kingthreat:

I am saying this because as we speak, families are breaking up. Many men that are dependent on salary income have lost their roles in families.

They cannot foot the bills of providing food, paying rent, fees, etc and their families are being shattered.
I got a call last night from a relative who has been unemployed since the covid19 but his lucky wife whose job was not affected is presently keeping late nights, starving him of sex and he cannot say nada because she is the one taking care of 80% of the bills.

Or is it my senior in secondary school presently in his whose wife left him with their 2 daughters and is flirting with big boys in Abuja who gave her apartment and takes care of her bills?

So, single mothers who also need to feed their children, and those who belong to other kinds of families , all of them with bills to pay are of less importance in this your equation? You want companies to turn the economy upside down so a few married men can keep their marriages?

May you never become a politician in anywhere Nigeria or the current level of foolishness will only continue to rise in the country as a whole

Who send them go marry??

kingthreat:
This is my special appeal to those who are employers of labour, and human resource officers in charge of recruiting staff in companies.
Please give more employment priority to men of 28 years and older especially the married men.

After that, you can now give preference to single mothers, married females, the younger men and women.

I am saying this because as we speak, families are breaking up. Many men that are dependent on salary income have lost their roles in families.


Save a family today.

Life doesn't work that way.


So single people who are more qualified for the job should be tossed aside because a married man is applying for the same role?


Is this a farce or something?

There's trouble in paradise but TBH there are jobs everywhere ooo

That is if you're qualified. They are jobs for both the neophytes and the experienced.

Seriously I don't know why people keep on clamouring that there's no job..

I don't want to go too deep, but those men should dig deeper, they should go online that's where the jobs are.

So many companies springing up here and there.

Dshocker:
The ball is in the hands of the director or owner of the company....In Nigeria,human resources are barely influential in an organisation.

For those that cannot get a job,it is better they start up a business,no matter how little.

No be who get money dey start up business?

In this same hard économy, there are people rejecting job offers and changing jobs for higher paying ones. This is simply because they have skills that are in high demand. Those jobs are never advertised. It's the people in that field or line of jobs that recommend themselves. Sometimes employers pick-up their profiles from LinkedIn and just call them for interviews. This applies mostly to IT, cybersecurity and IT audit jobs.

If you can, find your way into that field. It's lucrative

IykeChukz:
You make whole lots of sense �

What sense
HR's should make it compulsory to employ married people with families to help em save their marriages and remain relevant in their families even at the expense of other more qualified younger peeps just cos the latter ain't married
I am not surprised that this makes sense to u
Later when those young unemployed resort to looting & armed robbery
The married men whose families had to be saved will come online cursing

Your idea right??

The poster of this topic took thoughts out of my mind. So many men are unemployed and these men are at the mercy of their employed women who because of the predicament of their husband talk to them without respect. Many men have lost their family because the women will because of the inability of their husband to provide turn their children away from their father making the men seem lazy and irresponsible. I am using this avenue to seek help from well meaning Nairalanders who have what it takes to employ PLEASE I NEED A JOB bady. My family is in serious problem because of my unemployed condition. I am an MSc holder and a LABORATORY SCIENTIST. I still don't mind any other job as long as it will keep me productive and earning. Thanks to that kind hearted fellow.

Dshocker:
The ball is in the hands of the director or owner of the company....In Nigeria,human resources are barely influential in an organisation.

For those that cannot get a job,it is better they start up a business,no matter how little.

No be who get money dey start up business?
Which Nigeria bank gives loan to individuals that wants to start up a new company or business?

People are really going through crazy stuff in Nigeria

Dshocker:
The ball is in the hands of the director or owner of the company....In Nigeria,human resources are barely influential in an organisation.

For those that cannot get a job,it is better they start up a business,no matter how little.

. It is nice to start up a business but sir, which business and where is the capital? If you are blessed, pls connect me. I need a link up.

They don't want to employ those who have bills, because they can't enslave them

hmmm

LibertyRep:
This is worth considering.

Especially those always asking for 5 years experience from 25 years old max

You never see
Must be fluent in Portuguese,french and Chinese ,professional body with 10 years experience for 26 years!
I was laughing in the car!
If I mention the name of the company you will be shocked!
Because all the people that are working there no get am

98% of these Nigeria companies underpay their workers and most of their work policies are so ridiculously.

D job sef no pay na survival we dey like dis ....

Tajbol4splend:
They don't want to employ those who have bills, because they can't enslave them

Since it's a free market, those that have bills should go and risk their last savings and start their own business and enslave employ people too.

When my Dad was retrenched from his job at NITEL, he had to stoop low to menial jobs like Soap making (Local), and riding Kabu Kabu with his Mazda 626 of those years, while my mom taught... Until God blessed them with a school, and 3 plots of land in costly places in Lagos, and sending their children as far as IUO....

My Dad brother, when he left his bank job, tried acting, went into marketing, cleaning, until God blessed him with the best security outfit in the country and eben beyond...

What am I saying?? Start low again, sometimes you need to hit bottom to recover yourself... You must not get a job to live, there are blue collar jobs everywhere, especially in Lagos...

ATTITUDE is everything

The problem with such men is that they have so much compiled problems that it affects their productivity.

KingGBsky:


No be who get money dey start up business?
Which Nigeria bank gives loan to individuals that wants to start up a new company or business?

You don't need loan to start a business the would thrive.

You need to start small and invest your time on be productive.
NB: Limit your nairaland use... It's a serious Time killer

Kazim88:


You don't need loan to start a business the would thrive.

You need to start small and invest your time on be productive.
NB: Limit your nairaland use... It's a serious Time killer

No be money dem take dey start small ?

DollarBuddy:
Exactly why since the day I made my first kobo online, I swore to never carry any yeye CV to any yeye company or MDA for job.

If you are computer literate but still job hunting in this digital age, I blame you, not the rotten decayed Nigerian system

Show me the way.

Manny people have been saying long time ago about the wrong interpretation of women libration that is not fundamentally relevant to our our social dynamics.

A man gets a job he is useful to a woman girlfriend or wife either ways..plus extented families.. a woman gets a job she is more consciouse of improving her look to get a higher paying man. They mate up the pyramid. Men will mate downwards. We're it spread or flat. If women have to they will save themselves and leave you to sought yourself out. It's not hate it's just that women by definition are not hardwired to bear burdens. that the truth. That's also why they have not led men ever..they hate burdens.

PrimadonnaO:



Life doesn't work that way.


So single people who are more qualified for the job should be tossed aside because a married man is applying for the same role?


Is this a farce or something?

You are right. I am also for the most qualified to be employed because it is all about performance. But in a situation where there are like 10 qualified with 5 slots and 4 are married men, preference should be given to them. Believe me giving them the job will be bringing smiles to not just 4 people but 4 families.

Kobojunkie:
So, single mothers who also need to feed their children, and those who belong to other kinds of families , all of them with bills to pay are of less importance in this your equation? You want companies to turn the economy upside down so a few married men can keep their marriages?

May you never become a politician in anywhere Nigeria or the current level of foolishness will only continue to rise in the country as a whole

Take it easy junkie. Read my post well. I did not say employment should be based totally on sentiments. It should be on qualification but preference should be given to those that needs it most.
Single mothers are important too. But a married man carries more weight than single mothers because he has the responsibility of a wife, children, extended families, etc. I don't know how you grew up but imagine a family father is unemployed sitting at home, gets insulted and your school fees is a problem. This is many families reality at the moment.

KingGBsky:


No be money dem take dey start small ?

Oga, dress well, go all the small offices wey de your area.

Tell them your are into office supplies like pen air freshener, toiletries, invoices and manual labor provider
Ask them what they usually want.

Take their order.

Tell them you a start up, you collect full payment on delivery.

NB: don't go beggarly, don't go looking for sympathy. Go professional and humbly.

As long as you are not begging or beggar naturally you would do just fine.


If they make their other and prefer time of delivery .

Go to a local supermarket, drop your phone as collateral pick everything they order and deliver

kingthreat:

Take it easy junkie. Read my post well. I did not say employment should be based totally on sentiments. It should be on qualification but preference should be given to those that needs it most.
Single mothers are important too. But a married man carries more weight than single mothers because he has the responsibility of a wife, children, extended families, etc. I don't know how you grew up but imagine a family father is unemployed sitting at home, gets insulted and your school fees is a problem. This is many families reality at the moment.

You are still repeating the same foolishness, this after telling me your argument is not based on sentiments, why?

You want us to believe that a married home where 2 fully capable adults can share equally the work of bringing in the bread, is of more importance, in your perspective, than a one where the responsibility falls squarely on just the one?

This is very true. Many unemployed matured men are doing uber for survival. My advise is for them not to ever quit.

I told my wife some days back that my style and approach to family and my personal welfare has change.
I need to take care of myself too, no more spending every penny I earn for the family and almost forgetting my upkeep. And whenever she has money she keep it for herself.

Men shine your eyes o. when those kids grow up, they will almost forget their Dad, not all kids though

Op have a point here.

Dshocker:
The ball is in the hands of the director or owner of the company....In Nigeria,human resources are barely influential in an organisation.

For those that cannot get a job,it is better they start up a business,no matter how little.

Are you sure, let me tell human resources manager is the boss in terms of employment slots in a company

So literally married men should be given priority over single people.

Nonsense.

Didi2d:
I told my wife some days back that my style and approach to family and my personal welfare has change.
I need to take care of myself too, no more spending every penny I earn for the family and almost forgetting my upkeep. And whenever she has money she keep it for herself.

Men shine your eyes o. when those kids grow up, they will almost forget their Dad, not all kids though

Very valid too. I have started care of my self and needs since I realise that they money is they money and mine is ours. I have given myself brain.