Bad economy, Financial hardship and poor income are the major reasons men are scared of marriage but ladies won't understand. The cost of living is high and the standard of living is high too.

what a failed mindset....both from ladies but also MEN.
this is perfect the time to find a decent woman with whom you would build a proper home/family together... as one!

why would you be scared of marriage when she can bring the little she has, then you bring the little you have, and be merry as husband and wife?!?!?! thats perfect to begin a union as both of you start from the bottom and grow together!

Na women suppose to fear marriage, no be men.

Doja2000:
Na women suppose to fear marriage, no be men.

Na men dey fear pass. Why? Most ladies usually get married to men empty-handed. I.e No job, or handwork or skill. In most cases, the men bears all or most of all the financial responsibilities.

MrBrownJay1:
what a failed mindset....both from ladies but also MEN.
this is perfect the time to find a decent woman with whom you would build a proper home/family together... as one!

why would you be scared of marriage when she can bring the little she has, then you bring the little you have, and be merry as husband and wife?!?!?! thats perfect to begin a union as both of you start from the bottom and grow together!

Finding a decent woman at that time is hard. Yes, Why? Gone are the days when that use to work(you bringing ur little and she bringing her little). Nowadays, women loves u and respects u based on how much u earn or how fat ur bank a/c is. That's just ugly truth. Although, there are women who will do that bringing with men but they are very few and very rare to find. And women that would voluntarily do these are not more than 2%.

Truvelisback:
Finding a decent woman at that time is hard. Yes, Why? Gone are the days when that use to work(you bringing ur little and she bringing her little). Nowadays, women loves u and respects u based on how much u earn or how fat ur bank a/c is. That's just ugly truth. Although, there are women who will do that bringing with men but they are very few and very rare to find. And women that would voluntarily do these are not more than 2%.

the above is not the ugly truth....it only becomes the ugly truth when these sad and sorry men decide to settle for these useless good for nothing women who only value a man depending on the size of his pocket. what man in his right mind would want to settle for these liabilities?!?

as i always say: if a woman doesnt value you when you are broke, she has no business being in your life when you ultimately make it.

Marriage is for the weak

MrBrownJay1:
what a failed mindset....both from ladies but also MEN.
this is perfect the time to find a decent woman with whom you would build a proper home/family together... as one!

why would you be scared of marriage when she can bring the little she has, then you bring the little you have, and be merry as husband and wife?!?!?! thats perfect to begin a union as both of you start from the bottom and grow together!

95% of Naija ladies won't reason ur perfect time, they would rather go for already made guys, except the financially independent type, who doesn't depend on ur income.