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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 11:19pm On Oct 15, 2021
Akporo1234:
What I will encourage everyone above me doubting this post is to go make research before coming here to make noise.
Honestly, I have not heard bout this normally but I'm going to read more about this right now. That's how an educated person should behave; not coming here and making useless noise for your own ignorance.
Can any research reveal any more than personal experience? Na almost 17 years I take chop cane for nyash. But not once, I repeat, not once did I get a hard on. So I'm forced to agree with the person who said only a foolish mad man would behave like that. A normal mad won't.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 11:24pm On Oct 15, 2021
I think you made sense.

But how do we explain women who have never gotten spanked on the ass all their lives but get sexually aroused when slapped on the ass.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 11:31pm On Oct 15, 2021
emorse:

Can any research reveal any more than personal experience? Na almost 17 years I take chop cane for nyash. But not once, I repeat, not once did I get a hard on. So I'm forced to agree with the person who said only a foolish mad man would behave like that. A normal mad won't.

I think you missed the point.

The writer didn't say you can get a hardon because your teacher flogged your buttocks or anytime you are flogged on the your buttocks

What the writer was trying to explain was the effect the constant flogging on your buttocks can have on you sexually.

You might have a hardon if your gf slap your buttocks or handle it, this could be the psychological effect later in life because of the constant flogging on your buttocks by your teacher.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by beauty7: 11:48pm On Oct 15, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


I think you missed the point.

The writer didn't say you can get a hardon because your teacher flogged your buttocks or anytime you are flogged on the your buttocks

What the writer was trying to explain was the effect the constant flogging on your buttocks can have on you sexually.

You might have a hardon if your gf slap your buttocks or handle it, this could be the psychological effect later in life because of the constant flogging on your buttocks by your teacher.

Thank you Sir.

You have said it all.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by jimmychang: 11:52pm On Oct 15, 2021
Make I go check first before I go destroy OP
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Prismandaa: 1:25am On Oct 16, 2021
When you are done sexualizing stuff like this, come and patronize me. I sell peanut coating machine at affordable rate. Chat the number on my signature.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 6:22am On Oct 16, 2021
Beating or flogging children does nothing, other than make them fear you.

There are better ways to have them do what you want. If you've ever trained a dog, you'll understand what I'm saying.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by otomatic(m): 6:24am On Oct 16, 2021
Akporo1234:
What I will encourage everyone above me doubting this post is to go make research before coming here to make noise.
Honestly, I have not heard bout this normally but I'm going to read more about this right now. That's how an educated person should behave; not coming here and making useless noise for your own ignorance.

Bros, there is nothing to research or hear. The research was done when as a teenager one was being flogged on those body parts and one did not have any arousal. That personal experience beats any research.
No let these BDSM people confuse you.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Octopusssy(f): 6:33am On Oct 16, 2021
beauty7:


Thank you Sir.

You have said it all.
Nne gettaut. You are into BDSM so stop shoving you perverted logic on us. I was caned on my buttocks for 6 years in secondary school and my only memory of those moments is pain. Your body and mind is too busy trying to cope with the pain to even admit in any other kind of sensation, especially sexual arousal.

You are a generation of sexual perverts and you badly need Jesus to sanctify your hearts and renew your spirit man.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by EDGEof2MORO: 7:03am On Oct 16, 2021
beauty7:
[s]When I have a child, and he or she does wrong,beat him or her 3 strokes of the cane on his/her hands.

Don't beat him/her on the buttocks because it is an assault on his or her sexuality.

Even beating on the back can be dangerous for a child, particularly girls, because the back is close to the breasts.




According to the book called "Riddle of cruelty", Continuous beating on the back of a female can make her to tie sexual pleasure to pains received when being beaten on the back.


It is because the nerves in the breasts and the back are closely connected and stimulating the back by beating and stimulating the breasts by sucking could be mixed up by the brain.


As in, the brain may interpret pains on the back as pleasure in the breasts, because of the closeness of the breasts to the back, with interconnected nerve.


To the extent that beating her back could give her the same pleasure as sucking her breasts.


The same thing is applicable to males, particularly when it comes to beating on the buttocks.


The nerves in the penis and that in the buttocks are closely connected.

Beating his buttocks can give him the same pleasure as having sex.


That explains why many men loves beating/slapping buttocks because it kinds of give them pleasure.

So beating on the back affects females negatively more than it affects males,


and beating on the buttocks affects males more than it affects females.



But the best kind of caning is on the hands for both gender.



Because if only one gender is always beaten on the hands, and the other gender is always beaten on another part of the body,



soon, that gender would begin to sexualize beating on the hands, because it is only done to his or her gender.



If one day, he or she sees the people from the other gender being beaten on the hands,he or she would be sexually excited, because what is only done to his or her gender has been done to the other gender.


It can give a sexual pleasure to him or her seeing people from the other gender being punished in a way only meant for his or her gender.



It is applicable to all other forms of punishments where such punishments is only for a specific gender.



For example, if in a school, only girls are beaten on the hands, and boys are beaten on another part of their bodies,



the day a boy/boys would be beaten on the hands, some girls would be so excited sexually.




To avoid such,it is necessary to flog boys and girls on the same part of the body, which I believe should be the hands.


Please forgive me,I am not a talkative.

This is an anonymous forum, that is why I hide under anonymity to speak my mind.

That explains why I don't put my pictures here, because I created this moniker to speak my mind, which in reality I can't do.[/s]

Share your opinion.

Bullshít

That's not how the human body works

Ask your sister or girlfriends if they were sexually aroused when wiped with a cane on their behinds

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by bukatyne(f): 8:07am On Oct 16, 2021
Akporo1234:
What I will encourage everyone above me doubting this post is to go make research before coming here to make noise.
Honestly, I have not heard bout this normally but I'm going to read more about this right now. That's how an educated person should behave; not coming here and making useless noise for your own ignorance.

kiss
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by bukatyne(f): 8:10am On Oct 16, 2021
Octopusssy:

Nne gettaut. You are into BDSM so stop shoving you perverted logic on us. I was caned on my buttocks for 6 years in secondary school and my only memory of those moments is pain. Your body and mind is too busy trying to cope with the pain to even admit in any other kind of sensation, especially sexual arousal.

You are a generation of sexual perverts and you badly need Jesus to sanctify your hearts and renew your spirit man.

Have you wondered by some people cannot 'enjoy' sex without introduction of pain, shame and other deprived things?

The OP might be on to something.

Let's assume she is into BDSM, looking into the OP can help bring up kids NOT interested in BDSM.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 8:56am On Oct 16, 2021
bukatyne:


Have you wondered by some people cannot 'enjoy' sex without introduction of pain, shame and other deprived things?

The OP might be on to something.

Let's assume she is into BDSM, looking into the OP can help bring up kids NOT interested in BDSM.

There was an article that says that some people who went through corporal punishments either in school or at home have problems enjoying sex without pain or shame when they become an adult.

Also,some may internalize that to be in a loving relationship there is need to be pain or physical aggression.

How come some women are turned on by physical aggression. Infact, some women will only respect or gets turn on by a man that beats them up. When you do some background into their lives, you will start seeing the pattern of corporal punishment from young.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Sakastor: 9:15am On Oct 16, 2021
I have flogged on the buttocks countless times, nothing like sexual pleasure there abeg.
beauty7:
When I have a child, and he or she does wrong,beat him or her 3 strokes of the cane on his/her hands.

Don't beat him/her on the buttocks because it is an assault on his or her sexuality.

Even beating on the back can be dangerous for a child, particularly girls, because the back is close to the breasts.




According to the book called "Riddle of cruelty", Continuous beating on the back of a female can make her to tie sexual pleasure to pains received when being beaten on the back.


It is because the nerves in the breasts and the back are closely connected and stimulating the back by beating and stimulating the breasts by sucking could be mixed up by the brain.


As in, the brain may interpret pains on the back as pleasure in the breasts, because of the closeness of the breasts to the back, with interconnected nerve.


To the extent that beating her back could give her the same pleasure as sucking her breasts.


The same thing is applicable to males, particularly when it comes to beating on the buttocks.


The nerves in the penis and that in the buttocks are closely connected.

Beating his buttocks can give him the same pleasure as having sex.


That explains why many men loves beating/slapping buttocks because it kinds of give them pleasure.

So beating on the back affects females negatively more than it affects males,


and beating on the buttocks affects males more than it affects females.



But the best kind of caning is on the hands for both gender.



Because if only one gender is always beaten on the hands, and the other gender is always beaten on another part of the body,



soon, that gender would begin to sexualize beating on the hands, because it is only done to his or her gender.



If one day, he or she sees the people from the other gender being beaten on the hands,he or she would be sexually excited, because what is only done to his or her gender has been done to the other gender.


It can give a sexual pleasure to him or her seeing people from the other gender being punished in a way only meant for his or her gender.



It is applicable to all other forms of punishments where such punishments is only for a specific gender.



For example, if in a school, only girls are beaten on the hands, and boys are beaten on another part of their bodies,



the day a boy/boys would be beaten on the hands, some girls would be so excited sexually.




To avoid such,it is necessary to flog boys and girls on the same part of the body, which I believe should be the hands.


Please forgive me,I am not a talkative.

This is an anonymous forum, that is why I hide under anonymity to speak my mind.

That explains why I don't put my pictures here, because I created this moniker to speak my mind, which in reality I can't do.

Share your opinion.

Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 9:24am On Oct 16, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


I think you missed the point.

The writer didn't say you can get a hardon because your teacher flogged your buttocks or anytime you are flogged on the your buttocks

What the writer was trying to explain was the effect the constant flogging on your buttocks can have on you sexually.

You might have a hardon if your gf slap your buttocks or handle it, this could be the psychological effect later in life because of the constant flogging on your buttocks by your teacher.
Actually, I understand what she's driving at perfectly. What I'm saying is that my personal experience proves otherwise. 17 years of almost constant thrashing on almost every part of my body no be beans bro. Yet I haven't experienced any of those symptoms. This says to me that the research is either wrong or inadequate.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 9:29am On Oct 16, 2021
HenryDion:
Beating or flogging children does nothing, other than make them fear you.

There are better ways to have them do what you want. If you've ever trained a dog, you'll understand what I'm saying.
Hahahaha! If you've ever taught in a school, you'll know better. And I'm not talking about brutal beating like animals o. Sometimes, just the sight of the cane is enough.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 9:33am On Oct 16, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
I think you made sense.

But how do we explain women who have never gotten spanked on the ass all their lives but get sexually aroused when slapped on the ass.
I wonder how you concluded that there's a possible link between spanking and sexuality without a reasonable answer to this question.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 9:35am On Oct 16, 2021
emorse:

Actually, I understand what she's driving at perfectly. What I'm saying is that my personal experience proves otherwise. 17 years of almost constant thrashing on almost every part of my body no be beans bro. Yet I haven't experienced any of those symptoms. This says to me that the research is either wrong or inadequate.

The writer didn't say you need to be flocked all over your body to experience sexual arousal.

What she meant is that the constant spanking on your buttocks could affect you psychologically, that you can internalise the pain and connect it with sexual pleasure later in life.

The writer made many solid points because there are research to back it up.

You also need to ask yourself, how the idea of masochistic sex came to be.

Pls read this article that further buttress the writer point of view.

Study: Spanking May Lead to Sexual Problems Later

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Health/Sex/story%3fid=4358979&page=1
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 9:43am On Oct 16, 2021
emorse:

I wonder how you concluded that there's a possible link between spanking and sexuality without a reasonable answer to this question.

Do you know about pavlov classic conditioning.

Let me explain it a little,

Pavlov concluded that if a particular stimulus in the dog's surroundings was present when the dog was given food then that stimulus could become associated with food and cause salivation on its own.

The result is that Pavlov's dog learned to salivate whenever it hears the sound of a bell.

Use this idea ( pavlov classical conditioning) to understand the link between spanking and sexuality

Because of conditioning, some people will associate the spanking with pleasure while some will associate it with pain.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 9:45am On Oct 16, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


The writer didn't say you need to be flocked all over your body to experience sexual arousal.

What she meant is that the constant spanking on your buttocks could affect you psychologically that you can internalise the pain and connect it with sexual pleasure later in life.

The writer made many solid points because there are research to back it up.

You also need to ask yourself, how the idea of masochistic sex came to be.

Pls read this article that further buttress the writer point of view.

[b]Study: Spanking May Lead to Sexual Problems Later[/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Health/Sex/story%3fid=4358979&page=1
I have absolutely no idea how the bolded came to be. But your question below suggests to me that neither do you.
thebosstrevor1:
I think you made sense.

But how do we explain women who have never gotten spanked on the ass all their lives but get sexually aroused when slapped on the ass.
My point is simple. I have experienced some serious ass spanking and it had absolutely no sexual effect on me. And from evidence on this thread, I'm not alone.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Olawaleslimfit(m): 9:45am On Oct 16, 2021
Person go just carry phone they type rubbish come put am online. Flogging on the buttocks stimulates sexual arousal and to even say its science proven. Omoh, what have i read this morning like this for fvcks sake.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Olawaleslimfit(m): 9:49am On Oct 16, 2021
I hope you aren't confusing spanking with beating?
thebosstrevor1:


The writer didn't say you need to be flocked all over your body to experience sexual arousal.

What she meant is that the constant spanking on your buttocks could affect you psychologically, that you can internalise the pain and connect it with sexual pleasure later in life.

The writer made many solid points because there are research to back it up.

You also need to ask yourself, how the idea of masochistic sex came to be.

Pls read this article that further buttress the writer point of view.

Study: Spanking May Lead to Sexual Problems Later

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Health/Sex/story%3fid=4358979&page=1



Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 9:53am On Oct 16, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


Do you know about pavlov classic conditioning.

Let me explain it a little,

Pavlov concluded that if a particular stimulus in the dog's surroundings was present when the dog was given food then that stimulus could become associated with food and cause salivation on its own.

The result is that Pavlov's dog learned to salivate whenever it hears the sound of a bell.

Use this idea ( pavlov classical conditioning) to understand the link between spanking and sexuality

You just killed the argument bro. Pavlov rang a bell before feeding his dog. Both stimuli were made to accompany each other hence, the dog over time tied them together subconciosly. Note, BOTH STIMULI WERE PRESENT.

Now, you don't do anything even remotely sexual after being spanked on the bottom in school so where does the sexual stimulus come from?

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by emorse(m): 9:55am On Oct 16, 2021
Olawaleslimfit:
I hope you aren't confusing spanking with beating?
Even if he's confusing both, it still doesn't change much. The difference between beating and spanking is just in technical details. Cane sha touch nyash.
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Smartb0y: 9:56am On Oct 16, 2021
lilvicky68:
Why must we sexualize everything??
Nawa oh..
welcome to the feminine age. soon to breathe in air would be sexually stimulating

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 10:00am On Oct 16, 2021
emorse:

I have absolutely no idea how the bolder came to be. But your question below suggests to me that neither do you.

My point is simple. I have experienced some serious ass spanking and it had absolutely no sexual effect on me. And from evidence on this thread, I'm not alone.

Because i asked a question does not mean i don't have an idea of how it came to be.

As i wrote above in a reply, some people might internalize pain with sexual pleasure while some internalized it with something bad.

Individuals are different, different people get arousal from different things.

Let me give you an example.

Majority of men in this part of the world get arousal from seeing a woman with big ass, in the brain,they have already connected big ass with pleasure, that is because all their lives they live with women who have big asses, the reason is because of conditioning.

imagine, all the women in this part of the world are slim, conditioning will also make the men connect sexual pleasure with only women with slim body.

Environment influences your sex life...the way you are constantly treated influences your sex life, sex is more than having a dick and a vagina, how aggressive or passive towards the act is also influenced by your environment.

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Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by beauty7: 10:02am On Oct 16, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


The writer didn't say you need to be flocked all over your body to experience sexual arousal.

What she meant is that the constant spanking on your buttocks could affect you psychologically, that you can internalise the pain and connect it with sexual pleasure later in life.

The writer made many solid points because there are research to back it up.

You also need to ask yourself, how the idea of masochistic sex came to be.

Pls read this article that further buttress the writer point of view.

Study: Spanking May Lead to Sexual Problems Later

https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Health/Sex/story%3fid=4358979&page=1



Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by Nobody: 10:05am On Oct 16, 2021
Olawaleslimfit:
I hope you aren't confusing spanking with beating?

I am not but they are both similar, it depends on degree of enforcement

What is called spanking in other societies is called beating here
Re: Why Beating On The Buttocks And Back Is Sexually Stimulating And Must Be Avoided by bragamycin: 10:07am On Oct 16, 2021
So if a male child is flogged on the bum bum, penis go rise ?
Anyways if u ever notice this in ur male child, just know that u have given birth to a potential sadist, sexual predator/rapist etc .

As per the female , well sometimes they enjoy getting smack on their bumbum so there he could some truths in this article

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