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|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Kobojunkie: 7:34pm On Sep 20, 2021|
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 7:34pm On Sep 20, 2021|
From time to time she allow me touch her. No kiss. Half bread is better than none. You have no choice.
In a year we might have sex an average of 6 to eight times. The few times we met resulted to children.
My crime is well known by me. I don't have big money. Not that I am not providing but it is below her expectation but I am not relaxing
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 7:40pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Well. I pray no one experience this kind of thing. Experience might make you believe. But I needed more on why it is wrong to re marry.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by bukatyne(f): 7:43pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Why doesn't she allow you kiss her?
1. Mouth odor
2. Not properly brushed teeth
3. Poor technique i.e. slopping with spit instead of kissing?
4. No attraction/ love towards you
Six or eight times a year is a type of sexual abuse called withholding sex. The question is why? Did you tell the pastor that?
I am trying to wonder if your marriage has always been like this (for 22 yrs) or this degenerated along the way.
If it is the former, you chose her (for whatever reason) and endured for 22 years; you can do more
If it is the latter, what went wrong? If you were always in this income bracket, the. I doubt your wife would become disrespectful now because of that except she JUST joined politics.
I pray everything becomes resolved. This is the time to do mummy & daddy around the house. Your kids are independent and you both still sound 'young'.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Kobojunkie: 7:50pm On Sep 20, 2021|
cybertruss:So you say she has abandoned the marriage, how long has it been? And why are you considering remarriage now?
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Mleeperbother: 8:03pm On Sep 20, 2021|
She is in her 40's, right?
Maybe she has reached menopause.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by efficiencie(m): 8:07pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Dude own your shiit. You have successfully married an assassin. I wonder what you saw in her that made you choose her. Dude you better go for deliverance first. E fit be powers of your fathers/mothers house they turn the woman head. Go for prayers but if the matter still pass you japa!
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 8:24pm On Sep 20, 2021|
No I ran from her as my family advice me. I was told that she is capable of killing me. I am always in contact with my children. All the drama happened before them.
So she is in the building we built together. I ran for my life. I am in constant contact with my children.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 8:26pm On Sep 20, 2021|
She is close, she has not reached
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 8:29pm On Sep 20, 2021|
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by crackhaus: 8:31pm On Sep 20, 2021|
cybertruss:Oga, why do you need anyone's permission to do what will give you peace of mind?
This kind of attitude is perhaps the reason why your wife has so much power over you.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Kobojunkie: 8:35pm On Sep 20, 2021|
cybertruss:Do you actually have proof that your wife is capable of killing you, this after over 20 years of marriage?
You followed family advise, so may I ask what evidence family presented you in order to convince you that your wife of over 20 years was capable of killing you?
You abandoned your marriage and you are wondering why you are told you should not remarry?
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 8:40pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Withholding of sex is a problem from day one. I actually Don't know why because everything she complained I tried to correct it. I changed my dressing pattern and many other things but denial never ceased. The only crime is that I did not get large money.
But there were times I made big money but I think I was foolish in love. She pressurised me to divert to some other thing instead of what I know best and I did
That is my other mistake. I was completely open to her about my finance and I bring everything on the table. If I want to strengthen my business sometimes I receive stiff opposition. I was succumbing to her way until l learnt to hide my finances from her
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 8:53pm On Sep 20, 2021|
I might not have prove. But experience have taught me that sometimes those waiting for prove will get it in the grave. There are medical conditions that suggest something went wrong. You need to be alive to carry out investigations. I might be lucky she did not think of it in the beginning. With her open threat before the hearing of the children the she will deal with their father then everyone will know she is the woman of the house does it need further proves
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Kobojunkie: 8:58pm On Sep 20, 2021|
cybertruss:Well, it is your marriage!
So you want to marry again and you don't want to just go do registry and be done with it? Is that it?
Are you planning on divorcing your current wife Or are you trying to add a second wife at this point?
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 8:59pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Her action of cooking and refusing to give her husband food for many days. One-day she will pretend to have repented and add poison for the poor man to die. We should learn from nollywood films because they act what happens in our society . The man waiting for proof will get it in the grave.
Omo, I ran for now
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 9:08pm On Sep 20, 2021|
I will have to divorce her first then carefully remarry. However not immediate as I will have to study the new person carefully with prayer.
If I enter a second wife problem that is total destruction.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by cybertruss(m): 9:20pm On Sep 20, 2021|
I would love to thank you all for your contributions. From what I could gather it seems that it's my problem I saw and marry her so I should do whatever I seemed that is right, pastor or no pastor.
Well I want to advise all unmarried people to be careful when getting married.
I blame myself for all my predicament. Some unknown old men told me not to marry my current wife but I was beclouded with love. So it is my fault. Those of you that is prayerful can just remember me in prayer so as to get out of these problem without going against God.
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|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Angeldemon: 9:31pm On Sep 20, 2021|
every tribe has their peculiarities.
Yoruba women are popular to be very promiscuous especially after they get married. Once a woman starts having any form of power over her husband forget it she will soon start misbehaving or totally throw him away. Yorub women are worse.
Truth is yoruba culture encourages quick separation of women from marriage and theyre the most liberal women when it comes to promiscuity. The fact that you are not yoruba or cant speak yoruba well even worsens the case for you. They love their language too much to a point of tribal bias. worse now she entered politics with yoruba men that dont see anything bad in sleeping with other mens wives.
Better move on with your life. There are few good well brought up yoruba women but majority will do same to you once they have power over you o are around men richer than you.
All that glitters is normally gold to them. Most of them hardly hav self control once they see enjoyment.
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|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Kobojunkie: 9:39pm On Sep 20, 2021|
cybertruss:Did you carefully pray before abandoning your current marriage? Because according to Jesus Christ, the only reason you can leave a marriage is if you have evidence of infidelity and you don't have any evidence of that nor do you seem to have evidence that your life is endangered, except for suppositions of course, so what makes you think or believe God is going to grant you a better marriage via prayer?
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Dliquidmetal(m): 9:39pm On Sep 20, 2021|
[quote author=cybertruss post=106015712][/quote] omo I see everything through trp lens this days and i must say you are the problem and not her as people think,you lack positive masculinity(even negative one you no get). Nuff said I would want you to take just a couple of your minutes and go through this thread with an open mind to see things from the biological level,no religious bs or prayers needed.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by yomi007k(m): 9:43pm On Sep 20, 2021|
I prescribe Red pill 1 tablet daily for the rest of your life.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by yomi007k(m): 9:45pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Must you remarry?
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by MrsDot(f): 10:06pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Na wa o....
We have New Arrivals Today!!!
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by RightToReject(m): 10:38pm On Sep 20, 2021|
Lack of discernment and gut are the main causes of your woes in the union from the inception; unfortunately, they're still oozing from the connotations of your submissions. If you were discerning, you would've known within the first few hours or days after meeting her from the inception what she could do at any given time subject to circumstances, therefore would always be a step ahead of her actions and inactions. In all that you gain, as a man, gain discernment.
And your lack of guts made it impossible for you to put her in her place at the inception when she began exhibiting her madness, which your lack of discernment made impossible for you to know beforehand, until it festers to this unbearable level.
Well, you can still humble her even now that her toxicity has gone public, assuming that you still wish to bring her under your dominion and continue the union with her - making a woman malleable regardless of the social strata and ethical leanings of the one involved is one of the easiest things to do once you know your way around life.
You don't relate with a woman who's a penchant for oppression the way you relate with one who has a penchant for fairness, just as you don't relate with one who has a penchant for servility the way you relate with the ones with the aforementioned dispositions.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Lamanii22(f): 10:57pm On Sep 20, 2021|
It better be a Mouth Gig lol....
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by thebosstrevor1: 11:11pm On Sep 20, 2021|
I just feel like laughing because this writeup is a comedy script.
When you were busy argueing about politics online, your imiginary wife was arguing with real politicians offline.
My dear take heart, God will provide you with another wife.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Vision101(m): 12:30am On Sep 21, 2021|
Shallow thinking pastors. I have one question for you, If she doesn't change, can you continue with such for the next say 3, 5, 10 years. There lies your answer
Yeah...if the scriptures must be followed, you are not allowed to put away. That's why one of hardest prayers a person must pray is for God to give him/her the true bone of his/her bone and the flesh of his/her flesh.
We warn that marriage must only be consummated within the bounds of true Christianity. Fleshly desires and considerations must not be the influence.
I must confess that even in the church today so many marriages didn't follow this rule and they are in trouble. Pastors are overburdened with challenges in even old marriages.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Haywhymido(m): 1:04am On Sep 21, 2021|
cybertruss:. You have a lot of problems Sir,if you still care about what people are saying /will say about you. Has these people sayings stop your 'ex'-wife from her wayward life? Move on with your life, be a little selfish and enjoy your life to the fullest. You deserve that at least, before you die throway.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by Skyview01(m): 1:27am On Sep 21, 2021|
Divorce and remarry sharp sharp, do not ever listen to those who says it is wrong to remarry. If your marriage is not working out, by all means, try every possible avenue to make it work. Go e it your best shot.
If in the end, it did not work out , kindly divorce her and look for somebody who will go e you peace of mind. You have only one life to live and you deserve to ne happy. The same goes for ladies who are passing through hell in their marital relationships. Marriage is not do or die do not let any man control your life with fear.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by NaBanga: 1:48am On Sep 21, 2021|
This story is somehow. The issue is that your bedroom skills are lacking and one politician is giving your wife stacks of naira plus good knacking. You will be shocked at how sweet and humble your wife is among her favorite politician boyfriend. His name na chief, sir, baby...
When they say men should make money, many men won't listen. A man who cannot cater to his woman will not get respect nor loyalty. A man whose woman has more money should never step back and let the woman take up the responsibility. The moment this happens, you are now a "woman". Sir go and make money.
|Re: I Lost My Wife To Politicians by BikoMERCYme: 4:54am On Sep 21, 2021|
Is nedu wife dat got impregnated by another.......even when she still married to her husband also a Yoruba Woman........
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