qtguru:


Igbos have it in culture, which I like, traditionally people support each other, this forum makes it seem it's a general thing that men don't help each other, in the US no one sends you, we are more communial in Africa and help each other alot so I have no idea what OP is talking about. Obviously you will often have friends who spend on money but that's a reflection on OP's network and not a general

Starz825:
Guy
It's not easy to be a man..
Everyone looks up to you..
I mean everyone

Your parents, siblings, your wife and children (if married).

Guy... You are a man and you are the first born of your family...guy... Always check your BP regularly...

It's not easy...

Back to the topic!!
My current boss gave my female friend (also a worker before she resigned last month) over 500k and lots of gift so she can spur her traveling out abroad. ..just because he wants to date her...he no wa see her pant oo
She is my friend, i no jealous her na her luck but I come dey reason say ....guys go dey hustle.. nobody go ask aw far...where you reach make i help from here...

Guys listen and listen good...all this girls you abuse here everyday on NL say Dem no get anything to offer than their pussy....oga you see that pussy na something to offer o... because i have seen men spend a lot of money just to have the honeypot so if a woman offer their body and price it up..it's because some rich mofos will purchase no matter what.

Blackfire:




You are so stuuupiiid

chinchonglee:
My own worst pass everybody own..

I work for/with my brother in a start up company but the profit coming in from the start up is huge that you'd think the company has been existing for years.

This dude can let me make side income from the company.. he also handed all the finance of the company to a lady he was shagging while i do all of the mental and physical work. I didnt complain tho. He was busy buying venza for the girl and dashing all other girls money, i was jst looking at him.

I managed to raise my own capital and decided to take him by surprise and resign since i knew i was the pillar of the company because baba is lazy. He doesn't even knw much abt the operations as he is only interested in the profit.

One monday morning(resignation day), I jst went to his house at chevron from my place, dropped the news, gave genuine reasons(yes am that sharp with words and dnt mince word). Baba was speechless and confused and didn't knw what to say. I jst left him, went back to my house and slept off. I decided to take a week off, enjoy myself before I start planning on how to set up my own business.

Omo! See calls on my phone that day both from my dad, mom, sister, brothers. I jst didn't pick anybody's call. My mom came to my house to ask what happening.
I showed her my nonsense flat and told her to compare with that of my brother's duplex in chevron plus he was buying venza for a girl and dashing money to other girls. Also he goes to quilox almost every friday to show off while i continue to live in a stupid flat in surulere.

To cut long story short, baba called family meeting and decided to hand the company's finance to me. Any money coming in or going out must pass through me. And that's how i started seeing side income and other benefits. That doesn't mean I won't start my own business soon.

naija1stnigar:
Majority of men are looking for what to take from one another rather than what to add, but Hon Adedayo omolafe( Expensive) Stood out of this class he was building men and I was also in the process but sadly, we lost him last month.

cooltola:
before you make a general assumptions, do your research well. There are men who are helping men. The problem is those who want to help will get help. Some men do not want change , so no matter how much help is rendered, the efforts do not yield results. The only advice is to pray for such men. Some men have given money to support business of friends , family members and end up feeling insulted for helping. Have you help someone out of good intentions and you felt they see you as mumu because you helped them and the next time they ask for your help , you become hesitant to help and refused? welcome to club , you are not alone. So please try to understand why some folks do not answer call or refuse to give money.

Originalsly:
Men do help men. It is in the DNA of men to help women... the reason a man car breaks down on the road....9 out of 10 men will drive by. If it's a woman.... no more than 2 men will drive by ... even if they know nothing about cars but driving. Man is wired to help women... men are wired to be providers. A man needs to question his manhood when he begins to expect another man to help him.

johnstar:


Like your generation

clericuzzio:
Had a childhood friend whom we both attended same primary school. We were so close that this guy knows every member of my family and I know most of his.

Fast forward to some years later, guy was working in a financial institution and i later got a job too in a in the financial industry.

I was asked to get two guarantors and my guy started avoiding me as I told him I would love him to be one of my guarantors.
My cousin who is a big boy signed and a stranger whom I knew not from Adam signed the other form for me.

Since after that time, guy never contacted me again. Me I just move on, unfriend him on FB and deleted contact as well.

I believe someday posterity will still make him come to me for help and I will do what's on my mind.

SenecaTheYonger:
We are helping women in the hope of getting pussy in return. No one is going to admit it though but why else would anyone help women?


When it comes to helping women, you won’t hear any excuse. When it comes to helping men, you’ll hear “nobody owes you anything” “people need to help themselves first”

Starz825:

Guy...rich guys are here on NL...
Some celebrities are here on NL...if you don't know...so just chill....8M is not above what a nairalander can have..

His story could be true..

I lost 5.3 million naira in investment this year...
So no be everybody no wa see money before.

SenecaTheYonger:
We are helping women in the hope of getting pussy in return. No one is going to admit it though but why else would anyone help women?


When it comes to helping women, you won’t hear any excuse. When it comes to helping men, you’ll hear “nobody owes you anything” “people need to help themselves first”

Originalsly:
Men do help men. It is in the DNA of men to help women... the reason a man car breaks down on the road....9 out of 10 men will drive by. If it's a woman.... no more than 2 men will drive by ... even if they know nothing about cars but driving. Man is wired to help women... men are wired to be providers. A man needs to question his manhood when he begins to expect another man to help him.

AlabiKILLER2021:
Some one as tantalizing as Regina Daniels unclothe right before you


You will understand


That very moment you could deny your mama just so you can get a taste of the chocolate box in-between her thighs