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Its over.
I've been there before... This time, Claire would delete all chat and change their names to female name, while collect d!ck from them.

Bros, please it's not too late
Move on and end it...
Just like beggars always ask, cheaters always cheat (male and female)

,,,

Shebi you have forgiven her
So what do you want us to do??
If your heart is heavy remove the load biko. A word is enough for the wise.
Mind you she has not and will never change!

I have no sympathy for any SIMP. Not even my relatives.

Fantachapman:
I didnt start with money. I didn't even have a lot of money neither do I now. When i met her her mom was very sick. I paid for her mom's hospital bills. Then she fell sick herself, almost at the point of death and was rushed to the hospital. I wasn't around But i paid for her hospital bills as well. She got well and I had to change her accommodation. From face me i face you she was living with her family to 3 bedroom flat in a clean environment. I didn't do these to show off. The pain is that she was doing all these the same period she came back from hospital and was moving to the new house. I am pained that i was ridiculed with this guy while I was trying to register her in school cos she had no tertiary education and I chose to train her. What kind of heart does this? Would any one be this mean to someone who really cares about them?

Better regain your respect as a man.

Where is that false prophet please come and comment. But Senior you fall my hand.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Fantachapman:
I didnt start with money. I didn't even have a lot of money neither do I now. When i met her her mom was very sick. I paid for her mom's hospital bills. Then she fell sick herself, almost at the point of death and was rushed to the hospital. I wasn't around But i paid for her hospital bills as well. She got well and I had to change her accommodation. From face me i face you she was living with her family to 3 bedroom flat in a clean environment. I didn't do these to show off. The pain is that she was doing all these the same period she came back from hospital and was moving to the new house. I am pained that i was ridiculed with this guy while I was trying to register her in school cos she had no tertiary education and I chose to train her. What kind of heart does this? Would any one be this mean to someone who really cares about them?

i don't think your parents will support you on this. Just make her your friend but don't consider her for marriage. You are just a poverty alleviation programme for them.

Hmmmmmmmm, heart breaking I must say, the lady dosent love you at all, also she doesn't respect you at all. You are just her money bag. It's obvious she doesn't love you. And to be sincere with you, she is cheating on you with dat guy if not sleeping with him as well,das why she is always suspicious about your chatting with others. Like you said your heart is already heavy, I don't think u can ever forget if eventually u marry her. If am in your shoes, I don japa be that.

Fantachapman:
I didnt start with money. I didn't even have a lot of money neither do I now. When i met her her mom was very sick. I paid for her mom's hospital bills. Then she fell sick herself, almost at the point of death and was rushed to the hospital. I wasn't around But i paid for her hospital bills as well. She got well and I had to change her accommodation. From face me i face you she was living with her family to 3 bedroom flat in a clean environment. I didn't do these to show off. The pain is that she was doing all these the same period she came back from hospital and was moving to the new house. I am pained that i was ridiculed with this guy while I was trying to register her in school cos she had no tertiary education and I chose to train her. What kind of heart does this? Would any one be this mean to someone who really cares about them?

O.p this Ur question shock me ah shuuu judging from Ur write up u sound like a matured bro but you come dey talk like small boy sorry for this line. Bro this is life reason it's a misery things happen " one beautiful thing about life is that it is so unpredictable reason you should expect any thing from any corner and from anybody life na brain brain.

And if you must trust bro trust urself 99% and give the last 1% to anybody cos the funny truth is that na only u go fit treat urself well without getting hurt and the realest love you can get in life is from two ways God's love and mother's love.
Bros you be man u suppose know waitn to do u nor need advice I have a policy if you do me yeye beg me I go forgive you but definitely won't take away the punishment reason I dey always Yan my mind for relationship. If you do me sey na devil use you, if the devil live you e go use me too make e for balance.

Rules of life is simple any thing when dem go do you web go pain you nor run am for person all in the name of forgiveness.

even God run am to Adam and Eve he forgave them but still drove them out of the garden of Eden and still arrange their punishment rule of life.

Never be nice for free to women. It has to be earned brutally....

Thank me later

The emasculated state of men these days is so so sad. For someone to submit himself to be used by a girl you feed, housed, clothed, and sponsored, and you still accepted her because her of skillful begging and crying abilities. Nothing but sad.

One word for u..Fool..you deserve worse and also a bastard child cos u are a real SIMP..

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

I am sorry sir but you are a fool ohh. Leopards don't change their spots oh. That your fiance will do it again and again. I am not saying you should not help her family oh. Help them. Help the lady get her education so she can carry on with supporting her parents...if you marry that lady you will end it with suicide ohh. It is not a threat it is a guarantee ohhh. Men have walked this path you are on now and it ended with a sip of sniper juice. Help the lady. Help the parents...but never marry that lady.

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

You deserve nothing other than death. In my while life I've never seen a simp as moronic and helplessly stupid as you are.
You are an irredeemable bastard!!

Things I see on naira land.. wtf is wrong with Men these days?

Fantachapman:
I didnt start with money. I didn't even have a lot of money neither do I now. When i met her her mom was very sick. I paid for her mom's hospital bills. Then she fell sick herself, almost at the point of death and was rushed to the hospital. I wasn't around But i paid for her hospital bills as well. She got well and I had to change her accommodation. From face me i face you she was living with her family to 3 bedroom flat in a clean environment. I didn't do these to show off. The pain is that she was doing all these the same period she came back from hospital and was moving to the new house. I am pained that i was ridiculed with this guy while I was trying to register her in school cos she had no tertiary education and I chose to train her. What kind of heart does this? Would any one be this mean to someone who really cares about them?

Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

Pls how old are you op? I want to know if I'm a senior uncle too.

I love your take bro. U nailed it.

DaddyRochie1642:
From the way you're sounding, if you should carry it into marriage, your marriage will not last.

That so called Fiancee of yours has no Respect for you and it's a pity.

I want you to memorize this wise quote from me and never forget it.

"Respect is what makes a Relationship to last long, Love is just secondary".... If there's no Respect in that relationship, that yeye love will not last.

And from your write up, you talked of how you bought her phone, paid house rent bla bla bla, you guys always get this wrong 99% of the time, don't use money to get a woman to be in a relationship with you, una no go listen... Even if you buy Heaven and Earth for a woman, you can never buy a woman's Love.

And it's very very obvious that you don't have Clear Boundaries in that your relationship.

Oga you got it all wrong from the beginning.

I also read in your story where you said that her father called and he was crying for what his daughter did and According to you, you said you paid for her family's accommodation,... Just tell me why that girl's father won't call you and start crying on the daughter's behalf,... just tell me how many people in this Nigeria can boast of someone that decided to take the responsibility to be paying for another person's accommodation knowing fully well how Horrible Nigeria Economy is and how Expensive things are at the moment.

Oga don't be surprised that girl and her family see you as a MEAL TICKET, this is the reality and I sincerely do not care if you're pained by this my quality Analysis

Look at the way your so called Fiancee is even referring to you as "Senior Uncle", no respect whatsoever.

In Brazil we call people like you
"MUGUdinho Dos Santos"

because people like you clearly sees the handwriting on the wall and still decide to put head out of stubbornness or one yeye ego.

Cut your Losses and move on with your life.

You're seeing the Red Flags now and you're Forming gentleman,

Just pray you don't end up Weeping and gnashing your teeth accompanied with Bitter Lamentations when you marry that girl.

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

another simp sighted����

Tobiloba24072:
I had to warn my ex, that is always claiming victim, someone that I saw video with someone old enough to be her father drinking wine and playing in hotel room. She left threatening me that she has lots of abroad toasters and so on. After exploring around and broken engagement she is back trying to play mind games that will make me take her back. Mumu ashawo girl...and she's Enugu girl too..

Imagine the stupidity!

Many of these Enugu girls are so annoying and full of bad attitude.


I wonder!

Fantachapman

Heartaches and DNA tests loading

Never marry for ego or for pity.

Marrying a nagging woman is a worst thing a man can have. Marrying a woman who doesn't trust her husband is a worst thing a man can bargain.

It is better you run for your dear life.

By the way how can you start now to cater for your fiancee family. Are you doing it as inlaws or boyfriendship. Upon it the gal is suacy and nagging.

Kellzzyy:
You deserve nothing other than death. In my while life I've never seen a simp as moronic and helplessly stupid as you are.
You are an irredeemable bastard!!

Lol, I nearly pulled out my hair in anger whilst reading this pathetic fella's story. However, it occurred to me that he is in the class of the ULTIMATE SIMP. Those with zero self esteem and absolutely no regard for themselves.

Despite all the cusses here, he would still proceed to marry that girl, unless she dumps him.

Some mothers do av 'em.

franklingud:


Imagine the stupidity!

Many of these Enugu girls are so annoying and full of bad attitude.


I wonder!

Funny thing, her friends too are like that, they live for men and money, and will probably do almost anything for money. The one that seemed almost innocent, they dragged that one till she broke up with her boyfriend and joined their quest of searching for men to spend, travelling around Nigeria, looking for who has money and they will be sleeping with for money. I used to wonder who made them believe this is the way life goes, not to have dignity .

What did I just read?

This left a sour taste in my tongue...

Maybe, we should help you beg the girl to be faithful to you!

Don't worry sir, you will soon post another one, the title this time will be...

"My fiance has finished me patapata"

Ur mumu never too much......whick kind stupid mumu and yeye man u be. What the hell is wrong with u, even if na d only girl wey de diz world, must u disgrace ur generation because is puna.

Fantachapman:
I didnt start with money. I didn't even have a lot of money neither do I now. When i met her her mom was very sick. I paid for her mom's hospital bills. Then she fell sick herself, almost at the point of death and was rushed to the hospital. I wasn't around But i paid for her hospital bills as well. She got well and I had to change her accommodation. From face me i face you she was living with her family to 3 bedroom flat in a clean environment. I didn't do these to show off. The pain is that she was doing all these the same period she came back from hospital and was moving to the new house. I am pained that i was ridiculed with this guy while I was trying to register her in school cos she had no tertiary education and I chose to train her. What kind of heart does this? Would any one be this mean to someone who really cares about them?

Op....ur way more stupid than I thought. Wtf

Being good to the wrong person is shooting yourself in the foot.