I have been in a relationship for complete 5 years and now that i want to settle down with her, she start giving me excuses. What do i do.

Her excuses aint gonna get you anywhere is it? She's tellin ya, she aint ready!

Men can't you move on and look for somebody that is ready to settle down.

I don't think you are at a loss here.

What do you do?
Cast your net back into the ocean. There's plenty of fish out there.

Na wa o! Are u hypnotized or what? Please feel us in o. I dont even see an issue in this. She obviously is bored silly with the relationship and definitely wants out.

She doesnt want to settle down with you . . maybe


suck it up.

After 5yrs., she's still not ready to settle down? Sounds to me that you two are not on the same page and/or compatible. Are you okay with just "dating"? If not, you may want to consider ending this relationship and moving on to someone whom is seeking a long term committed relationship.

^^Tell him.

OP.

You should know what to do

Move on Dude!!!

Or you expect me carrying my parents along to come and prostrate before her? . . . . . .

if she is acting as strange now, all you need todo is to draw her closer to know the reason why she is rejecting your offer. if she gives you any good reason 4 her not to marry you, then know for sure that she is right cause she knows she is not for you. give it up and find yourself a woman for you. cos marriage a an everlasting covednant.

I feel this post is not xplicit enough, like wat waz re exuse on?re there genuine?are u d 1 dat doesn't want to c reasonz with her?or she just wants to unrealistic or unreasonable? I need to have a clearer picture of this situation so as to be sure of what to write.

op
is only girls dat bears esther,
I thought u re a lesbian.

OP,

You was played. Sorry to hear that suga.

5 whole years!!!!
You need to ask her the reasons she doesn't want to settle down;

1. perhaps she is not comfortable with your present financial condition or
2. some other characters you have been exhibiting or
3. she has met someone she feels more comfortable with or
4. she has never been in love with you all these years or
5. you have been the only one serious about the relationship or
6. she has some dreams/aspirtations she wants to accomplish before she settles down

Only her can give you her real reason.

Good luck, bros and next time don't leave it for too long before you propose; there are so many fast guys out there looking for good girls to grab.

^^^^^
GBAM

^^Hey you!
Can you give me 5 years of your life? I want to try my luck.

Door is always open
btw: meet me at the usual place

Your bedroom or mine?

@OP
the answer is RIGHT there in your question:

estherdim:

I have been in a relationship for complete 5 years and now that i want to settle down with her, she start giving me excuses. What do i do.

so"now" YOU decide that YOU want to settle and expect her to jump?! you being ready means that she MUSt be too?! what about all these 5yrs, couldnt she possibly find a side of you thats he aint cool with?!

estherdim: I have been in a relationship for complete 5 years and now that i want to settle down with her, she start giving me excuses. What do i do.

She USED you. Sorry Pal!
You made her feel secured, while she went hunting for a bigger fish. The big fish also made her feel secured and right now she is hunting for the BIGGEST fish!