my Case is Similar to yours but quite different in sone aspect alsoo
1) My Dad is a POLYGAMIST
2) I'm a CHILD OF GOD
3) He wants me to HEAD his FAMILY BUSINESS of which other WIVES started WAHALA because they thought I'm gonna take over
4) The Environment is not PERMISIBBLE TO ME( Too much COMFORT is not GOOD 4 a YOUNG MAN starting LIFE especially if you are not the SOURCE of the COMFORT)...
I left home and STARTED TEACHING in a SECONDARY SCHOOL and I was SQUATTING with a FRIEND who is a CORPER. My DAD called the SCHOOL that they SHOULD sack me( UNBELIEVABLE RIGHT)

Before the school made a DECISION, I JAPA left the STATE, I'm not a MILLIONAIRE NOW but JEHOVAH EL-MORIJAH, JEHOVAH JIREH, OWOKEMBEREBI-IJA has been my HELP...
Like I said, SURRENDER TO JESUS CHRIST, and HELP WILL FLOW from UNEXPECTED SOURCE....

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Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 2:06am On Aug 27
inumidun2010:


First of all, You have to acknowledge God and stop every DIRTY ACTS you hold on to. God loves SINNERS but hate SIN. I said my Case is Similar to yours but quite different in sone aspect alsoo
1) My Dad is a POLYGAMIST
2) I'm a CHILD OF GOD
3) He wants me to HEAD his FAMILY BUSINESS of which other WIVES started WAHALA because they thought I'm gonna take over
4) The Environment is not PERMISIBBLE TO ME( Too much COMFORT is not GOOD 4 a YOUNG MAN starting LIFE especially if you are not the SOURCE of the COMFORT)...
I left home and STARTED TEACHING in a SECONDARY SCHOOL and I was SQUATTING with a FRIEND who is a CORPER. My DAD called the SCHOOL that they SHOULD sack me( UNBELIEVABLE RIGHT)

Before the school made a DECISION, I JAPA left the STATE, I'm not a MILLIONAIRE NOW but JEHOVAH EL-MORIJAH, JEHOVAH JIREH, OWOKEMBEREBI-IJA has been my HELP...
Like I said, SURRENDER TO JESUS CHRIST, and HELP WILL FLOW from UNEXPECTED SOURCE....
How can I surrender to Jesus Christ? But I'm a Muslim but not practicing
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by inumidun2010(m): 6:40am On Aug 27
Lucasmuyiwa:

How can I surrender to Jesus Christ? But I'm a Muslim but not practicing
...
Accepting JESUS CHRIST Is the SIMPLEST thing to do... Go on your knees, And say SINCERELY" LORD JESUS CHRIST, I ACCEPT THAT YOU CAME TO THIS WORLD TO DIE FOR MY SINS , YOU DIED AND ROSE ON THE THIRD DAY, I SURRENDER MY LIFE , MY ALL TO YOU. FORGIVE ME ALL MY SINS, DELIVER ME FROM ALL WEIGHTS HOLDING ME DOWN AND WRITE MY NAME IN THE BOOK OF LIFE".
The Prayer sound SIMPLE RIGHT?... Yes it is, if YOU SAY THE PRAYER, YOUR SINS ARE FORGIVEN... But it doesn't end there, FIND A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH, I'll recommend LIVING FAITH CHURCH ( AKA WINNERS CHAPEL) or THE REDEEMED CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF GOD.. Go to ANY of this this COMING SUNDAY and I SEE THE LORD FIGHTING YOUR BATTL you for you..
After SAYING THIS PRAYER, You are FREE TO ASK ANYTHING FROM GOD... BEFORE YOU START YOUR PRAYER , JUST SAY FATHER IN JESUS CHRIST NAME...
PEACE BE WITH YOU
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 10:40am On Aug 27
inumidun2010:
...
Accepting JESUS CHRIST Is the SIMPLEST thing to do... Go on your knees, And say SINCERELY" LORD JESUS CHRIST, I ACCEPT THAT YOU CAME TO THIS WORLD TO DIE FOR MY SINS , YOU DIED AND ROSE ON THE THIRD DAY, I SURRENDER MY LIFE , MY ALL TO YOU. FORGIVE ME ALL MY SINS, DELIVER ME FROM ALL WEIGHTS HOLDING ME DOWN AND WRITE MY NAME IN THE BOOK OF LIFE".
The Prayer sound SIMPLE RIGHT?... Yes it is, if YOU SAY THE PRAYER, YOUR SINS ARE FORGIVEN... But it doesn't end there, FIND A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH, I'll recommend LIVING FAITH CHURCH ( AKA WINNERS CHAPEL) or THE REDEEMED CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF GOD.. Go to ANY of this this COMING SUNDAY and I SEE THE LORD FIGHTING YOUR BATTL you for you..
After SAYING THIS PRAYER, You are FREE TO ASK ANYTHING FROM GOD... BEFORE YOU START YOUR PRAYER , JUST SAY FATHER IN JESUS CHRIST NAME...
PEACE BE WITH YOU
Thank you very much.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by aparata: 8:46pm On Aug 27
What's your contact number

Lucasmuyiwa:

Thank you very much.
Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by Lucasmuyiwa: 9:18pm On Aug 27
aparata:

What's your contact number

My whatsapp is ±22952489501

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