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Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 1:18pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
mojojay: If she said no to unprotected sex. And you sneakily remove it during the act without her approval, That’s the lack of consent there. It’s not confusing 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by silasupdc(m): 1:19pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Laeroy: Aboki never nack you before, them dey always remove CD midway. thats how bubu take come |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by MufasaLion: 1:20pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: He's not a rapist. Don't you know the meaning of rapist? Educate yourself please. And no, I'm not upset but disappointed in how you are hell bent on using the word inappropriately. |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by silasupdc(m): 1:20pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: what of if e burst? |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by GABRIEL6036: 1:25pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Wahala for Cali and condom... |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 1:35pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
silasupdc: That’s not your fault or hers. Both of you can seek emergency care after the fact 1 Like |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 1:36pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Stealthing is rape I suggest you read up more about this issue 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by MufasaLion: 1:37pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: Whatever makes you sleep at night. |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by abbey621(m): 1:55pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: According to which law? Can you prove stealthing nwithout video evidence or a confession? What happens when a condom break but it's too sweet and the lady doesn't want to stop? What happens when using defective condoms? How does a competent court say for certain that the act was intentional and not accidental? How do you curb cases of false allegations by scorned lovers? Una just dey create more problems for una sef |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 2:07pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
abbey621:because you may or may not be able to prove something doesn’t mean it’s not a crime. If for example you hold a person under the gun and they don’t struggle while you have non-consensual sex with them, it doesn’t mean a rape didn’t occur. Even though there’s no way to prove he or she was forced. Are you saying that without video evidence or confession, that such a person hasn’t committed a crime? What happens when a condom break but it's too sweet and the lady doesn't want to stop? What happens when using defective condoms?by definition, it’s not stealthing then is it? How does a competent court say for certain that the act was intentional and not accidental?so only stuff that can be proven should be considered a crime? Got it How do you curb cases of false allegations by scorned lovers? Una just dey create more problems for una sef I’m wondering who’s creating the problem. The people knowingly exposing their partners to bodily fluids without consent or their partners who are not okay with it. I’m guessing you think women should be okay with such acts in order not to be considered problematic right? It takes only a small thread for one to see who many of you truly are on the inside. 3 Likes |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by abbey621(m): 2:24pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: It's funny that you automatically assume only women suffer from stealthing. From punching holes in condoms to using sperm from condoms being thrown away, women are often predators as much as prey....Get over yourself! Furthermore, you can't call something a crime unless a specific law prohibits it, you said stealthing is rape and I simply replied no law in the world calls it such.....It is criminal mischief and more likely a civil case than anything else as long as STDs are not involved. You're arguing based on emotions which I undertsand for women it's the default setting but when we talk about rape, we need to talk about the legal ramifications, you can't just keep labeling everything as rape, it is harmful to actual rape victims! |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 2:34pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Actually I’m not assuming women are the only ones who suffer from this crime. If you read that post well, I used general pronouns when describing those who commit the crime and the victims of the crime. That part flew over your head. I only said you think women should be okay with it specifically because you men are the only ones on here throwing a tantrum about it being labeled a crime. I wonder why. I already know that the women who don’t engage in this behavior have no problem seeing it as a crime. But the men who claim they don’t do it are all over the place having a problem with calling a spade a spade. Very telling. abbey621: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by abbey621(m): 2:38pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: You're the one confusing yourself, go back and read my initial reply, only part I took issue with is labeling stealthing as rape, IT IS NOT! Any other argument is frivolous and a damn waste of my time and energy....PEACE! |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 2:41pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
abbey621: Rape is non-consensual sexual encounter which by logic makes stealthing rape. Also it’s illegal in many countries. Your post is full of untruths. So if anyone is arguing based on emotions, it’s you. You see yourself in the other men who are guilty of this and it’s causing you to have an emotional response because that could very well be you. I understand that’s why a lot of you have issues saying what’s clear and true about this matter. You don’t think you’re like other “monster rapists” who use guns and knives to force their way. You will have problems accepting that this thing which many of you engage in is actually rape. If you can dissociate yourselves from the act, then maybe you can be more rational about it. But like a typical NL guy who has nothing more useful to say, you’re deflecting your emotional response onto me. While in actual clear common sense you’re the illogical emotion laden party in this conversation. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by cococandy(f): 2:42pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
abbey621: It is rape. Peace 2 Likes |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by Loverboy3333: 2:46pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz: She noticed it but didn't want it otherwise because she is also enjoying d raw |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by Perfectbeing(m): 2:50pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
How the moral fabric of our society have decayed. So what is immoral is the "stealthing" and not the fornication? 1 Like |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by dotedote: 3:01pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Laeroy: And why do you think it's only the female that can be "the other party" Madam, your gender people ask of it raw and when they see you're adamant on using the rubber, they wait till that moment when the sh*t is uncontrollable and they just rip it off and the show just continues and bro contracts an STI/D. What if cases where the lady wants to be impregnated against the guy's wish ? It's a 2-way thing Sis. Make God just help us from "the other party" |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by abbey621(m): 3:12pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy: Unfortunately for you, laws around the world does not revolve around your emotional rhetoric or lack of understanding! Rape is a felony while stealthing is not, until this changes you can continue rambling it won't change a thing; one is criminal case while the other will continue to be civil. A man you were having sex with got over excited and removed condom during sex, you did not tell him to stop, you continued enjoying it and then you turn around and prosecute him for stealthing claiming he raped you......Is this really the world you live in? Is this what you want to waste taxpayers money on? GTFOH! Yes you can sue him for mischief and probably win but rape? How about we stop demeaning the word and hurting actual victims! |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by COMPAQ(m): 4:04pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
LegendaryLover: Good question! |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by wirinet(m): 4:38pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
RedpillAnalyst: The law did not specify marital status. If the husband removes condom without knowledge of wife and is reported, he goes to jail. |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by wirinet(m): 4:47pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
cococandy:Are you talking about sneakily removing it before sex or during sex? What if the condom tears or removes during the act? Is the man still liable? Let me tell you one trick guys used to employ in those days. If the babe insists on condom and you don't want to use condom, no problem. Just use a pin and puncture the tip of the condom. Even If it's the babe that wore you the condom, she will never notice. In the middle of the act, when she has reached nirvana, the condom would tear and she would not notice. After the deed is done guys would blame the condom for tearing. Boys were very bad in those days. I still ask, what happens if the condom tears? |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by Laeroy(f): 5:13pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
dotedote: Lmao... All these stories just to castigate the other party.... Na wa for u ooooo.. 1 Like |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
hammer567: Really? So u support removing your condom when you already agreed to wear one? STD vendor |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by ihedioramma: 6:31pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz: |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by ihedioramma: 6:32pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
JackDaAlienz:And you lost your first child . |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by Arizoner: 6:49pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:babe find me 7 odds make I stake shapaly |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:29pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Arizoner: Remind me tomorrow. |
Re: Nonconsensual Removal Of Condom During Sex, Illegal In California by crackhaus: 8:17pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
This is a good development... I believe it favours men more than it does women. 1 Like 1 Share |
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