You see, when two people really love each other, nothing, I mean no one can truly separate them. 

It doesn't matter the amount of distance between them, the walls, rivers, oceans, they are always together because what they experience is so powerful that it blasts through all physical limitations.

Now, it is one thing to fall in love, and a different thing to keep it going for as long as you want.

So, I share with you some tips to build a lasting relationship.

1. Don't try to change your partner
To build a strong relationship, accept the fact that you can only change yourself and that you shouldn't try to change your lover. Accept that there is a possibility that the other can never change. Otherwise, you risk getting frustrated and pulling your lover away from you. At best, you can support him in making positive changes in his life, but you should never try to change him.

2. Don't control your lover
Control is a kind of emotional abuse and it creates toxic relationships. This need for control comes from the ego and often it is a reaction caused by your fears, your insecurity and your personal dissatisfaction. Don't try to control your lover.

3. Take an interest in your partner's tastes and opinions
You don't have to agree with all his views or have the same interests. You don't have to take part in all of your partner's hobbies, but you should pay attention to them. You need to ask questions and show him a minimum of interest and involvement. You will never finish learning from your partner, and the same goes for him/her.

4. Learn from negative moments.
While not all emotions like frustration, resentment, and anger are desirable, they are normal. If your lover gets angry, don't criticize her for being angry, because that won't help. Negative emotions are not always destructive, they can be a need for your lover's development and a way to express emotions.

5. Make the effort to have physical contact.
Make a daily effort to create physical contact between you and your partner. Keep the hugs and kisses alive.

6. Just Listen
Listen sincerely to your sweetheart when he/she speaks. Do not say yes, yes by nodding your head, but listen carefully to what the other is saying. You must listen to him, ask questions and rephrase to show him your interest. A lasting relationship requires ongoing communication and maintenance efforts.

And one more

7. Show gratitude
The practice of gratitude is good for our individual happiness, but also essential for nurturing your life as a couple. Show your gratitude to your partner every day, even if he is only doing his fair share. A person who feels appreciated and valued will tend to put in more effort.

Implement these 7 tips and be on your way to a lasting relationship.

With love
Abasiofofon Udoh
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Money was not mentioned. Your list is incomplete my friend

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helinues:
Money was not mentioned. Your list is incomplete my friend